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It is the middle of the 99 Mardi Gras Festival and there is increasing criticism being directed at the organisation. You are welcome to discuss these topics here. Let's have an adult discussion: If you wish to dispute someone's point, attack the point and not the person.
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A blank wall!!!!!! Bitch bitch bitch.
Wed Feb 10 22:50:26 1999
Lets get back onto the bi topic!
I luv controversy - Thu Feb 11 0:36:44 1999
You mean the buy topic, as in how much more of Mardi Gras can Cobleedoch buy?
Thu Feb 11 1:32:04 1999
The Meaning of Mardi Gras - An Alternative View Like many in our diverse community, it was with an overwhelming sense of disappointment verging on disgust that I learnt of David McLachlan and his compliant board's silent rejection of membership applications by two passionately involved community members who identify as bisexual. These guys where honest - they didn't lie like so many straights apparently have - they had references and a highly respected legal opinion to support their appeal. Many gays and lesbians are complaining about the erosion of our identity as Mardi Gras becomes increasingly fashionable and tantalizingly attractive to the straight world. Many Mardi Gras members feel disillusioned that the current board has pursued a policy "where money talks and opens doors and can ultimately deliver real social and political change." (D. McLachlan SSO442). Human rights can not be bought. Unlike a sequined dress or a party ticket, equality can not be purchased with a credit card. Our community must realise that the right to be gay or lesbian is a basic human right. There really is no such thing as gay or lesbian rights for any right that a gay or lesbian can claim is a fundamental human right that should be available to all members of a society. Our campaign for equality is one that is based on the highest ethical principles and should not be undermined by the pursuit of the mythical pink dollar. In pursuing a misguided craving for acceptance at any cost the current board is risking the corruption of the true meaning of Mardi Gras. On one day in the year our community takes over the streets of the inner city to celebrate the possibility that a man can love a man and woman can love a woman. This is the essence of Mardi Gras. If you believe in the possibility of same-sex love and are willing to explore that possibility through active involvement in our community then you should not be barred from membership of Mardi Gras. How can we as a community campaign for equality for homosexuals and then turn around and discriminate against others who are just as marginalised and have joined us in the good fight? In 1978 when the police removed their badges and started to lay into the demonstrators did they ask who was gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender or straight? Wasn't the goal of the '78s the dismantling of limiting stereotypes and the discarding of derogatory labels? Hasn't our 21 year campaign of increasing visibility already changed the sexual-political landscape so that younger queers can more freely explore the fluidity of their identity? If the current board's policy of exclusion is pursued to its logical conclusion then the board is saying bisexuals and sympathetic heterosexuals can not identify with and support the basic human right of gays and lesbians to be themselves. The inevitable conclusion of such a partisan policy is that the board must give up its campaign to assert the rights of gays and lesbians to freely express their sexuality because such a campaign must be doomed to failure. This is the unavoidable consequence of the current board's approach to Mardi Gras membership. Therefore, like the Jews in Nazi Germany, we might as well barricade ourselves into our ghettos and wait for the SS to drag us of to the concentration camps. Our representatives on Mardi Gras' board should be first and foremost promoting Mardi Gras as a world class human rights organisation. The attitude that they should be actively encouraging is that for one night of the year the celebration of same-sex love rules and it is bad form to attend our events and behave in a contrary manner. David and his board should stop acting with "childlike excitement which leaves my stomach fluttering with anticipation" and behave with maturity by showing respect for all members of our diverse community. Michael Chapman. mcmc@netspace.net.au
Michael Chapman - Thu Feb 11 3:47:53 1999
Thanks Michael. There are obviously a lot of issues (fears) surrounding admitting bisexuals as members of MG. Lets see if we can identify and address these issues. One issue is the (irrational?) fear that g&l have about forming relationships with bis. Another is encouraging opposite-sex love at our celebrations. More?
Panther - Thu Feb 11 9:07:43 1999
Who cares about bi's....let's get rid of the straights!!!
Thu Feb 11 10:02:48 1999
I think a biggest problem with the bisexuals in SGLMG issue is that there is a huge gap between theories and reality. Sorry, Panther, a debate over the nature of homosexual identities is worthwhile, but at the moment it's useless in an environment of lies, hypocrisy, media manipulation & personal agendas. And maybe bisexuals have just got caught in the middle :-) of the increasingly urgent "keep MG g&l and straights out" debate. Theories are all very well, but what are the practical solutions? Here's a suggestion for membership I'm throwing out there, to contribute towards ideas for change: MG introduces a new structure. G&l's and trannies get automatic full membership, full voting rights, if recommended for membership by two existing members. Bis get automatic associate membership if recommended by two existing members, for a lesser fee, no voting rights, but can apply for full membership to the Board based on community affiliation. Straights get automatic associate membership if recommended by two existing members, for a lesser fee, no voting rights. Only full membership entitles you to purchase two tickets to the parties. Everyone gets discount provider and (better!)festival discount privileges. There's an amnesty for people changing membership status. The new system relies on honesty and works like other associations where there is an associate membership available. MG makes a declaration acknowledging support of and the place of, bis and straights within an organisation which is based on promoting and celebrating homosexuality and same sex love (&?). Any change involves a hell of a lot of controversy, communication, upheaval, work and expense for MG and maybe these sorts of ideas have been debated before (I don't know). But what are the alternatives? Things stay pretty much the way they are, gays and lesbians find their organisation indefensible against charges of discrimination and we lose out to the forces at work which are continually making it more confused, politicised, fractured, mainstream, straight and commercial.
fastlove - Thu Feb 11 12:14:22 1999
Biphobia, What Are You Scared Of? - An education campaign aimed at reducing biphobia within the gay and lesbian community - http://www.queer.org.au/~glenv/mardigras/biphobia.htm
Educate so you don't hate - Thu Feb 11 12:43:15 1999
fastlove, I don't think I can go with your proposal, I understand its merits, but it sends a message that bisexuals are second class queer citizens, this is something I could not accept. Mardi gras needs to broaden its mission statement to include bisexual and transgender people. Our battle for community acceptance based on who we love and f**k is the same.
Educate so you don't hate - Thu Feb 11 13:00:00 1999
Anyone see David McLachlan promoting the Mardi Gras party on E News last night? And for some reason bis are to blame for turning the parties straight.
Educate so you don't hate - Thu Feb 11 13:02:47 1999
Michael, thanks for your excellent explanation of "The Meaning Of Mardi Gras" I think all bis would agree with this whole heartedly. Yes Mardi Gras is a time for all of us to celebrate our same-sex attraction or transgender identity, and hopefully get a good bonk also :-)
Educate so you don't hate - Thu Feb 11 13:08:13 1999
The battle for community acceptance based on who we love is not the same for g&ls, and bis. When I do "battle for community acceptance" (or rather fight for the right to exist) it is on the basis that I am a gay man and only sleep with men, not that I sleep with both opposite and same sex partners. Besides, that argument continues to be about who you have sex with alone, not about the development of whole gay or lesbian subcultures, with their own language, institutions, literature, & art, not to mention aims and objectives. Bisexuals and those with "fluid sexuality" can support and participate in those subcultures, but they cannot define and produce them, because they are also part of the wider straight culture, and yes, have their very own bi identity and subculture too. If simply being different from straights, ie sleeping with same sex partners some or all of the time, had been the whole issue in '78, the g&l subcultures, would never have continued to flourish and grow (and fight amongst ourselves ;-). Even then it was predicted by some that we'd all just be absorbed into a big pan-sexual community - straights would accept us at the table, everyone would be treated the same. I will never apologise for being a gay man, I don't want to be treated, or "accepted", as the same as anyone else. I support cultural separatism, a strong g&l identity, a *g&l* MG, but also an acceptance and celebration of diversity and difference. No-one's identity is any "less", or "second class", but I cannot by definition expect to fully belong to a lesbian, transgender or bi organisation. So, "Educate", do you see SGLMG as the "umbrella" organisation for everyone not straight, and the ABN for bis only? I see MG as g&l, with, naturally, bi (and even straight) support and participation for the things we have in common. What are your thoughts on the Australian Bisexual Network? If there's MG, what's the point of the ABN?
fastlove - Thu Feb 11 14:02:44 1999
fastlove, our community is changing and that includes the gay and lesbian community, Mardi Gras has become old and slow and does not represent the youth of today. You keep bringing up the same arguments the religious right use against gay and lesbian culture destroying their culture. You should know better then to keep using this argument, especially since it has been used as an effective weapon against you....perhaps that's where you learnt it from. You know I'm sure the same argument was used to keep Lesbians from being fully involved in Mardi Mras... "Lesbians don't have the same culture as us, they will destroy what we have built"
Educate so you don't hate - Thu Feb 11 14:25:51 1999
fastlove, Mardi Gras represents all gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people. Which used to be called the gay community and is now called the queer community. Mardi Gras has in recent times been changed by the most powerful group of the gay/queer community to exclude us, not the other way round. Bisexuals are Gay also. I seem to be repeating my self on this point. And for your information, you are more then welcome to become a full member of ABN, we are inclusive.
Educate so you don't hate - Thu Feb 11 14:33:16 1999
While the arguments for and against Bi-sexuals see-saws across my screen with valid points from both sides it is obvious that neither will ever claim complete victory. Therfore, a solution to appease both is necessary. Perhaps if membership and renewal was slightly more discreet with a cut off date for full membership. You're reading this along with my friends and your friends along with you.
Pink Soldier - Thu Feb 11 15:20:24 1999
If I was a member of ABN I'd vote to exclude gays and lesbians from full membership. Isn't Pride supposed to be our umbrella organisation? And as far as protecting culture, it is a valid argument - I think ethnic, religious and sexual groups all have a right to protect their own culture. According to Kinsey etc bisexuals would by far be a bigger group in society than gay men or lesbians. And I think a common fear is that many people happy to call themselves bisexuals but *not* supportive or understanding of g&l culture would promptly join MG and - as I've said - it would simply be different.
fastlove - Thu Feb 11 15:22:11 1999
fastlove,I have read your insightful comments today and I have to note that in 1978 we marched for inclusion and equality. So that we would have the same rights as everyone else. In this the spirit of Mardi Gras was forged. It was forged as a weapon, yes a weapon, to be used against prejudice, phobia and ignorance. It was comprised of Gay Men, Lesbians, Transgender people, Bisexuals and their myriad of supporters. To state that Mardi Gras could *become* an umbrella organisation is a little ironic for me- as it started out that way. Mardi Gras was ther to accommodate the same-sex issue that we all have. Now, to restrict it simply takes away from what it (MG) was formed for. ABN (and I can only speak from some peripheral knowledge) is an organisation for Bisexuals and their supporters. As far as I know there are no exclusions (and I may be wrong). Bisexuals were accepted by Mardi Gras under the original spirit of the march and celebrations. Whilst Pride has supported bisexuals, so too has Mardi Gras (in the past) the start of the non-support was in 1995. It could be that perhaps a strictly G&L organisation needs to be formed under the umbrella of Mardi Gras. Remember, Mardi Gras was *not* formed for purely G&L auspices, it was formed as a demonstration and cohesive force against same-sex prejudice. This was it's spirit and should remain so. As an aside, I wonder how many other 78ers are still associated with what Mardi Gras has become?
A 78er - Thu Feb 11 16:12:27 1999
fastlove, I think that, again, the issue needs to be that of acceptance of same-sex relationships. If that is the cornerstone of the issue (and I believe that it must be, due to the fact that this is what we fought to achieve) then bisexuals (by rote) *are* a part of the community and as such *should* barring prejudice, fear and misunderstanding, be allowed to Mardi Gras - as they were before the 1995 decision.
A 78er - Thu Feb 11 16:18:09 1999
If your assumption about there being more bisexuals is correct, why has there *never* been a bisexual take-over of any GLBT community organisation in Australia or the rest of the world? And where are they? I would like to meet them. Pride is the umbrella group in many places except Sydney, Mardi Gras is the premier organisation that the mainstream community sees as representing all queer/gay/glbt people. Ask any straight people you know this question "Do you think Bisexuals are represented by Mardi Gras" they will say yes. This is not through ignorance, Mardi Gras presidents have gone out of their way to state this in the past. Also we were involved all along, it is not up until recently we have been kicked out.
Educate so you don't hate - Thu Feb 11 16:30:31 1999
So the only issue affecting Mardi Gras at the moment is the inclusion or exclusion of bisexuals. Really? Without bisexual members, which the Board are successfully stopping, there will be no real representation at all and any concessions given will be tokenism by concerned gays & lesbians. Reality of the MG political process dictates that you must be on the "A" list to get elected - bisexuals don't stand a chance. We, the community, can't even get a fair representation of our 'own' on the Board, so god help any minor minority. Until the electoral system at MG is changed by its members, this bisexual inclusive debate is irrelevant. Sorry guys and girls of the bisexual community - that's the reality.
Electroral Reform - 6 Mths to AGM - Thu Feb 11 19:17:14 1999
I'm sure someone has already thought of this but I don't have time to read all the messages. Oscar Wilde was a married bisexual father, would he have been banned from the Mardi Gras?
god_stomper - Thu Feb 11 19:48:46 1999
tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick...
Thu Feb 11 20:47:56 1999
Electoral Reform, I couldn't agree with you more, there is negligible representation of GLBT youth, mature aged, ethnic let alone queer, tranny or bi. The current system does not allow this. We currently have David McLachlan telling us to play the game, but as you have said what chance do we have under such a insular regime that only promotes a monoculture for the powerful. Although if we keep pushing just as gays and lesbians have done in mainstream society, we can gain fair representation for our diverse community.
Educate so you don't hate - Thu Feb 11 23:15:43 1999
fastlove, why would we vote to exclude people that share our goals? Is this not defeatist?......Where does this lead? Oops stupid question :-)
Educate so you don't hate - Thu Feb 11 23:46:39 1999
The one thing you can say about David Mclachlan - he's got a great voice for print!
maxy rowley - Fri Feb 12 1:26:48 1999
Let's stick to the issues and not make nasty personal remarks.
Fri Feb 12 6:51:01 1999
I can hardly believe that the bi issue has generated so much response. I am saddened and ashamed by the level of bigotry that still exists within MY community. And MY community includes bi's. What is it with you separatist poofs and dykes? Just where do you want your separatist views to take you in ten or twenty years time? As a gay man, I welcome bi's like I do any gay man or lesbian. This discussion is turning this wall into a wall of shame.
Technowarrior - Fri Feb 12 9:50:57 1999
This wall maybe a wall of shame. But if it is, then Mardi Gras must be an organisation of shame.
Let the debate continue - Fri Feb 12 11:48:24 1999
but is it a debate anymore? I think by now anyone reading this has their set beliefs and they ain't about to change anymore. Good points from both sides but it's kinda run its course now. If it were a voting issue then time to vote and reach a conclusion. On a graffiti wall though, there is no resolution possible, so it drags on after all valid points have been made.
GG - Fri Feb 12 11:56:14 1999
I'm sick of being accused of bigotry when I'm trying to stick up for my beliefs - and I don't aim to abuse or belittle anyone else's, either. We're trying to debate something serious and I've tried to think it all through. To me, it's not about keeping bi people "out" but how gay men and lesbians include them in our - yes our - organisation (see my suggestions above). We're so used to the "discrimination of minorities" model, I can understand why people frame this question in those terms. But while there's no issue quite like this one, I see it as something like the old issues about men being involved in feminist organisations. Straight men sleep with and are in relationships with straight women, try to understand their p.o.v., have families and participate in straight society and culture with them. At what level should they then support and participate in feminist women's advocacy groups? Some of them were there supporting women when they founded such groups, they marched and protested alongside women too and believed in what they were trying to achieve for *everyone*. But how else should men be involved? Should they be able to make monetary and other contributions to women's feminist organisations, attend functions & festivals, debate issues, actually be members of the organisations, then set policy, be president....? Where do you draw the boundaries? I see SGLMG as an advocacy group for gays and lesbians, a promoter of our culture, and that does include same-sex love, but it's so much more than that. It's about more than who you sleep with, it's about who you are, and what you want for your "exclusive" by nature same-sex subculture. I'm all for people in SGLMG including bisexuals if they genuinely want to pursue and follow the aims and vision the organisation has for gay men and lesbians. I hope that is what comes of the upcoming working party and vote on SGLMG membership.
fastlove - Fri Feb 12 12:15:11 1999
OK GG - you're right, the bi issue is being brought up in SGLMG and there are other important issues, like the electoral system, to talk about. I've windbagged myself out. But anyone should still have the opportunity to have a say...
fastlove - Fri Feb 12 12:18:53 1999
fastlove, although we vastly have differing opinions, I would like to thank you for your detailed explanation of your beliefs and also having the courage to admit your fears. It is a far cry from the standard phobic responses we usually receive (although I feel the practice of your beliefs are responsible for them). I respect your beliefs and can see valid points for you defending them. I guess our argument comes down to how we see Mardi Gras the organisation, you see it as an "advocacy group for gays and lesbians, a promoter of our culture", we see it as that plus a "political tool to promote change and an organisation that includes and represents bisexual and transgender people." So the only difference in our beliefs is one of scope, we ask that Mardi Gras is broadened to include us, you say that this will weaken its focus. We say it is big enough to include us all and still be potent, you say we want all of the cake to our selves and we are not going to give you one little piece.
Educate so you don't hate - Fri Feb 12 13:03:37 1999
Panther, suggestion - Get Techno, Fastlove, Educate.. - your main contributors all together for dinner one night - What a fascinating dinner it would be.
Support US - Fri Feb 12 14:07:41 1999
Ok about voting. Gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender all get equal voting and membership rights, the mission statement and articles are changed to included bisexual and transgender. This has recently happen to ILGA (International Lesbian and Gay Association). Note no name change, we also don't want a name change. Would be interesting to see how SGLMG board member Jennifer Wilson stands on this issue, as she is Co-chair of ILGA.
Educate so you don't hate - Fri Feb 12 14:08:52 1999
Also include 78er in the dinner...hmm perhaps a public debate rather then a dinner would be better. I've been waiting for an opportunity to ask fastlove if his idea of creating a gay and lesbian culture that includes its own language, institutions, literature, & art, goes so far as to include creating and raising gay and lesbian children :-) (yes I'm taking the piss)
Educate so you don't hate - Fri Feb 12 14:17:37 1999
The political *is* personal.
Fri Feb 12 14:26:52 1999
Educate so you don't hate - More to the point. How can Bev Lange go from mardi gras (a gay and lesbian org) to being president of OUT-FM, which claims to be broader in its scope (ie includes bis, transgender, queers). Or wasn't the board so exclusionary when she was President?
Bring back Bev - all is forgiven - Fri Feb 12 16:25:55 1999
fastlove your: logic is really questionable and I think you should admit who you really are - your diatribes are giving your identity away and it makes me very concerned out Mardi Gras'Future Direction Process.
Fri Feb 12 16:28:04 1999
Dear All, Just a few words (I hope) in light of the recent bi-inculsive debate. I’ve been trying to find the time to post, and in the meantime this discussion has taken some very interesting turns. I figure I may as well put my two cents in. As a 27 yo selectively closeted bi boy, I have found the ABN and affiliated societies to be supportive and welcoming. I saw and marched in my first MG last year with Bi Pride and had a fabulous time. The whole experience helped me to come to terms with my own sexuality, and reinforced my belief that everybody could get along, if only for one night of the year. It was a great pleasure to meet Tom Robinson, one of the great landmarks of queer protest. It then became apparent that MG didn’t want to know about him.. he seemed unconcerned. He’d been performing around OzBiCon in between touring and having a fab time. This was the first time I was made aware that everything was not so rosy. The week after the Parade, I was contacted by a workmate who also sang with my local G&L choir. (I also performed in a community choir at the time..)The message went along the lines of “Great! I didn’t know you qualified! Come and sing with us! Of course, some of us are a little funny about bis joining... not everyone.. well, not everyone on the Committee..” I didn’t need that kind of stress, and politely declined. I have since been convinced that a fairly substantial portion of society (from all sides of the sexual spectrum) was not going to be comfortable with me. Being out to a very select group was tricky enough - I just didn’t need to be confronted from all sides. As a result, I didn’t join my local bi group, didn’t attempt to be active in queer politics, and have simmered in my own juices (pardon the pun) for most of last year, while looking forward to MG ‘99. I have been encouraged by the recent debate on the inclusion of Bi folks in MG. It’s good to see folks actively discussing their feelings (I’d love to be a fly on the wall during that dinner party / debate / whatever, Educate, fastlove et al!), and the way the debate has progressed is, I think, positive. The media coverage has been, for the most part, unfortunate - must every second shot be of a Dancing Boy or a Dyke on a Byke? However, if the people in the know (ie you folks and everyone you discuss this with) continue to talk this through, I’m confident we’ll work something out. I think the changes being mooted by Educate are optimistic, but worth proposing. On the subject of media again - here in Canberra, there has been an interesting little storm in a teacup, or should that be a steam bath? Some local businesses have been ganging up on a baths in a small shopping centre, and the media dived in with some predictably shallow gay-bashing. After a storm of letters to a local newspaper (none of which have been published to date), the press is laying very low and hoping the issue will go away. Don't let the bastards turn this against us either. If MG comes out of this year’s issues a stronger, more focused organisation with a new agenda, be it progressive or not, then that can only be a good thing, yes? Wow - who would have thought I had it in me? That’s about all I have to say on the issue. Don’t let the turkeys get you down, and have a fabulous festival. I’m not approaching my second parade with ‘childlike excitement’ - but I am looking forward to being dragged off the street and hugged by complete strangers who admire what I’m marching for. Oh, and if you could light the tower up a pretty colour again, that would be nice. Love and more power to you all.
Seagoon - Fri Feb 12 16:46:00 1999
Ack - apologies folks. I didn't realise the board would kill my formatting. Hope it's not too ponderous a read.
Seagoon - Fri Feb 12 16:51:39 1999
Home no's nothing about the mardi gras alternative party as stated in capital Q today, as the management of home said on out fm, that it was news to him, know one had approached them at all about doing an alternative party.
Fri Feb 12 17:05:15 1999
Hi Seagoon, hope you will be joining us again for the parade, this year our group is called Bi-versity, we will be celebrating the wonderful diversity of bisexuals from all over Australia and some from around the world.
Educate so you don't hate - Fri Feb 12 17:18:17 1999
For those of you just joining the bisexuals and Mardi Gras debate, find out more from this site - http://www.queer.org.au/~glenv/mardigras/
Educate - Fri Feb 12 17:29:06 1999
Fastlove - or should we say Councillor Fastlove - or accurately, onetime Councillor Fastlove. By the way, what did he play on the piano?
Some of us do remember - Fri Feb 12 17:32:18 1999
Re-Home. Is there not a contradiction in the reporting and, Quoting, of the president in Thurs SSO and Fridays Capital Q ?
It stinks! - Fri Feb 12 18:22:42 1999
Dinner! Eek. I wouldn't be so concerned about what clothes to wear but rather what mask I should wear!
Technowarrior - Fri Feb 12 19:13:34 1999
PS. Can I sit next to Educate and on the other side of the table from Fastlove?
Technowarrior (just trying to lighten this up a little) - Fri Feb 12 19:18:48 1999
Would Richard Cobden be invited too?
Fri Feb 12 21:06:32 1999
That would mean it would be a "Slap Up" dinner.
What are you doing on Thurday morning? - Fri Feb 12 21:53:46 1999
Yeah, and if you sold tickets, it'd be a sure fire hit.
Fri Feb 12 23:35:14 1999
I'll happily come to dinner, especially if a few Mardi Gras Board members are there, too. This style of debate is exactly what they need to hear. The reality of the community, not the dollars and/or prestige. I noted that a few times the President said 'I understand' (in the radio interview on OUT.FM on Thursday, when the points were raised and he had no rejoiner) and that this issue is 'going to be looked at' or 'going to the community' (in the Gay and mainstream press). If this is so, good. If he means this year, better. If he means now, excellent. That will show good leadership. However, if due process is followed, there will probably be a Board meeting (*after* Mardi Gras), followed by a news release, followed by a working party, followed by a report to be debated at Board level, followed by a possible Agenda item at the next AGM - when everything has blown over. A successful tactic - and if I were wanting the issue and swinging voters on my side - and one *I* would use. No, I would recommend calling an EGM (and if possible, calling it now) to address the issue while topical and people are insensed enough, not just wait for the media, passion and interest to die down and the swinging voters to say "What will come of it anyway? the votes would be stacked." (This was said by a few people, to me, in 1995 before the Bi-inclusion vote. People expected it to lose, because they expected the Board to get proxies and to stack the issue. The fact that the issue has to be voted on several times [with a certain high-profile lawyer re-wording the motion - several times - so that it would finally pass] before it was passed is something that I believe has escaped notice - and perhaps the records.) I would hope that the issue is debated on and some form of community consultative action be taken during this festival. What better way to show a coming of age, than to make a right decision in a morass of popularist ones?
A 78er - Sat Feb 13 1:21:58 1999
Why can't more presidents be more like Patmore? beloved in retirement instead of slapping their way around trying to become gay royalty.
Sat Feb 13 1:25:28 1999
Question:If you were part of a group whose common interest was, say wine appreciation, would you allow it to be over run by lemonade lovers? I'd fight tooth & nail to keep the "group" focused on the common aims, goals & passions of the group. What if your wine group is "world famous" ...gate crashers every where, every one wants a taste?. You have a agm & the result from the members is clear..wine not lemonade! You then find that the lemonade drinkers decide that they now prefer wine & the short gain benefits. ie: a 10 hour, once a year party! how do you handle it? Is the group & celebration for wine lovers or all lovers of liquids? Is your group weakened or not? Now, Ask mardi gras about the ever increasing bi-sexual member requests. apparently there have been mass conversions ( if only) but only for 10 hours a year! Let's face it most of these people are confirmed beer drinkers! Sure , there are people who straddle both groups, but how the hell do you seperate the genuine from the frauds?
don't prentend to know all the answers - Sat Feb 13 1:44:29 1999
I would have to decline if he was there. I couldn't be seen at the same table. But then, if I was wearing a mask ....
Technowarrior - Sat Feb 13 1:45:14 1999
Rob Patmore now lives in Poland.
Figure that one out - Sat Feb 13 2:17:23 1999
But could the Chardonay sippers ever reconsile themselves with the Cab Sav quoffers? And what about the Champagne set, could you really trust them?
Boli Soli for me! - Sat Feb 13 4:45:59 1999
But could the Chardonay sippers ever reconsile themselves with the Cab Sav quoffers? And what about the Champagne set, could you really trust them?
Boli Stoli for me! - Sat Feb 13 4:53:45 1999
of course Slapper could turn the lemonade into wine. After all isn't that what he's doing now?
Sat Feb 13 8:28:13 1999
I agree with don't pretend...I'd love to join the Aboriginal dance troupe, but I am white.
simple - Sat Feb 13 8:55:39 1999
"don't pretend ..." and "simple" seem to have missed the point somewhat. Bis have been members of Mardi Gras until now. I've been a volunteer longer than I've been a member & I'm bi. More to the point, I don't 'straddle' any two groups, I have always been part of the GLBT community. I'm annoyed that anyone would suggest otherwise.
Lizz K - Sat Feb 13 10:09:24 1999
Don't pretend - "Straddle" what are you talking about! I've already explained that we do not suffer from multiple personality syndrome. We are always bisexual, not a 50/50 make up of gay and straight, to suggest otherwise is to show your ignorance and lack of knowledge about bisexuals. It is like saying a gay leather man "straddles" two communities, the leather and the gay, of course this is ridiculous, we are all part of the same community just subcultures within it.
Educate - Sat Feb 13 10:18:13 1999
Don't pretend - Your ignorance has really annoyed me, I had my team leader at work having go at me yesterday, about bringing my personal life into work, because I was talking about Mardi Gras (standard homophobic response). He didn't say to him self, I will not react in a homophobic manner, as he is half straight. Can you not see that your attitude is biphobic, and not only do we have to receive these biphobic reponses from people such as your self, but we also have to deal with homophobia from people like my team leader.
Educate - Sat Feb 13 10:39:30 1999
don't pretend and simple: The "former director of the Northern Territory's Aboriginal Development Unit, tells the story of the first Aboriginal design stand at the 1997 Australian fashion Week: 'Linda [Jackson] brought fashion editors from all over the world to see us, she even brought along the editor of Italian Vogue, she introduced her and made sure she had a really good look at our work... That's what she's like - generous. Some people who are hired to work with Aboriginals go in, do the job and get out. Linda doesn't just help with paint. She's there, she stays. I would class her as a real partner in Aboriginal development.'" - SMH Good Weekend 13th February, 1999 Story on Fashion Designer & Artist Linda Jackson (she a white girl from the Melbourne seaside suburb of Beaumaris).
mcmc@netspace.net.au - Sat Feb 13 15:50:04 1999
while we're on the subject of aboriginal culture and who can participate with them and help forward their campaign for recognition and acceptance. lets look at the national aboriginal and islander skills development association (naisda), better known as the aboriginal and torres straight islander dance theatre. paul saliba, a founding teacher of the association, is a maltese australian from adelaide. he was a character dancer with the first and highly acclaimed australian ballet tour to new york in the '70s. in fact martha graham invited him to join her company which he did. on his return to australia he was asked to help with the naissant aboriginal and torres straight islander dance theatre. he is now considered by indigenous australians as an elder and is allowed to wear the paint markings of an elder and to perform cleansing/healing ceremonies. he is intimately involved with indigenous culture, cares deeply for each of his students and is like a father figure to many of the shining lights of indigenous dance. paul's longtime boy friend (they met and fell in love at a mardi gras party about 15 years ago) is jacques tchong, a well known designer of innovative and very sexy party clothes. jacques also designs many of the innovative and sexy costumes that the naisda dancers perform in. jacques is chinese. by simple's (and by extension fastlove's) definition they should not be involved at all. admittedly, in the 70s and early 80s there was a strong argument within indigenous communities about doing it all themselves. however, they soon realised that to develop their skills and further their cause they needed to involve wider society. now in the late 90s they are closer to acceptance than they have ever been. let's learn from (as well help) our indigenous brothers and sisters. they are campaigning for basic human rights too.
mcmc@netspace.net.au - Sat Feb 13 17:23:56 1999
Panther: there's something wrong with your shouting filter. I had to remove all caps (ie the gramatically correct ones in the above post before it was accepted). I wasn't shouting at all.
Sat Feb 13 17:28:17 1999
Now lets look at "purity of blood" (ie how gay or lesbian should you be). Wendy Brady is a Mardi Gras board member who is also one our community's indigenous representatives and is actively involved in indigenous affairs. However, she is not a "full blood Aboriginal." Is she living a lie? Certainly, by Simple's definition. How indigenous is indigenous? How gay is gay? How lesbian is lesbian? As someone of "pure homosexual blood" (I've never had sex with a woman) I have no problem with belonging to a human rights organisation that celebrates same-sex love what ever the gender or circumstance (ie I don't hate women - in fact, I think lesbians are now in the forefront of the cultural cutting edge - nor am I offended by bisexuals). I welcome anyone who'll actively support my basic human right to love whom I choose. In turn, I support the right of anyone else to love whom they choose. Perhaps gays and lesbians who have a problem with bisexuals may have some big problems with their own identity. (Maybe they once slept with the opposite sex and liked it and now they don't know how to resolve this mixed feeling. Perhaps it is just fear of the unknown.) I look forward to living in a society where it does not matter who you love - a society that supports and does not vilify or persecute you for your choice. Now, that is true freedom. Society will never change if we continue to have a ghetto mentality. Human rights are for everyone. In the end it is a numbers game. The more people who support the recognition of basic human rights the closer everyone will be to equality before the law.
mcmc@netspace.net.au - Sat Feb 13 17:41:48 1999
Actually, there's an interesting parallel here (The following question is meant as illustrative as opposed to political) I ask the following question: Should a child of an aboriginal and a non-aboriginal be welcomed into the aboriginal community? I think you can all see the parallele to the bisexual issue here.
A 78er - Sat Feb 13 18:31:55 1999
To clearly answer my own question: Yes, the child of an aboriginal and a non-aboriginal should be allowed into the aboriginal community. The fact that they are of mixed hertitage, does *not* suddenly dissolve the genetic links to their aboriginal roots.
A 78er - Sat Feb 13 18:39:36 1999
mcmc, recognition of human rights for those who have same-sex relationships is wjay we marched for in 1978. I agree with your thoughts.
A 78er - Sat Feb 13 18:53:08 1999
Maybe it's fear of being 'swamped' or subsumed into the mainstream that people fear when they cling to narrow definitions of their community. I understand that. Sometimes I fear it myself and get mighty pissed off when I see 'straights' who already have 95% of everything trying to push their way into what little ground we've been able to grab, execting to be welcomed with open arms just because they 'like to party too'. But I also enjoy seeing more people breaking out of their 'straight' cocoons and accepting that they have another side. The problem is that Mardi Gras itself has sold our culture to the mainstream for profit, and it is Mardi Gras that most threatens our culture. But the fact is that a new generation of 'queers' who don't give a toss for 'tolerance' are growing up and they will step over the top of Mardi Gras and take the lead when their time comes. We 'elders' won't like what they do a lot I suspect, as is always the case with generation gaps. but what becomes of what we once called the Sydney Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras? I wish I knew.
EC - Sat Feb 13 19:19:25 1999
Why are these 'queers' not being encouraged to have an input into Mardi Gras' direction. They are aware that the freedom they enjoy today has been created by those who came before them. Why do those before them despise what they have created? They are *our* future, and have so much to offer, lets embrace them and help them grow.
old gay hippy. - Sat Feb 13 22:24:27 1999
If, old gay hippy, you are referring to the current Mardi Gras Board, I don't despise those who have taken the reigns of Mardi Gras, just some of the directions they have taken it in. I marched and protested for recognition and acceptance, not for us to start discriminating against our own. If, however, you are referring to the new (read: younger) members of our community, I don't despise them and indeed I applaud that they have taken it upon themselves to stand up and be counted - in essence continuing our fight against oppression, phobia and discrimination. The spirit of Mardi Gras exists in this younger generation, those who are not entrenched in a ghetto and enclaving mentality and are willing to speak out against the very things which we spoke out against 21 years ago.
A 78er - Sun Feb 14 0:20:16 1999
Instead Patmore is now just trying to become royalty.
Technowarrior - Sun Feb 14 9:28:33 1999
Mardi Gras has welcomed queers and straights into their festival.check out "Queering the mix" at the Performance Space..at least 50% of the performers in that event are straight or "queer" (nb. good name to call heteros when they are invloved in the gay and lesbian community) So it's happening folks right under our noses, and perpetrated by us. So let's relax with it, it's not going to go away, it is here sanctioned by Mardi Gras..
Sun Feb 14 9:45:55 1999
It would be very hard to find a full blooded aboriginal person anywhere today, maybe still remote areas (please correct me if I'm wrong). I value Aboriginal culture, and hope they get everything they deserve. I always wonder why mixed blood aboriginals, (and this can be anything from 50 -75 % white) never celebrate their whiteness as well as their blackness ? Is being white so bloody awful ? I understand white history in this country, but you can't damn the whole anglo saxon race. Just as the bi-sexual celebrates his/her life and enjoys both men and women why don't mixed blood Australians ? A lot of Aboriginal sports stars, entertainers etc. that have gained recognition are actually half white, and basically have got where they are because of the white influence...I'm not a racist and am half black myself, but I can see that I have good and bad points from both halves and unique because of it.
stella - Sun Feb 14 9:55:06 1999
Dannii faux pas #1,000,378. Did anyone see Hey hey it's Saturday last night? Dannii put her insulting foot in it again. Scenario: Red faces act..Obvious straight girl, plump, frizzy dyed perm, squeezed into a short leather skirt, bra top with white shirt..looking very westy/suburban and het sreeches out a Led Zepplin song. She is gonged. Danni marks her a 5..and suggests that there would be quite a few "girls at mardi gras" that might be interested in her. Dannii needs to learn some manners fast...my girlfriend and I were shocked and hurt to hear her make such a comment on National television. She was insinuating that "girls at mardi gras" might find this woman attractive ? or that she perceives that lesbians look like this woman ? To say the least it was so insulting, but not as insulting as Dannii herself spouting "mardi gras" in every sentence she could. Is this our "icon", a mean mouthed up herself little bitch ? I wonder if Mardi gras realise that their little star is spewing lesbophobic comments on National Tv..O well in the words of the lesbian empress of Australia and I quote "Dannii doesn't even like lesbians" I rest my case.
beware - Sun Feb 14 10:12:19 1999
This may be alittle off topic, but I amwondering whether or not the whole Dannii thing and the whole besexual thing is connected. Mardi Gras says: Lets have Dannii as the lead singer on the first MG record, lets have Dannii as our popularist icon. Then they dare to ban people (who have worked hard for the community and in the community - enriching the community with their efforts whilst being) in same-sex relationships. I am starting to question the wider motives of the Board. is the banning of bisexuals a knee-jerk reaction to using Danni, to try and restore the status quo? "Oh, we're using Dannii (who is allegedly straight) but we're not allowing a dilution of our Mardi Gras, see? We're banning those horrid bisexuals who dilute our purity." I must add that this is a supposition on my part. For the record, Dannii has actually stated that she wasn't appearing *at* Mardi Gras (on National TV) that she would defer to Cher, however I wonder if that's classic Mardi Gras influenced misdirection (I know people who have worked with MG before and I know most of the tricks).So, lets see what happens at the party and what happens thereafter. As a presumptory side note, Mardi Gras may (because of the publicity) decide to accept the memberships of Messers Durber and Vassallo et al to quieten things down. I think the issue is now way beyond these two cases.
A 78er - Sun Feb 14 10:49:19 1999
dear 'performance space', yes Mardi Gras has welcomed the Queer Community (esp. the bisexual members) into the Festival and the events for a long time, Club bENT is one of the things which springs to mind readily. However, I hasten to add that whilst they may welcome these people into the celebration, they are now outlwaing them from the organisation proper. This is the bone of contention, along with the long-standing prejudice against bisexuals. You mentioned straights, well I have to add that many straights marched with us in 1978 to *support* the views we held and hold. We welcomed the support and I welcome the support now. However, I (personally) don't believe that the hetrosexual community have a place in joining MG (the organisation) at all. This is due to the fact that they don't have same-sex relationships. Remember, people, this is the crux of the matter.
A 78er - Sun Feb 14 10:55:12 1999
And isn't is strange that Dunnii is immitating bisexuality on the video clip! So Mardi Gras records promotes bisexual activity but doesn't allow members of bisexual community to become members. Also Mardi Gras makes the rest of the world think it represents bisexuals while not even allowing them membership.
Educate - Sun Feb 14 12:25:33 1999
I also find it insulting that they encourage a straight flicky hair girl to pretend to be bisexual. I've gone through a lot to come out as bisexual, loss of friends, family, etc. and now we have Mardi Gras telling us we are not OK, while supporting Dunnii and her film clip. This makes a mockery of all the pain and struggle I have gone through, and it certainly is not acceptible. How about at the very least you respect us Mardi Gras.
Educate - Sun Feb 14 12:32:37 1999
Not having watched Hey, Hey I'm probably not ideally qualified to comment, but I'd really love to know what point Dannii thought she was making. 1stly, everyone has different taste, so it is probable that someone out there in TV-land would have found this woman appealing - was Dannii trying to bag them? Why? Was she trying to imply that all lesbians like the same type of woman ? Why bother ? Was she trying to tell the guys who like this woman that they have competition ? You see, I'm struggling to come up with any sensible reasons for such a comment. So it seems to me that Dannii is possibly lesbophobic, but certainly stupid.
Lizz K - Sun Feb 14 12:41:08 1999
What would Slapper's great friend Susan Harben say about Danni's performance on Hey Hey? Would she approve?
Sun Feb 14 18:02:42 1999
Today was Fair Day. I was apalled at two things. (1) It was stated to me (by someone in the BGF organsation) that Mardi Gras told BGF that they could not collect money at *their* Fair day. That is atrocious behaviour (if true). However, when BGF pointed out that it was a public park and that they were a regisatered charity, BGF (allegedly) received no reply. I am beginning to believe that this may well be true, as I asked some BGF donation-collectors today, and they confirmed it. I don't think that I *can* comment on that issue any further, the reaction from most of us should be fairly self-evident. Grow up, mardi Gras! (2) Now, the icing on the cake (even moreso than trying to refuse BGF collection-rights). I am aware that one of the bisexuals denied MG membership was at the Fair Day today handing out anti-biphobia pamphlets. I got one and noted that it was not inflammatory. When Glenn approached the MG information tent, to ask if they would let him put his anti-biphobia pamphlets on their desk, they allegedly told him that he was *not* permitted to hand out his pamphlets in the park. This is becoming more than a joke. This is now becoming insulting.
Disgusted - Sun Feb 14 18:52:50 1999
Fastlove, perhaps you can explain why it's alright for Mardi Gras to put endless straight performers on their payrole for the parties but not allow bisexuals as members.
Sun Feb 14 19:38:04 1999
Panther is censoring the walls. You can tell where because on this wall the white dividing line becomes a dark line (i.e. after Thu Feb 11 1:32:04 1999 and after Technowarrior (just trying to lighten this up a little) - Fri Feb 12 19:18:48 1999) on the other walls you get two colour blocks together (i.e. orange orange or white white instead of orange white orange). Naughty Panther. What ever happen to free speech?
How long will this post last! - Sun Feb 14 19:57:53 1999
Who is Danni?
Sun Feb 14 22:27:05 1999
Mardi Gras has no right to stop anybody handing out anything at fair day, as it is a public place. And it doesn't surprise me that Mardi Gras told BGF that they could'nt collect money at the fair, because mardi gras are greedy and want every sent for themselves, the same as mardi gras don't offer any finacial help to BGF for the seating for the parade which cost's thousands of dollars. In fact Mardi Gras doesn't help anybody just themselves.
bring back the good old days: - Sun Feb 14 23:46:15 1999
If Mardi Gras helped BGF in the seating, the cost of the seating would be cheaper. Don't blame BGF for the cost of seating, blame Mardi Gras and their so-called help toward 'their' community.
Mon Feb 15 0:22:01 1999
I've thought a lot about the issue of bisexuality and mardi gras over the last couple of weeks and the debate here has really helped me sort out my position (and I write this as a gay man). My idea of Mardi Gras is as an organisation which is progressive and committed to social justice. I reckon MG is fundamentally about promoting the legitimacy of homosex (and, by extension, the developement of gay and lesbian cultures based on same-sex experience), regardless of whether that sex takes place amongst women or men, and regardless of whether or not it is the only form of sexual expression in someone's sexual repertoir. Excluding bisexual people from Mardi Gras membership shows a very limited (and out-of-date) view of human sexuality. Not everone's sexuality nicely fits a category on a questionnaire. I would rather people join Mardi Gras because they were willing and prepared to publicly state their commitment to the validity of homosex. That would mean that anybody - yep anybody, whether they identified as gay, lesbian, bisexual, or straight could join the organisation as a full member - but here's the catch - provided that they were prepared to have their name publicly published as a member of the organisation. What this would indicate was not necessarily their sexuality, but their position on homosex, ie that they supported the legitimacy of same-sex sex. In my opinion, the things that really matter are the aims and objectives of Mardi Gras as an organisation which exists to promote the legitimacy of homosex, not who is allowed to join. And yes it would require courage on the part of the membership - the same sort of courage the people in the first mardi gras needed to be visible in their determination to achieve justice.
kevin markwell (keanu) - Mon Feb 15 0:23:10 1999
I think I would modify your idea to having all people prepared to be published, but I think those identifying as 'straight' should only be given an Associate membership - no voting rights, no right to tickets, but discounts to events and stores.
cautious - Mon Feb 15 0:47:54 1999
fastlove: hello, are still there or has your cover been blown as well as your argument?
Mon Feb 15 1:05:39 1999
Didn't David McLachlan try to stop some people from joining the Gay and Lesbian Rights Lobby when he was the Co-Convenor. Is it a case of the leotard not changing his spots?
Mon Feb 15 2:07:11 1999
How long will this post last - Can't you read? I said those comments were welcome here, not on the Parade and Party wall. Yes I am editing that wall, and apart from your whinging it has lifted the tone. I have now heard of 2 separate announcers on OUT-FM comment about the whinging. As to free speech, there is nothing stopping you putting up your own web site and doing what you want with it. I have never claimed that Pinkboard is a home for free speech. However Pinkboard has become a place where these debates can continue, and I am allowing honest debate to continue.

The reason I have separated the debate from the celebration is that Mardi Gras, the event, is a cause for celebration. Let people enjoy the celebration without being constantly bombarded with complaint. We have come a long way in the years since Stonewall and the first Mardi Gras. There is still a long way to go, however.

I am quite upset that the organisation seems to be defying members wishes. I hope to find out the truth, the whole truth. We still need to be united in our fight and disunity in such an important organisation can destroy us all.
Panther - Mon Feb 15 8:54:58 1999


Who invited the Mavis's to play at Fair day..they sucked..the sound was distorted and far too loud..they were a very average hard rock band, where do they fit it ? orrible music!!!!
Mon Feb 15 9:01:00 1999
Actually, Panther, to cull the bitching is important, but in my humble opinion, to cull the debate - if applicable and related to the specific board (ie: Festival/Parade/Party et al) paints an incomplete picture of the issues. Again, great job on the walls, but please consider keeping relevant negative comment in the appropriate areas to paint a truer picture - and not something which is falsely (in appearance) all unified.
suggestive - Mon Feb 15 11:17:18 1999
The Fair Day. Well, people above have mentioned the apalling issue of having BGF being asked *not* to collect money at the Mardi Gras Fair Day. I ask the Board: "Why?" .. and they had better have a *good* (not clever) explanation. I also note that they tried to stop a bisexual person from handing out their pamphlets as well: "Why?" I can only assume that the pamphlets were obscene, because surely Mardi Gras would not stop a community member handing out pamphlets about anti-biphobia. Anti phobia is one of the central tennets on which Mardi Gras was formed. I actually have one of the pink pamphlets in front of me and I see nothing obscene about it. I also note that there was no bisexual stand at Fair Day. The question begs: "Were they stopped from having a stall?" With the current stance of Mardi Gras toward bisexuals (see Capital Q this week along with S.S.O, OUT.FM, etc) I would not be surprised, but I am only speculating as I have no information, thus I ask. I know that someone asked at the ionformation tent about a Bi-Pride stand and was told: "No, there is no bisexual stand, but there is someone surruptitiously handing out leaflets." Sounds very ugly, I think. The bulk of Fair Day was nice, but the drinks were over-priced (Coke $2.50 as opposed to 85c at Franklins and $1.20 at most stores) I ask: "Who sets the pricing policy?" As a *personal* observation, I thought that The Mavis's were a great choice for a band for the afternoon. It actually showed that Mardi Gras was going after the youth vote. However, even though *I* like the Mavis's, there was something that didn't seem right. Firstly, I think it would have been a better time slot for even later in the afternoon. The Mavis's do so well in dusk or at night. Even so, they were great. After thinking about it for a while, a few friends of mine (who are MG members by the way) stated it well for me: "This isn't Big Day Out". I agreed and then thought about it. GLBT people like the Mavis's, why can't they be there? My answer was - are they indicative of the GLBT culture? My reluctant answer was: "I don't think so."
A 78er - Mon Feb 15 12:01:31 1999
Hey I'm still here, still thinking about the bisexual "debate" and talking about it with friends, too. I agree with much of what keanu, 78er, mcmc and Educate have been saying. I think the question of inclusion of bisexual members in SGLMG gets very mixed up with other issues: with biphobia (which is a large part, but not all of the reason for everyone questioning the "place" of bisexuals in SGLMG), with the fears of people trying defend the idea of a distinct gay male subculture(yup, me), with general heterophobia, with lack of understanding on all sides, and with our horror and disgust at some of "our" SGLMG's poorer decisions, atrocious timing and even worse communications and PR abilities. And I think we really need to encourage more constructive debate about sexual identity and visibility, and have more suggestions for genuine inclusion of bisexuals and probably, straights, in the MG membership *somehow* (especially as they're there already!) PS Hmmn - now the SMH's "Stay in Touch" column is distilling comments from the various graffitti walls (see today)...PPS I had trouble posting this so hope it doesn't repeat.
fastlove - Mon Feb 15 12:26:18 1999
fastlove, I am all for Gay Male spaces (and culture) and Lesbian Spaces (and culture) and Trannie Spaces (and culture) and Bi Spaces (and culture). I am also all for the overall inclusion of all of the above under the umbrella of Mardi Gras (as it was originally formed). After talking to a few people about my idea, I think that it may have merit. If hetrosexual people are in MG then I believe that they should have no voting rights, no rights to tickets and merely recieve discounts at Festival Events and MG suppliers. The catch (of course) is to be happy to have their names in print in the Gay Press. I also agree that it may not be entirely biphobia which is the issue, but is indicative of the issues facing bisexuals in Mardi Gras. I know that many people are using the acronym of SGLMG because that's what is has become. Remember, please, that the exclusionist policy wasn't there when we started the thing. .
A 78er - Mon Feb 15 12:43:59 1999
To add to my earlier comment. I was listening to The Mavi's from the pool. The volume was great there, but I agree that closer it would have been a worry.
A 78er - Mon Feb 15 12:46:22 1999
Mardi Gras Fair Day my analysis (for what is is worth) - Started by Wendy Brady, a member of the Fair Day Committee, handed to an indigenous elder to open the day, and away we went. It appears that most of the people posting here didn't get there earlier enough to see the couples 'Say I do'. Let's hope these same people dont't start criticising ignorantly, as many were to me at the pub last night. Thanks MG for having the 'balls', finally, to show us something that was emotional, political and significant. It certainly showed who cared and who couldn't give a damn in the way the after day conversations went. Most who criticised the ceremonies, after mild questioning, didn't arrive until 12.30+. The people involved were wonderful, received the type of ceremony that they wanted as individual couples (Pagan & Traditional) and Bruno did the rest with the political wrap from hell - it is just a shame that 10,000 don't turn up to Parliament House to make the point to the people who can change the silly bloody law. The rest of the afternoon's entertainment on the main stage was balanced with what was provided 'free-of-charge' by South Sydney Council, allowing for the biggest entertainment budget ever (I'm told). Wasn't it great to see so many gay, lesbian and queer performers working? The Lake Stage had 150+ members of the community tread its boards during the day, and ran on time! Regarding the BGF debacle - perhaps the solution was for BGF to just do it until a legal process could have been ascertained. Given the closeness of the Mayor (who's Council controls the park) to very strong supporters of BGF, the matter could have been dealt with quickly and promptly without confrontation. Many collectors ignored the MG directive anyway and did what they were there to do - give up their own time to collect for a cause they believed in. Finally, thanks to the medical team and Happy for looking after the very stubborn 'show must go on' very ill member of the 'team' - I and he will never forget your love and attention. Oh and yes Panther - if they get any shorter you'll be arrested.
Normally one to complain - Mon Feb 15 15:10:40 1999
dear 'normally one to complain', I didn't comment on the things I didn't see of hear about on the day. I was aware of the committmtne tceremony and more power to them . I was aware of a number of the Community performers at the Lake stage, a nice chill-area. The BGF debacle is inexcusable. The legality was addressed the week before and BGF answered (allegedly) as I reported. More power to the BGF people for ignoring the unenforcable MG directive and standing up for collecting that which the community needs. More power to the Alternative Mardi Gras Party (aka Rainbow Party) for having the guts to run the stall and tell the truth on the day to any who would listen - I hope they sell all their tickets. Shame on MG for trying to usurp the alternative (even if it isn't official) party and in effect taking funds away from Luncheon Club. So, the question now begs: "What community group is next in the MG firing line: Bisexuals, BGF, Luncheon Club, is ACON next?" Will MG learn? (These questions are asked in an exasperated voice which does not translate to text.)
A 78er - Mon Feb 15 15:22:32 1999
I'm just as amazed 78er! Mardi Gras should be promoting and supporting GLBT and HIV/AIDS organisations that do most of the work for our community. Instead Mardi Gras attack them like they are competition, our community is not about corporate takeovers and market share! It is about people.
Educate..who is really disgusted over what happened to BGF. - Mon Feb 15 15:55:43 1999
Fastlove, biphobia is a very serious issue that needs to be addressed (the stories of biphobic violence, discrimination and plain insults I heard is frightening!!) The exclusion of bisexuals from Mardi Gras is just an example of institutionalised biphobia, and it sends out a message to the whole GLBT community that bisexuals are second class citizen not worthy of the respect to be included in Mardi Gras. Surely you can see how damaging this is to the self esteem of bisexual people and how it gives justification to biphobic people to continue to discriminate. Why do you think bisexuals threaten Gay culture so much, is it not strong enough to continue to thrive as it has done, or are you just wanting to continue the oppression and invisibility of bisexual people for some other reason?
Educate - Mon Feb 15 17:45:30 1999
If it's true that MG denied BGF "permission" to collect cash on Fair Day, I'm not particularly surprised: MG has been raking in money from the BGF raised seating ever since it first started. By taking a percentage (almost a third last year) of the funds BGF raises through selling the grandstand seating, MG is effectively imposing a tax on BGF, something not even the *Federal government* does to charities.
Mon Feb 15 18:38:13 1999
I hear that the Fortress has been under seige all day over its appalling treatment of BGF. Tut, Tut. It's pretty obvious we should give up on the possibility of a united 2002 games altogether, give the games away, and concentrate on getting our own collective shops in order. The rot of yesterday only strenghtens the anti-2002 debate. The Gay Gaymes will need every volunteer from every organisation in Sydney to make it work - at present this is a total pipe dream and unless someone, preferbaly MG, takes the lead towards unity, we will be the collective laughing stock of Australia. Little wonder we can't get equal rights through parliament - MPs of all colours have sources deep into our community and they know we are a dis-unified mess. Wake up people or perish.
Homer - Mon Feb 15 19:23:46 1999
dear homer, "Wake up" indeed, especially to our 'community leaders': to Mardi Gras. I had actually forgotten the fact that the gay Gaymes are due to be here in 2002. Well, my friends in Chicago called me last night to ask if what they have read in their press is true? "Has MG stopped a bisexual man from joining their organisation?" "I thought they were leaders in your community?" Comments like this go to show our deteriorating international profile. Wait until the BGF fiasco and the Luncheon Club fiasco hits the international Gay Press. Well done Mardi Gras, well done.
A 78er - Tue Feb 16 0:39:46 1999
Are there any investigative journalists reading this? Can you sort out the truth in all this rumour and innuendo?
Tue Feb 16 9:05:03 1999
Just how much crap are we going to put up with from the current board? Blatant and hypocritical discrimination against some of the people we love and enjoy sex with (bisexuals), the BGF disgrace at Fair Day, the Danni and Barnsey show, the Leeson/Cobden stranglehold on our parties. When will all this stop? I can only think the next AGM. We must all be there. Does anyone know roughly when it is due?
Technowarrior - Tue Feb 16 9:40:42 1999
To be honest, I am hoping that more than one journalist is. I know Stay In Touch is reading it along with quite a few international GLBT organisations. The truth of the rot is spreading.
Tue Feb 16 9:44:48 1999
Normally one to complain - I didn't get to fair day, but I was interested to read your comments on the commitment ceremonies. I'm glad they worked for the people who took part. What I find odd however, is that Mardi Gras is prepared to promote these events - as part of the campaign for legal recognition of relationships - but its leadership is not prepared to support a Bill that will (1) enable people in relationships to make commitments to each other, have their relationship legally recognised, and have their rights guaranteed without having to do anything else, will also (2) provide a safety net for people who don't want to take that step - similar to what exists for de facto relationships, and (3) will give legal recognition to relationships where people don't live together, or for various reasons, don't want to tell the world or the courts that their relationship is a sexual one - ie don't want to "out" themselves to assert their rights. That Bill is Clover Moore's Significant Personal Relationships Bill. It's a much better Bill that the Lobby's bill - yet Mardi Gras' leadership backs the Lobby Bill over Clover's. Perhaps now, with the commitment ceremonies being a success - people out there might star thinking about the kind of legal recognition they really want - rather than settling for the legal recognition the community elite (including the Mardi Gras leadership and its allies) have decided they are going to get. Interested in people's comments.
lgalbraith@wr.com.au - Tue Feb 16 10:09:09 1999
dear larry, an interesting pint about the GLRL Bill Vs Clover's Bill. This issue may well be raised this weekend on Kevin Klehr's programme on OUT.FM but in a rather unique forum, that of polyamoury. I think that our culture tends to embrace such a dynamic of relationship, yet many people (in 'authority') shy away from addressing this very real issue. This is not meant to detract from monogomous issues as this (in itself) is something that organisations such as MG is supposed to be leading us in. I note the calls over the last few years for these relationships to be legally recognised. At the very least, co-habitation issues should be addressed in a defacto sense (in my opinion). However, apart from 'calling on the Government' to address these issues, i don't know (and correct me if I am wrong) if Mardi Gras (as ostensible community 'leaders') has actually organised anything which demonstrates its overwhelming committment to this issue (apart from the recent committment ceremony). If this is a new affirmative step by Mardi Gras, then I applaud it and expect to see such things happen regularly at various Mard Gras events. To make a stand on Valentines Day is one thing (it's warm and fuzzy and makes good press) but for MG to make their own committment to support, encourage and promte such ceremonies on a year-round basis may send a stonger message to the legislative powers-that-be.
A 78er - Tue Feb 16 10:35:24 1999
Larry, ours is not to reason why..........
Tue Feb 16 10:36:01 1999
As a Fair Day stall holder, I dug out my copy of the application for stallholders to find out whether or not BGF had breached a general condition of their application. No where does it say you can only collect within your stall. What it does say, however, it that stallholders must obey the instructions of Fair Day officials. To my knowledge, BGF followed these instructions - it was the many other stallholders, the Sisters etc. who defiantly made sure the day was a success for the ill members of ours, and the general community, that BGF supports. So basically, it was the 'instruction' of the Fair Day officials in dispute here. Whether MG likes it or not, BGF is a sacred cow and should be treated as such. BGF is going through its own major management re-think without all the public crap hindering the process. Why, you ask? Because they did it properly by getting professional outside guidance first. The philosophy of no action until the damage is done at MG doesn't work. Similarly it didn't work at Pride either, causing both organisations much public grief over the last year or so. Directors have a responsibility to keep an eye out for this sort of crap before it becomes headlines. The problem, or advantage, with this wall, is that it is not limited to the small, relatively speaking, readership of the SSO & Q - the world can read this - perhaps the Directors of our g&l organisations should wake up to that fact. With small exceptions to keeping relative to the topic, there is no editorial interference on this wall, unlike the SSO & Q who are too gutless to properly address the issues far too often. Thanks Panther, we appreciate the freedom very much.
Homer - Tue Feb 16 10:49:01 1999
There is a message on one of the other Boards - The Festival Board - that states that the decision to attempt to ban BGF from collecting donations at Fair Day was made by the Fair Day Committee Director and backed by the Mardi Gras President. This (of course) is apocryphal until proof can be garnered, but seeing as the message boards are read by activists, journalists and community-members, it may as well be the truth. I haven't heard of a public statement by the MG President regarding this, as yet. Has anyone? If so is the excuse real or is it lip-service?
A 78er - Tue Feb 16 11:28:56 1999
A 78er - I fully support the idea of mardi gras (and anyone else) holding commitment ceremonies - or providing opportunities for people to hold commitment ceremonies which they can design themselve - the whole point of the SPR Bill is to give people *choice* in the way their relationships are recognised. Regarding cohabitation issues - the submission we (the co-author of the SPR Bill and I) have just made to the Social Issues inquiry takes a large axe to the idea that legal recognition of relationships should be based on cohabitation. Last year the SSO published a feature about the census in which the Mardi Gras Prez and his boyf talked about the reasons they didn't live together. That article is in our submission. Interesting the difference between the MG Prez's public political position on legal recognition of relationships is at odds with what he does privately or as MG President - ie backing the commitment ceremonies.
lgalbraith@wr.com.au - Tue Feb 16 11:43:21 1999
Panther - a thought. Why don't you establish a wall related to relationship issues - legal recognition, personal experiences arising from the lack of legal legal recognition. Contrary to what the GLRL would have you believe, the debate is not yet over. As the Lobby admits in the Bride Wore Pink, there is *no consensus* among lesbians and gay men on the best model for legal recognition. I happen to know that submissions have gone to the Social Issues Committee inquiry supporting Clover's SPR Bill over the Lobby Bill. Pinkboard could give people a chance to say what they really want. And if you do establish it - I won't post more than once a day ... all right once every couple of days ...promise. I'm more interested in what other people have to say.
lgalbraith@wr.com.au - Tue Feb 16 11:48:09 1999
I spoke to David Mc on fair day and he complained about the "bully" BGF volunteers and the trouble they had had in keeping them "contained." Basically he confirmed what has been alleged so far on the board.
Tue Feb 16 12:01:01 1999
I spoke to David Mc on fair day and he complained about the "bully" BGF volunteers and the trouble they had had in keeping them "contained." Basically he confirmed what has been alleged so far on the board.
Tue Feb 16 12:01:10 1999
Larry, I understand and agree. The mold of relationships, which can/should be recognised are many and varied. I narrowly used the cohabitation example because it's easiest for people to follow. However, I agree that relationships (especially ours in this community) are more fluid than that. As to the MG President practicing one thing and endorsing something else, well perhaps there is something subtly indicative there. The MG President (I suppose) should be prepared to put his practices where his statements are (and/or vice versa) or perhaps be prepared to give reasons regarding the differences between what he endorses in his 'office' of Presedent and what he prefers privately. Like it or not, the office of Mardi Gras President is somewhat open to scrutiny and comment.
A 78er - Tue Feb 16 12:08:03 1999
re: DMcL and the BGF. Nice to know that the issue is somewhat confirmed. BGF being bullies? I can suppose that they (like the bisexual members of the community) are simply standing up to unfair treatment by (what appears to be) an unjust organisation, which purports to represent them and the community. I like the comment of "keeping them contained" sounds a little draconian. I also believe that not only is MG HQ under seige (from outraged Luncheon Club, BGF and Bisexual supporters) by email and letters, but also from phone call s from the media and outraged members of the community whicg MG are supposed to represent and show leadership to. The more pressure which can be brought to bear on this (now, apparently) narrow-focussed organisation, the better.
A 78er - Tue Feb 16 12:16:39 1999
Using the "cultural purity" argument to defend the policy of bisexual exclusion is a little like saying "I'm not phobic, but I don't want bis moving in next door. They'll lower the tone of the neighbourhood." All cultures change. Cultures either evolve to accommodate the changing needs of those they serve or they die. What aspects of g&l culture do you wish to preserve so conservatively? What purpose would a strictly separatist culture serve gays and lesbians in 1999? Separatism is a myth. There's more to Australia than Darlinghurst, darlings. Get out of the ghetto and enjoy the real world.
GhettoBlaster - Tue Feb 16 12:40:37 1999
talking about getting out into the real world ghettoblaster, reminds me that what is going on with the MG-Biphobia issue is a microcosm of what is ailing the rest of the world as well. What was once my refuge has bought into the rest of the world's sordid mess.
Tue Feb 16 12:46:13 1999
Mardi Gras sent a standard letter to all community stall-holders in January regarding no cash collection outside of the immediate stall area at Fair Day. BGF responded, in wirting, late January, to the General Manager of Mardi Gras pointing out its charitable status and requesting the same conditions, restrictions etc. as the 1998 Fair Day (which allowed for controlled collection). No written reply was ever received from MG. Please don't kick the Fair Day Committee too hard over this (they did an enormous job), it's the same old problem of internal communication and arrogance once again. When are MG going to deal with the Directors constantly having to cover for the senior staff's inadequacies. It is totally unfair that Fair Day Director, Ilana Kaplin, has to take the blame solely on this one.
Good One MG of MG - Tue Feb 16 13:00:42 1999
You know, I don't think anyone here is saying that Fair Day was bad. There are issues which need to be addressed, yes, but overall it was good. However, the Bobby Goldsmith Foundation issue is an issue pertaining to -allegedly- 2 people; The Fair Day Director and the Mardi Gras President. Regarding the written nature of the communication between The Bobby Goldsmith Foundation and Mardi Gras, no there was -allegedly- no written reply received by the Bobby Goldsmith Foundation regarding their request for continuing the 1998 status of cash-collectors. However, there were telephone conversations between the two organisations after the Stall-notices had gone out. This is what inflamed the issue. The Bobby Goldsmith Foundation were -allegedly- specifically told that they would not be allowed to do their normal cash-collection at Fair Day, in these discussions. The Bobby Goldsmith Foundation -allegedly- responded that it is a public park and that they are a registered charity, with X-years connection to the community, etc... (I would assume that they also asked why they would not be allowed as well). You know, in a way it may have been better had the cash-collectors not been allowed in the park, but been kept outside on the footpaths. That way, it would have made a better photo-opportunity for the media to illustrate how Mardi Gras -apparently- treats it's charitable community organisations.
Tue Feb 16 13:23:51 1999
Larry you know yourself how the Sydney Gay and Lesbian Cocktail Cabinet works as a branch of the ALP. Just look at the way the ACON hacks dropped a very badly needed campaign so as not to embarrass the Carr Government. My question is - how popular is David McLachlan Murdoch with the real power behind the throne after what he said about Carr at the launch? Is another Patmore Solution being organised at this very moment?
The Phantom Insider - Tue Feb 16 14:16:58 1999
The President has been heard on Out-FM defending his staff members' neglect again - I defer all to last year's mishaps. Oh dear, are all directors expendable due to the way the office runs (or doesn't, as the case may be). These directors are our representatives (and accountable to us), the staff are their servants on behalf of us - it's about time the organisation ran this way. At $70k, MG can expect a better standard of performance by its GM who must have known the letter from BGF needed 'special' attention.
Here we go again - damn, I thought it was all over - silly me - Tue Feb 16 14:53:15 1999
Could someone give a condensed version of what was said on OUT.FM by the Mardi Gras President?
Tue Feb 16 15:06:29 1999
"Every organisation that forgets about the people who give it power and, instead, concentrates of keeping its secrets, keeping its perks, maintaining its rituals and preserving its own hide, eventually implodes. Day by day the International Olympic Committee proves its self more and more incapable of rising above the corruption scandal surrounding it and further and further from the honesty and openness that the Olympic Games represents." SMH 16/2/99 Opinion, David F. D'Alessandro president and chief operating officer of John Hancock Financial Services - a major international sponsor of the Olympic Movement. Just substitute Mardi Gras board for Olympic Committee and you could sum up the situation our community is currently in. How long will it be before we end up reading a similar article in Q or the Star from one of Mardi Gras' sponsors?
mcmc - Tue Feb 16 16:30:07 1999
What has Poland done to deserve David McLachlan. Surely one dictator this century is enough!
Tue Feb 16 17:53:56 1999
That's Hitler and Stalin
ska - Tue Feb 16 18:28:46 1999
Okay. Two is more than enough. It doesn't need a third.
Wed Feb 17 0:41:26 1999
Actually, I would also like to know what The MG President has said in his (and MGs) defense, on OUT.FM.
A 78er - Wed Feb 17 8:16:19 1999
Actually, I would also like to know what The MG President has said in his (and MGs) defense, on OUT.FM.
A 78er - Wed Feb 17 8:29:17 1999
What'a Poland got to do with David mcLachlan ?
cheche - Wed Feb 17 8:30:48 1999
Poland is where Rob Patmore now lives. It's connection to DMcL - I don't know.
Wed Feb 17 8:38:36 1999
Psst! Like I said last night in another place. Hey! remember that there was a thing in CapQ about Bisexuals sending a violence threat into Mardigras about the launch - and that there was, supposedly, a warning from the Security employed by Mardi Gras to keep an eye on the Bisexuals during the launch? Well CapQ also said that David Mclachlan stated that he, nor Mardi Gras, knew nothing about it. Well, guess what? The Security is employed by Mardigras, so why would they just decide to keep an eye on the Bisexuals? Also, according to this insiders sources, the person who gave the Bisexuals their official warning was none other than the ex Mardi Gras head-of-security, this years Parade Co-ordinator. Now, if Mardi Gras knew nothing about the warning being given, why would someone of that caliber be the one to warn the Bisexuals off? Hmmmmm? More cover-ups to follow.
A Phantom Insider - Wed Feb 17 8:44:00 1999
Welcome to the team ghettoblaster. I agree with every word you typed.
Technowarrior - Wed Feb 17 9:11:40 1999
earHow about commenting on so much of the good that comes out of Mardi Gras. Without Mardi Gras the month of Feb would be just like every other...I for one would miss it greatly. If people keep bitching and whining about every detail, without getting the entire story, there is a good chance that the board of Mardi Gras could be pushed out in place of inexperienced members with little clue of how to run the organisation. I know that this seems simplistic and I know I'll get shit flung back at me, but it seems to me that know matter what the current board does, there is always something terribly wrong. Imagine being on the board next year. What decisions would you make? Would they be accepted by every member? How would you cope working long hours for no payment, and then having every piece of your work picked over and pissed on by people who in many cases are not in possission of all of the facts and issues surrounding decisions.The board cannot possibly consult each member on every issue. They were elected to make decisions, and some of those made will not make each one of us happy. But get some perspective guys. The launch, Fair day, Festival events such as the Pool Party etc give me so much happiness and pride. You may have noticed I have made no reference to people of specfic events because I do not have any connection to the board or any inside knowledge about decisions etc. I read the papers (but most of what is written in there is slanted against Mardi Gras) and attend some events, and I talk to friends, who like me enjoy so much of what MG (a non-profit organisation) provides and arranges for its members.
blue ridge mountain boy - Tue Feb 16 23:26:47 1999
dear Blue Ridge, there are a number of people who would be willing, and indeed have the experience in such events, to take on the strain and responsibility of such a large undertaking. people complain about everything, and I must admit that as long as the complaints are valid, indicative and are constructive in alternate suggestion, then more power to those who *do* complain. As members it is our right to do so. As consumers it is the right of the attendees (of these events) to do so. I, for one, would hope that the persons responsible for the bad and narrow decisions this year are supplanted at the AGM. The bad decisions have been ill-thought out and badly executed. I think your notice that "no matter what the current Board does..." is valid. I ask: 'What does this suggest to you about some members of the current Board?' If I were on the Board next year, I know that I would do my utmost to represent the community and make the decisions which would be best for the majority of them, whilst keeping in mind, and consulting, with other members of the same community. This is the job (unpaid or not) that they take on as Board members. This is their responsibility. I also believe that all decisions of the Board are answerable (in full explanation) to the Membership, and to a lesser degree the consumers. The Board cannot, I agree, consult *every* member on *every* issue, but their responsibility to the members is not diminished by this handicap. If there is a contentious decision or issue, the Board's responsibility is to disclose as many details as requested to the membership. In effect, I believe that the MG Board is answerable to the membership in the manner that any other BOD is answerable to their stockholders. I think that the decisions by the current Board, in respect to community representation, are the ones which they have dropped the ball on and they deserve all the criticism that has been ladelled out to them (perhaps more). The perspective which most of us here have on MG and the Festival/Parade/Party is that of many years association, experience and common sense. However, many people enjoy MG without open complaint. It's the ones who have issues, don't complain and therefore their issues are left unheard or acted upon, which bother me. Perhaps the Board should regularly address issues on these forums so that they know what is happeneing and know what the membership, consumers and media will want to know.
A 78er - Wed Feb 17 10:22:35 1999
Without MG, blue ridge, the parade and pride of the people who take a stand for who they are would continue. Don't you get it? We ain't there for MG. It's there for us. And our self worth is larger than a single organisation or event. As for inexperienced members geting in - well that's why you open up the possibilities for as wide a group as possible - to share the experience around. Not clutch tightly onto power. I don't really care to comment on the rest of your letter except to remind you that what makes the fair day, pool party etc so powerful is you. You attending and you giving voice by being visible. This would happen in any situation where numbers gathered together. The organisation running these empowering events, on the other hand, is going way off rails with many of it's members and is making decisions for which it must be held accountable. And finally I know what's it's like to work long hours for no pay to have every piece of work pissed on by ignoramuses. You pick yourself up and start again. So that's no excuse either.
GG - Wed Feb 17 10:44:28 1999
GG, actually (in relation to 'picking yourself up, etc...) you listen to the criticisism and abuse; distill the issues from any vitriol; see if the alternatives suggested are really workable; see if they can be implemented and then implement them. Sorry, work getting in the mix here . Any organisation worth it's salt uses a variation of this formula, it's called the consultative process. I also agree with you. We are *not* there for Mardi Gras. Mardi Gras was formed to be there for us. We formed it, we are members (or consumers) and as such we have the right to question it's decisions and it's policies, even to the extent of demanding change to them if we find them distasteful and/or wrong.
A 78er - Wed Feb 17 10:57:48 1999
The bisexual debate and their worthy fight can be summed up in one sentence, shamelessly lifted from the SSO 11/2/99. "The [MG Launch] evening ended with a mass chant, led by [Vanessa] Wagner, of: 'The price of freedom is eternal vigilance.'"
Wed Feb 17 12:20:07 1999
To cheche - see message left on Tue Feb 16 14:16:58 1999 - Is another Patmore Solution being organised at this very moment? - The Phantom Insider
Wed Feb 17 13:15:29 1999
what was/is the 'Patmore Solution'? You are being at your cryptic best, Phantom.
keanu - Wed Feb 17 13:22:47 1999
What indeed was the Patmore solution and what issue(s) does it refer to?
Wed Feb 17 13:25:05 1999
The Patmore solution was to shaft him and kick him out
Another Phantom insider - Wed Feb 17 13:42:49 1999
He was not providing leadership to the organisation and was making some not very good decisions, and you guessed it, Cobden and Harben planted Bev in his place. It was fortunate that in the most part she was a good president, although at times she was pretty lame and nothing more than a pawn.
Wed Feb 17 13:46:14 1999
Impeach McDictator? Excellent! On the grounds of misrepresenting the community? Misrepresenting community groups? On the grounds of insulting 8.8 thousand members with his straight approach to Mardi Gras? Excellent! Impeach away, you have my vote!
Wed Feb 17 13:48:36 1999
Call an Extraordinary General Meeting! One months notice is all you need (by law) and if you call it now, there will be Press galore because of the Festival being on. Excellent! I hope the media have seen these notices.
Wed Feb 17 13:53:20 1999
But darls you need resolutions for an EGM. Resolutions sweetie resolutions. And at least 200 members must requisition the company in writing before the directors are bound to call such a meeting. And then the directors have up to 2 months to convene the meeting from the date of deposit of the requisition. It will probably be time for the next AGM by the time this procedure is gone through in any case.
Corporations Law - Wed Feb 17 15:22:22 1999
tick, tick, tick.....
Wed Feb 17 16:53:21 1999
Perhaps A 78er or anyone else out there who feels they may like a place on the board of MG, or who feels the current board is misrepresenting the community etc could briefly coment on what they would do with issues such as: *keeping membership to MG as gay/lesbian as possible *ensuring all charity organisations have a share in funds raised through events such as fair day *ensuring male & female-only spaces are found at parties, even though the space at present is so limited. Don't forget to include some specifics on how you would consult the 8000 of so membership on so many issues. so that they all feel their opinions are valued and listened to. You may care to add who you would have chosen to launch a commercial record label (one which has the possibility of makinggood money for the community- if successful); add to this a possible list of D.Js for the party, and of course a list of your performers. Then let us see how many of these decisions are popular with all of the whingers and would-be board members out there. Saying that you would would do the " utmost to represent the community and make the decisions which would be best for the majority of them, whilst keeping in mind, and consulting, with other members of the same community" is all when and good, and I truly believe the majority of the board set out to do the same thing, *but* putting this into practise is quite another thing. All I ask is that some balance is placed into these comments- that along with all of the slagging off and the idle bitching is comments on how well MG have planned and organised many of the events.
blue ridge mountain boy - Wed Feb 17 18:05:25 1999
P.S 78er: I do hope that you et al attended all of the strategic planning days & public forums that the current board held to deal with community issues. Such events were advertised in the gay press, and I assume provided members the opportunity to vent criticisms etc. I am sure that attending such forums would be a much more positive way of being heard and sharing your experiences.
blue ridge mountain boy - Wed Feb 17 18:51:16 1999
Dear Blue Ridge - I did attend every forum I was allowed to attend and am aware of the contents of at least two other specifically based ones. I am very concerned that the summary of the draft misses a hell of a lot of what was raised at these forums. Youth especially, was only mentioned as an example, in passing. I am still hoping the next document will be a little more detailed regarding the long-term future of MG and truly addressing the needs of the 'next' generation. We will see. I am still optimistic, despite all the recent bad publicity (some justified, some not), that David and the Board will show the same courage they did on Sunday with the 'Say I Do' Ceremonies, regarding the strategic planning document.
damonofsydney@hotmail.com - Wed Feb 17 19:18:31 1999
yes, get rid of the President and his lackeys. Mardi Gras is for our community not a greedy few.
Wed Feb 17 19:30:05 1999
Hi blue ridge mountain boy, I'm more for changing *keeping membership to MG as gay/lesbian as possible * to *gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender (GLBT)*
Educate - Wed Feb 17 19:41:21 1999
Hey! blue ridge! How long have you been ainvolved with McMardi Gras? When you can say 21, then you can go up against people from 1978. Apologies A 78er, I just had to leap in. Name describes the Organisation.
Bad is bad no matter what the wrapping - Wed Feb 17 19:44:56 1999
We are still waiting for the draft strategic plan document to be posted on the Mardi Gras web site. It is now over 4 weeks behind schedule. The web site is pretty limited in its coverage of Mardi Gras Festival (only press releases for Mardi Gras Music and Razor Baby)and dull. Has the web master walked?
Wed Feb 17 19:47:19 1999
Those of you wondering who was going to be next on Mardi Gras' hit list. Well add PRIDE to the ever growing list, Mardi Gras are trying to over take PRIDE's main fund raising event the New Years Eve party. So we now have PRIDE, Luncheon Club, BGF and the Bisexual community......who is next??
Wed Feb 17 20:48:07 1999
blue ridge mountain boy - you wouldn't be an associate of pollyantha's would you? You wouldn't be pollyantha would you?
Wed Feb 17 22:14:12 1999
Hey Blue McRidge! Nice to know that you support the biphobic stance against BGF and Luncheon Club! I guess we can all see where your sympathies lie.
I was there in 83 - Wed Feb 17 22:27:40 1999
The Mardi Gras website is useless. It is all on citysearch anyway- if you can be bothered with the 'tour'. I emailed Mardi Gras months back (3 times) and have never ever had a reply. (It was a simple question re dates for 2000 to make holiday plans) If there is so much concern about current Mardi Gras ways, where was everyone at the last AGM? Hope they are there and vote this year.
Vote this time - Thu Feb 18 0:21:14 1999
I'm sorry, but who the hell do bgf think they are??? on sunday they were clearly outside the terms of the licence agreement - the same terms that every other community group managed to abide by. why is it now that bgf start bitchin' about mg when they should accept responsibility for their own actions. Let's try and look at it quite rationally - mg clearly support bgf abd this is evidenced by bgf beig given the licence to collect *solely* at the mg parade as well as the inclusion of "shop till you drop" in the mg festival. bgf are the only community group allowed to cash in on the parade by erecting seating - albeit for a small fee. And this fee os collected *not* for mg's purposes but as a way of ensuring that smaller community groups may also benefit. Further, mg are not required under this licence agreement to match dollar for dollar the bgf contribution - but they do anyway (seems likea real greedy organisation to me). And over the last couple of months, mg have returned around $30,000 to commnity groups via its commuity disbursements fund - again another example of a greedy organisation. And as for the Rainbow Party and the Luncheon Club. Obviously everyone here is in the "know". Well let's have some real facts: carol ann king had no idea about the party until she saw the ads for it; she is only going to get 50% of the profits - actually, make that the *net* profits. It's going to be real interesting to see how much money she does get from st. dawn of the toolshed. It was interesting to see that next to the "dawn stabbed in the back" article in Q last week, a small piece that revealed that mg donated 50 party tickets to the luncheon club. And finally, carol will tell you how much she relies on doing the passouts at the mg parties - one of her major fundraisers. But yet again all you whingers out there choose to ignore the good that mg does. If only life was so simple and we could also ignore whinging c*nts as well.
Phoenix Rising - Thu Feb 18 7:58:05 1999
Well, lets look fiscally, shall we? 50% of net profit is obviously greater than 0% of no profit. This is basic maths. To try to undermine the Luncheon Club's fundraiser is simply disgusting. To claim that only 50% of the net profit is going to an organisation which would not get that extra money is simply figure-juggling and mischievous. Golly! 50 Party tickets (an outlay cost of $0.00) donated to Luncheon club. Not bad as a lame apology or palm-greaser to try to keep those wronged from making waves. Look beyond the surface, people.
AQIS - Thu Feb 18 8:45:26 1999
I notice that Phoenix didn't address Mardi Gras' bisexual issue, I guess that's indicative.
Birdwatcher - Thu Feb 18 8:51:35 1999
"Who the hell do BGF think they are?" One of the premier cahritable organisations in the G&L community, simple really.
Info-boi - Thu Feb 18 8:59:15 1999
AQIS - you seem to be forgetting that without the profits from the party, there would be NO parade and festival. Phoenix Rising - your comments are quite interesting. I have had concerns about the Rainbow Party since it was first mentioned, and even asked here exactly what percentage of the profits would go to the luncheon club. That question was greeted with silence, and at that time there was clearly someone involved with teh Rainbow Party on this board. I do wonder why it is that the BGF need to raise so much money these days. Everyone I know with HIV (myself included) is coping fine these days, thanks to the new treatments (despite occassionally nasty side effects). Re Pride, what the hell do they do for the community? Where does all the money from the NYE party go? A party that I stopped attending three years ago because frankly I think they are shite. I can, however, see where a lot of the money from the MG parties goes - as we'll all see on the 27th. As for claiming that 78ers have more right to be heard than anyone else, what bollocks. Mardi Gras represents the entire gay and lesbian community (and should also represent bi's and transgenders). Therefore each person who identifies with that community and is a member of MG should have an equall right to voice their opinion.
Technowarrior - Thu Feb 18 9:06:41 1999
The rainbow party is donating 100% of it's net profit to the Luncheon club. Dawn doesn't want or need the money. I think Dawn is upset that MG didn't take up her ticketing idea, and David Mc is not an ally like Bev was. Whatever you may say about Dawn, she is not a bad old stick...anyone remember her 70th birthday and how much money that raised ? The only problem I have is that she gives all the money to boy's charities.
give us lesos$ dawn - Thu Feb 18 9:59:52 1999
Dear Blue Ridge, You asked me for some input and so here it is. Disclaimer: This is just off the top of my head, so I'm happy to get constructive criticism and input. "Keeping membership to MG as G&L as possible.": I believe I have already given some ideas on this topic in earlier posts, but I'll summarise. SGLMG was started in 1978 and was all-inclusive, not segregated. Thus I would do my utmost to ensure the mainenance of G&L culture by ensuring that Gay Men, Lesbians, Transgender persons and Bisexuals were given either automatic entry (with nominators of course) *or* I would make the 'appeals' process a true 'appeals' process where people who are initially rejected have their supporting documentation actually looked at and taken into account. If (for some *real* reason) a membership was rejected, I would consider having another tier of membership (such as that which I proposed for supportive hetrosexual persons) which would *not* have MG Party or Sleaze ticket rights, nor voting rights, but recieved both supporting businesses-discounts and discounts to Mardi Gras Events. "Charitable organisations being given a share of monies raised at events such as Fair Day": This would, of course, be dependent on what you actually mean. If you refer to a donation of funds from proifit derived from (eg.) Fair Day, then I would need to see the current policy to comment of form an ammendment. My thoughts on *collecting* monies, though, would be to allow any registered community-based charities to openly collect throughout the Fair Day area (or at any other open-area event). However, if they were not community-based charities, they would then be restricted to an area around their stand. Of course some of these would have to be addressed on a case-by-case basis, but I think that this is more equitable. "Male & Female spaces at parties." This has always been contentious, but my feelings are that a female only space is important and so, to is a male-only space, but not for the same reasons. There have been demands for a Male-Only space (not the toilets, that was an insult) and that would be honoured - even if there was to be a portable aream erected for such. "Consultation of 8,000 members" For all issues which really concerned the community, I believe that I would institute an emailing programme (blind-list) which would send announcements out to all who elected to sign onto the service. I would also make it a point to send a simple hard-copy of this mailer regularly out to those without email, possibly once-per-month. Also, I would expect that Board-members would look to keeping an eye on community notice-board areas for community feedback. In regards to "launching a record label". I wouldn't have done it without community/membership consultation. If the money were available, then I would look to see what would be appropriate (with such consultation - even publicly calling for community comment). "A list of DJs?" I haven't commented on this, but I would probably take the same approach as the current Board on this issue, I'd call for a demo tape from all of them, unless I personally knew of their talent. The list of performers? Well that is something that is always open for speculation and I am a supporter of having community-based performers and/*or* performers who actively and openly support the community. Therefore, these are the people who would be asked firstly. Then as 'headliners' I would probably call for a poll in S.S.O and/or Q to ask who the community wanted. Then tally these responses and see the appropriateness of the choices. Then, approach those who fit the community wishes mostly. Of course not everyone will be happy with the final choices, but the consultative process would have been observed and honestly used. Of course, as I stated above, these are just off the top of my head. In regards to the strategic planning meetings, yes I did attend all that I could (ie: all that were publicly available). I was also amazed to see how much of the relevant discussions were glossed over or omitted. To attend these meetings does not mean that your view will be taken as serious. The Board forgets that there are many people in the membership and the community with as much experience as they have (if not more). Their POV's are equally valid, and if they don't agree with a POV, it's generally because they have the experience that backs the opinion up.
A 78er - Thu Feb 18 10:31:25 1999
100% of the Net profits that is, after naughty Dawn has taken her slice of the cake out!
Pot of Gold at the end of the rainbow - Thu Feb 18 10:48:43 1999
Hi Techno, good to see you back. I think AQIS was referring to the Rainbow Party and the percentage of moneies from that going to Luncheon club (I am assuming that you were referring to the MG/Sleaze parties). The comment, after techno's, states that 100% of the profits are going to Luncheon Club. I have no idea about Pride, so I'm leaving that alone - although to subsume an 'alternative (as in organised) dance party' needs to be looked at closely. One doesn't want to see a monopoly forming. Regarding the comment about 78ers having more of a say in matters than anyone else....er...no. As a member *and* 78er, I have the same say in the operations of Mardi Gras as any other member. Just how much of a say that ends up being is (perhaps) one of the subjects open to debate here.
A 78er - Thu Feb 18 10:59:17 1999
Naughty Dawn? Tsk tsk tsk. Raising money for Luncheon Club! Naughty, naughty Dawn. Without her, that donation of 100% of the net profits wouldn't even exist! So, naughty naughty Dawn. whaddya want Pot'O'Gold, 100% of the net profits, or nothing at all?
Leprachaun - Thu Feb 18 11:07:37 1999
Thanks, A 78er, the comments were about Rainbow Party profits not Mardi Graft party profits.
AQIS - Thu Feb 18 11:43:02 1999
Hey! I agree! Call for an Extraordinary General Meeting! If you get 200 signatures you can present the call, with reasons for the call, to the Board this month. If you copy it to the media it'll cause a storm of publicity. If they ignore it, then they're in breach of guidelines.
Mardi Gras for the people - Thu Feb 18 11:48:33 1999
Some more thoughts on the bisexual discrimination matter.
mcmc@netspace.net.au - Thu Feb 18 11:58:11 1999
Many times on the dance floor we've heard the samples "Free at last, free at last" and "I have a dream" (Farley Jack Master Funk and various others). These words of Martin Luther King Jr are catch phrases of the modern civil rights movement. A social revolution that as it continues to unfold still demands equality no matter what a person's identity maybe - male or female, rich or poor, heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual or transgender, and no matter the colour of their skin or what their disability. A culture where the concept that "the rights of every man are diminished when the rights of one man are threatened" is the guiding principal.
Thu Feb 18 11:59:16 1999
In 1963 a watershed occurred when the South Christian Leadership Conference decided to march on Birmingham, Alabama - the most notoriously brutal hotbed of racism in the USA. King led this nonviolent march and did not discriminate among the participants. He was advised that he should place their white brothers in the frontline. This he did and the media exposure was intense. Both whites and blacks were arrested that day, and from the Birmingham Jail King wrote his most famous letter.
Thu Feb 18 11:59:34 1999
"Injustice anywhere is threat to justice everywhere. We are caught in an inescapable network of mutuality, tied in a single garment of destiny. What ever affects one directly affects all indirectly."
Martin Luther King JR, Letter from the Birmingham Jail, April 16, 1963. - Thu Feb 18 12:00:07 1999
"I am thankful, however, that some of our white brothers have grasped the meaning of this social revolution and committed themselves to it. They are still too small in quantity, but they are big in quality. Some like Ralph McGill, Lillian Smith, Harry Golden and James Dabbs have written about our lives in eloquent, prophetic and understanding terms. Others have marched with us down nameless streets of the South. They have languished in filthy roach-infested jails, suffering the abuse and brutality of angry policemen who see them as "dirty nigger lovers." They, unlike so many of their moderate brothers and sisters, have recognised the urgency of the moment and sensed the need for powerful "action" antidotes to combat the disease of segregation [and discrimination]."
Martin Luther King JR, Letter from the Birmingham Jail, April 16, 1963. - Thu Feb 18 12:00:30 1999
On June 11, 1963, in response to King and his supporters' campaign, President John F Kennedy called out the National Guard to escort two clearly qualified students onto the campus of the University of Alabama. That evening Kennedy gave a televised address to his nation, and in this new era of mass communication his message was soon broadcast around the world.
Thu Feb 18 12:01:08 1999
"[Democratic society is] founded on the principle that all men are created equal, and that the rights of every man are diminished when the rights of one man are threatened."
John F Kennedy, University of Alabama, June 11, 1963 - Thu Feb 18 12:01:49 1999
"A great change is at hand, and our task, our obligation is to make that revolution, that change, peaceful and constructive for all."
John F Kennedy, University of Alabama, June 11, 1963 - Thu Feb 18 12:02:12 1999
On August 28, 1963 King led the March on Washington for Jobs and Freedom. His address on this occasion is popularly known as the "I have a dream" speech.
Thu Feb 18 12:02:45 1999
"Let us not seek to satisfy our thirst for freedom by drinking from the cup of bitterness and hatred."
Martin Luther King Jnr, Address at March on Washington for Jobs and Freedom, August 28, 1963. - Thu Feb 18 12:03:13 1999
"The marvelous new militancy which has engulfed the Negro community must not lead us to a distrust of all white people, for many of our white brothers, as evidenced by their presence here to day, have come to realise that their freedom is inextricably bound to our freedom. We can not walk alone."
Martin Luther King Jnr, Address at March on Washington for Jobs and Freedom, August 28, 1963. - Thu Feb 18 12:03:43 1999
"I have a dream that one day this nation will rise up and live out the true meaning of its creed - we hold these truths to be self-evident that all men are created equal. ... I have a dream today! I have a dream that one day ... right down in Alabama little black boys and little black girls will be able to join hands with little white boys and little white girls as sisters and brothers. I have a dream today!"
Martin Luther King Jnr, Address at March on Washington for Jobs and Freedom, August 28, 1963. - Thu Feb 18 12:04:05 1999
"Let freedom ring! And when this happens, when we allow freedom to ring, when we let it ring from every tenement and every hamlet, from every state and every city, we will be able to speed up the day that day when all of God's children, black men and white men, Jews and Gentiles, Protestants and Catholics, [by extension women, heterosexuals, homosexuals, bisexuals and transgender] will be able to hold hands and sing in the words of the old Negro spiritual, "Free at last, free at last. Thank God Almighty, we are free at last.""
Martin Luther King Jnr, Address at March on Washington for Jobs and Freedom, August 28, 1963. - Thu Feb 18 12:04:47 1999
Well, thank you for the rememberance of Martin Luther King Jr. How does this american activist relate to this forum? To be honest, the opressive management of McMardi Graft appears to not give a damn. They have the numbers to bury any activism and the money to campaign for their issues to ensure that votes go their way.
Thu Feb 18 12:32:09 1999
Re: How does this American activist relate to this forum? King et al in 1963 basically launched a worldwide Human Rights campaign. These ideals spurred others into action to defeat discrimination where ever it occurs and in what ever form. (ie inspired Stonewall and the first Mardi Gras) If we as gays, lesbians, bis and transgenders want equality we can not then turn around and discriminate against others. We will gain equality quicker if like King we can enlist people outside of our "group" to help us forward our campaign. The logic behind the concept that "[Democratic society is] founded on the principle that all men are created equal, and that the rights of every man are diminished when the rights of one man are threatened" is very powerful and ultimately seductive. To me Mardi Gras is about promoting Human Rights with a same-sex focus.
mcmc@netspace.net.au - Thu Feb 18 14:41:33 1999
Back to something more important. Is it really Marcia ???? Now I understand - Martin was black and Marcia is black. It's a hidden message from the party committee. The cat's now out of the bag. I'm not as one dimesional as some people say I am.
I've just wet my pants in anticipation. - Thu Feb 18 14:53:46 1999
Mardi Gras was always about Human Rights, mcmc. In 1978 we (the GLBT community) had none. Now, 1n 1999, 50% of us do have some human rights yet a great many of those 50% (with the open support of their current community leading organisation) now discriminate against those which *they* see as 'inferior' to their cause. Strange, seeing as the downtrodden 50% are stanch supporters of the cause.
A 78er - Thu Feb 18 15:00:29 1999
Hey! I wonder where most of these performers stand regarding this discrimination thing? Would they like to be known as performers who are pro-discrimination? What would happen isomeone contacted their agents and the newspapers with this little spin and see what the press thinks of that.
Thu Feb 18 15:13:01 1999
Is is true that Mardigras has bowed to community pressure and cancelled Dannii's show? Is it also true that she will now represent the G&L community by being on the lead float? A Straight girl representing the GLBT community in a GLBT parade?! That's worse!!! Remove one foot just to insert another MG.
I can't understand the logic - Thu Feb 18 15:33:17 1999
Hey! Maybe Dannii withdrew when she heard about the bisexuals being banned from Mardi Gras. Is there something we should know about Dannii? After all she does kiss both sexes in her video.
Thu Feb 18 15:37:51 1999
Daaaannnniiiii did a Royal tour of the workshop the other day with body guards, hairdresser, stylist, caravan, four photgraphers and lalaleachson in toe. She was photographed in front of various floats and tonguing a paint brush so may be she is going to be leading the parade.
Thu Feb 18 17:14:36 1999
But there have been other straight people on the lead float: Ms. Kirkpatrick (aka The Freak) and oh god whats her name, she was married to Derryy Hinch...apologies, its late i'm just about to leave work and I can't remember her name...not saying i want dunnii on the lead float, but there are precedents....thats all
keanu (in a flustered state) - Thu Feb 18 17:23:17 1999
Jackie Weaver!
Thu Feb 18 17:29:58 1999
Technowarrior wrote - way up the list somewhere " Everyone I know with HIV (myself included) is coping fine these days,thanks to the new treatments (despite occassionally nasty side effects)." I'm glad you and your friends are coping well, as a health worker I see lots of people who aren't. Most of them had low paying jobs to start with, and now life is worse because they still do lose quite some time from work, despite the new treatments. The other point is, that of course the new treatments are not working so well for everyone. So there are still great numbers of people in need.
LK - Thu Feb 18 17:33:35 1999
Rest assured I am not, and never have been, known as pollyantha! Nor am I associated in any way with her/him, unless I know her/him under a different name. There is no conspiracy here- surely there is room for at least two people out there who can see the good in what MG does (I take it that polly has a similar view point as myself- if this is the case, I need some support here pollyantha!) To A 78er, good on you for delivering some of your "policies" & ideas from the top of your head. I think a lot of what you suggested (esp about those people who are denied membership having a right to a valid appeal process) makes good sense. I'm glad that you attended the public forums- if more people with valid suggestions spoke up at such occassions perhaps positive changes might be made. I will be interesting to see whether much of what you said is accepted by other members.
blue ridge mountain boy (naka pollyantha) - Thu Feb 18 20:04:22 1999
You ever noticed that Maggie Kirkpatrick (aka The freak) was a dyke icon? A butch, in control, dyke icon. That's why she's been asked back again and again. Jackie Weaver? Hmmm, I have no idea.
Thu Feb 18 21:17:21 1999
A Mardi Gras prez named Davo
Thu Feb 18 21:18:04 1999
Had a mate who was a bit of a ravo
Thu Feb 18 21:18:25 1999
But who would have thought
Thu Feb 18 21:18:52 1999
that he'd end up in court
Thu Feb 18 21:19:11 1999
and cop a bit of an avo!!
Thu Feb 18 21:19:27 1999
Re the 50 Mardi Gras tickets donated to the luncheon club; no tickets were donated to the luncheon club, 50 tickets were donated to the plwha community, to be distributed by a ballot administered jointly by acon and the luncheon club. And frankly, 50 tickets aint much, certainly not when considered against the 3000 comp. tickets handed out every year to the great and the good.
Thu Feb 18 21:22:59 1999
Given the great organising the BGF can muster, and the shambles that McMardi-Graft create, maybe BGF should run the Party, and Mardi-Graft try to help the HIV Community. We would have a great party! but our unwell brothers and sisters would be doomed!
Stanly Livingstoned - Thu Feb 18 22:12:30 1999
To "educate" and the other bisexuals, I'd like to hear how you would tackle the problem of the flicky haired girls and their homophobic boyfriends at the parties? Ask any of them and they identify as "bi". They are the problem, how do we address it? I fully support bisexual membership of Mardi Gras, I also know str8s that I consider part of our community, but so many are using the bi label as a loophole so they can "party" and treat us like freaks with contempt. They display no empathy for our community. This has alienated so many from the party experience and is possibly the cause of so much biphobia from the gay and lesbian community.
veteran volunteer - Fri Feb 19 4:25:02 1999
veteran volunteer - Clearly, it would be better if "the flicky haired girls and their homophobic boyfriends" weren't at the parties. But who buys them their tickets? And what was the sexual identity of the people who bought them their tickets? Oh, they bought their own. They're members! Who signed their application forms to become members? Who on the Board approved their membership? Oh, they ticked the gay/lesbian/homosexual box did they? So they got automatic membership. The point is, the members of Mardi Gras have (or more correctly had) the chance to control who goes to the parties. The parties are private events for members and their guests. Back in 1991 when the ticketing policy was introduced, MG had less than 300 members. Those members, and the members they signed up, had the opportunity to keep the membership predominantly gay and lesbian. Bisexuals who were part of the community also had no trouble joining. Why didn't the membership do that? The reason is simple. The Board at the time failed in the way it sold the ticketing policy. Rather than taking the community and the MG membership into its confidence by calling a community meeting, let existing and potential members debate and discuss it, and through that process own the policy, the Board met in secret and imposed it. The debate happened afterwards. It succeeded, but only succeeded, because the then president Richard Cobden made it quite clear Mardi Gras would not back down. "We have to keep faith with those members who have joined because of the policy" were more or less his words to me when I interviewed him about it. Sadly, as it turned out, not the best way to implement what otherwise was a sensible solution to the "straights at parties" problem. Sadly, the existing Board (which really is a continuum of Richard's board) hasn't yet learned.
Fri Feb 19 6:22:47 1999
Hi Veteran Volunteer. My suggestion regarding the 'flick-haired (I assume you mean straight) girls and homophobic boys is simple. As part and parcel of the membership of Mardi Gras, they must accept that their names *will* be published in the community media. (This isn't policy yet, but should be). In regards to tickets being bought *for* them by members, well that's something that we can only start curbing by educatioof the membership base, I'm afraid. Of course there are hetrosexual members of Mardi Gras, they may gert caught in the net of list of members names idea, but some will not care one way or the other. Remember that the allocation of tickets (per member) is up to the individual member. The education of the membership base is such that you want people at the parties who are supportive of our cause and sensitive to the space they are in. (ie: A GLBT event). Of course complaints to a dedicated security force would be handled (ie: this guy is hitting on the girls over near the dyke bar) with swiftness and immediate ejection, confiscation of ticket stub and the member who gave the person the ticket should (in my opinion) be subject to disciplinary action by the Board (ie: explain and/or resign membership yes, this is harsh but to begin with you must be). These are but some suggestions, not fully rounded out and off the top of my head. You could probably reduce the problem this way, but I don't know about the total eradication of it. I'm open to suggestions, though.
A 78er - Fri Feb 19 9:14:49 1999
Hey! Who mentioned Maggie Kirkpatrick? Did you notice that she was at Fair Day supporting the Bobby Goldsmith Foundation? Clearly, she is in the right mind and spirit, unlike a certain high-profile prez who lost his cool.
Fri Feb 19 9:26:54 1999
Dawn is not keeping any of the profits from the Rainbow Party. She is most upset with mardi gras...and I mean most....If you don't have a party ticket get one to Rainbow...I hear sales are a little sluggish. If no-one supports it this year, any alternative will be canned for next year, and that will be a headache.
Fri Feb 19 9:33:35 1999
Hey! I just had a thought. Maybe Jackie Weaver led the parade because of all the musical theatre she had done at the time. Was she a Queen-Icon?
Fri Feb 19 9:37:41 1999
A group of actors and performers got together last night to discuss the 'discrimination issue'. A few were current working high-profile actors. They were all Equity members. The words 'industry concerns' were mentioned. Is something in the air?
Equity Insider - Fri Feb 19 9:54:02 1999
Syd Star 11/2/99 - "We only gave the market researchers members’ names, membership status and home number," he said. David gives away confidential information about mardi gras members for market research ..what only their names and home numbers..what about their favourite colour and shoe size ?
charming - Fri Feb 19 10:28:13 1999
What is the "discrimination issue" with actors and performers ?
curious queer? - Fri Feb 19 10:30:37 1999
Were any of the members consulted about the release of their names and *home* phone numbers? I think not. I am a member and I wasn't consulted!
disgusted - Fri Feb 19 10:43:53 1999
With "Best Friends" like that who needs enemies? (letter is this weeks Star)
AVO here we go - Fri Feb 19 10:51:05 1999
I'm so glad P. Finlay of Potts Point got that off his chest.
The courier is on the way with a whole bundle of VIP passes - Fri Feb 19 10:58:13 1999
Hey! Some of the actors and performers involved in the 'discrimination meeting' aren't involved in Mardi Gras but they are high-profile Australian actors. Apparently the initial discussions were held at a certain acting school's recent anniversary. The issue discussed and concerns raise