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The annual GLBT Pride festivals are almost upon us. In many many cities around the world Stonewall Day is celebrated as the founding of the modern gay movement. Even though it is the middle of winter here, we still drag ourselves out for a bit of a celebration.
Brisbane Pride
has a large festival planned culminating on 14th June with a rally, parade and
fair day. They will also be partying on into the night.
Sydney's PRIDE also has an action packed week planned for later in the month. This year it celebrates the numbers 30, 25, 15 and 10!
I can't find any information on the rest of Australia. Tell us what is happening locally for you.
If it is post-party Tuesday or Wednesday and you are feeling a bit down, please refrain from sharing your depression with the rest of the readers.
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Yay! A new wall!
Tonight we'll be seeing gorgeous bodies dancing beautifully to fabulous music. Where? Why, at the Opera House at Underland!
Sunday night we're off to Lemonaid to party with the girls. Remember how I was partied out? Looks like I came good <g>
Evil Twin - Fri 6 Jun 2003 09:53:05
I'll but a round of drinks for the entire gaffiti wall if we can stay away from the tired topic of men only spaces vs women only spaces at parties
Chiclet - Fri 6 Jun 2003 10:33:12
Sunday Recovery @ HOME produced by New Mardi Gras & Sydney PRIDE Centre
Sponsored by Queer Nation
Terrace DJ's: Kate Monroe & Alex Taylor
Silver Room DJ's: Kelly Lynch & DJ Chip
Tix: $15 Pride/Mardi Gras Members, $20 non-Members
Available from PRIDR Centre or Darlinghurst Toolshed
- Fri 6 Jun 2003 10:41:38
chiclet u just lost your own bet...shouldn't've mentioned it....
- Fri 6 Jun 2003 10:51:12
I'm taking a gamble. If the QN tickets are sold out by the time I decide to go (last minute, naturally) then so be it! In some crazy way, sold-out events create too much expectation. For me, anyway...
dice-man - Fri 6 Jun 2003 11:48:24
" - Men Only Space - Horizontal Dancing Only - "
LOL! thats my sunday then. Mr Butz is pure gruuff trade! See you at Kens. wooooooooooooooooof!
- Fri 6 Jun 2003 12:11:52
Sunday Recovery @ HOME on June 22
- Fri 6 Jun 2003 12:28:30
it wasnt a bet, it was a bribe.
is anyone going to hear Tom Stephan ?
Chiclet - Fri 6 Jun 2003 12:44:08
sunday recovery from what ?
- Fri 6 Jun 2003 13:07:24
I believe that Gordon from BB1 now lives in Sydney.
Has anyone seen him out and about?
- Fri 6 Jun 2003 13:36:23
Chiclet - Fri 6 Jun 2003 10:33:12 I haven't read a single post about men's space versus women's space. They've all been about the value of gender-specific spaces in tandem with mixed spaces - and it's been a good value discussion.
If you promise to work on your comprehension skills, I'll buy you a drink ;-)
- Fri 6 Jun 2003 13:39:00
Can I have both your drinks if i don't mention that thing, and if I acknowledge it was a valuable discussion too?
It'sNotPayDay'TilNextWeek - Fri 6 Jun 2003 15:21:02
I believe that Gordon from BB1 now lives in Sydney.
Has anyone seen him out and about?
- Fri 6 Jun 2003 13:36:23
Yeah about 2 weeks ago in Food Game sporting a silly hair do and carrying a rather large skatboard. He was much older and taller than I had expected.
Why Bother - Fri 6 Jun 2003 16:45:16
it's a slow day when the topic of conversation is a has-been C Lister from big brother
groan - Fri 6 Jun 2003 17:50:41
I hope everybody has a HAPPY and Safe long weekend.
I'll be at QN. Hopefully the 250 less people will make a difference, and I'm looking forward to a midnight massage. Not sure about saturday night...
For something different try http://www.australiens.net/whatson/index.php?id=389
but I won't be going, peer pressure. :(
Now don't forget to voice your considered opinions on how this years Sleaze should be at http://www.mardigras.org.au/sleaze_ball . I think I said before that the "community" should have suggestions, maybe through the Sydney Star Observer, as a survey type of thing so parties are better and cost effecient. Looks like NMG had a simular idea...
Fireman Sam - Fri 6 Jun 2003 18:00:17
Chiclet - Tom Stephan sounds like a good alternative if I give QN a miss. Monday morning is Arq-time.
maybe - Fri 6 Jun 2003 22:21:07
SX reports on QN: "Recently there's been a bit of bad press and word-of-mouth about the two previous parties being overcrowded and uncomfortably hot. Party organisers and Home management have listened to the complaints and taken them seriously. Many structural and logistic improvements have been made to the venue, to ensure the comfort of the 2100 patrons who'll be dancing their tits off this Sunday night..."
I've never found it too much of an issue, but I'd love to hear from anyone who can clarify what the "structural and logistic improvements" are.
have fun all!
nathan - Fri 6 Jun 2003 23:51:43
Gordon from BB1 has always lived in sydney, i saw him skateboarding down Oxford Street once and prayed a truck would hit him. But as he has since also survived being a human shield in Baghdad, I guess the man is impregnable.
Recovery from what: I can only assume on June 22 that it means recovery from Toybox?
- Sat 7 Jun 2003 00:13:26
ARQ(Vortex room) for Sexy Galexy and her drag king friday night. Woo hoo!
Getting in free before 11pm was a bonus. Finding the place full of drag kings and their supporters was added extra bonus. Then hanging out doing butch bonding by Sveta's DJ booth, watching really good shows, and dancing and grinding away made the whole night excellent fun.
We were only going to drop in for a look, so felt we could have put in a little more effort in the dressing up dept, and will do so next time we go, in full leathers :-) It was great to see a usually blokey venue like ARQ full of girly goodness. So with Bumpher Bar closing up on the 4th July, we have another place to go to on those non-Hellfire friday nights.
Evil Twin - Sat 7 Jun 2003 10:26:52
I'm doing my PhD thesis on the Constitutional Crisis that a Regina Eviction from Big Brother Would Cause.
- Sat 7 Jun 2003 11:57:16
VALE - HAND IN HAND (Approx 1990 - 2002)
I'd like to express the mourning of a good friend of yours and mine that passed on from our community on this day exactly one year ago.
This friend was a reliable buddy who for a decade was always there for you and
me. Once a year we would celebrate with this friend and have the best of times.
Then we started taking our friend forgranted and because of this our friend went away.
We all hope that our friend can someday come back and have fun with us again but at the moment regretably this seems unlikey.
We all really miss our friend very dearly and the city of Sydney is poorer for the loss of this friend.
Our friends name was "Hand In Hand".
.
Joey (A good friend of Hand in Hand) - Sat 7 Jun 2003 14:02:16
I was at ARQ and saw the drag kings last night too. I find drag kings as boring as many men find drag queens. There's less and less irony in drag king shows these days, and more and more posing.
notapollyanna - Sat 7 Jun 2003 15:27:16
Hand in Hand may be gone, but you can still support ACON by going to egg tonight at the Shift.
I am.
over easy please. - Sat 7 Jun 2003 16:59:15
Re Joeys post about the apparent death of Hand In Hand i have to agree with everything he said.
Any party boy in this city worth his salt would be really noticing that something is missing from this long weekend that we all so eagarly looked forward to from year to year. Tonight just will not be the same, I think I'll stay home tonight
- Sat 7 Jun 2003 17:23:19
At the top of this board panther has written about Pride this week -
"This year it celebrates the numbers 30, 25, 15 and 10"
What the hell is that all about ???????
curious - Sat 7 Jun 2003 17:24:25
Ah Ha...! So I guess you've all realised I've been away for a week because I've been silent on the same sex places debate. Yes... I expect it wont change, being a case of political correctness as previously discussed. To me it boils down to this... The mixed parties are fine, I always have a blast. The straight men are a bit of a problem though, they don't like you checking out their dicks at the urinal (and dont any of you poofs deny that you do that, I've seen you all) but hey? how does one know. The men only parties or mostly men only parties I've experienced (early MardiGras and early Inquisition and of course the unforgettable Black party last October) had the intangeable magic as some one put it. You can however be pretty much guaranteed a straight free presence at an all men party. With all this mixing it seems the Fag Hag culture is alive and well in the lesbian community(like it's so cool to hang out with gay guys, they have so much fun). Even more scarey, there now seems to be a 'Fag Hag' male equivalent (like it's so cool to hang with Dykes, they have so much fun) Hmmm, nothing wrong with that concept I suppose apart from the superficiality that engenders it. Are some so uncomfortable with their same sex culture that they have to cling to a sickening alignment with a 'so far from reality' artifically created Will & Grace type wanna be connection. <Shudder> See you all at Sleaze.
PS. Can some one tell us what the stuff up, mentioned above, was at the Black party...?
Xane
- Sat 7 Jun 2003 18:52:08
Joey (A good friend of Hand in Hand) - Sat 7 Jun 2003 14:02:16 Don't worry Joey,
I'm in New York, I'm having a fabulous time! Miss you, don't change! Mwahhhh!
Hand-In-Hand - Sat 7 Jun 2003 19:02:26
I've decided to check out Tom Stephan and skip Queer Nation.
Hope you all have a happy QN, regardless.
Will anyone care to join me?
rhetorical - Sat 7 Jun 2003 20:57:21
This afternoon I was enjoying a restful nap in preparation for the rage party tonight at Tugun [gold coast] when I was rudely awakened yet again by ferral children. Just in case anyone has problems with other peoples ferral children making a noise while an afternoon nap would be appropriate ..... I found quite by accident that opening the windows and playing Kylie Minoghue cds at maximum volume alerts the parents of the ferral children to a perceived danger, resulting in the removal of such unpleasant children without even checking if one has a bread making machine or a bidet! On a serious note though, does anyone have any interest in all the left-over husbands who are still bi-curious? I shall only be here until 10 so hurry.....
fredbear - Sat 7 Jun 2003 21:07:07
Well by this time on the Saturday night of the Queens birthday weekend I'd be peaking away having a ball running up and down that funky heated tunnel between dome and the hordern pavilion, but alas hand in hand is no more.
The fact that i am home tonight and not at hand in hand sadens me greatly.
- Sun 8 Jun 2003 00:34:15
sorry Xane, but no, we hadnt noticed you were away for a week. what does that tell you ?
Tom Stephan - yes, but will leave as soon as he's finished playing (hopefully back to his room at L'otel for a bit of Superchumbo action)
Twisted Australia - Sun 8 Jun 2003 01:04:39
The Hand-in-Hand heated tunnel! You will be missed...
The end of another era - Sun 8 Jun 2003 01:12:57
Guys I went thru the same withdrawal symptoms last nite.
Why couldn't Pride have just cut out Dome, cut back on bleachers etc and just
great music and reasonable lighting in the Hordern ? Sure numbers had dropped
but by cutting back on the budget a bit , surely it could still make $'s ???
Woke at 3am and knew I'd be in the bleachers/toilets powdering the face, got up at 7:30am and knew I should be just getting home waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah
Reconsider next year please ? A club just isnt the same.
Bring it back - Sun 8 Jun 2003 10:25:51
Ah Twisted, a predictable response... a cheap shot... an empty attack, like OUCH. Though if true, it tells me no one is interested in my opinion, but hey that can't be true in our pinkboard plurality driven community... I've lead hundreds of Xane followers to unbridled adrenalin pumpin party passion. Maybe everyone is so self absorbed they don't notice our culture continues to dilute and fragment while they superficially play out their so called tolerance to the world and miss the reality of what is really happening in the Sydney GLTB <alphabet follows> community. We are becoming homoginised and as such our parties are losing appeal.
Xane
- Sun 8 Jun 2003 10:32:28
How was egg ?
- Sun 8 Jun 2003 10:56:24
Xane - Sat 7 Jun 2003 18:52:08 Black didn't provide - or negotiate with the venue management/licensee - dedicated sex spaces. So guys did what guys do at an all guy party - pretty much anywhere. It meant that ACON couldn't supply safe sex stuff appropriately and also meant that the manager/licensee/licensing police were all mightily pissed off at the total breakdown of what's always had to be a sensitively handled issue, given licensing laws etc. The next party held on site - Pride's New Year Party - had it's sex space closed down pretty swiftly as a result and since then - nada.
- Sun 8 Jun 2003 11:16:19
over easy please. - Sat 7 Jun 2003 16:59:15 I just don't think it's possible for a grown-up person to go to a party called egg...........
- Sun 8 Jun 2003 11:19:27
any word on how many went to "egg" ?
- Sun 8 Jun 2003 12:30:31
I heard that Manacle are making sunday nights "community nights", and as such leatherwomen are allowed to attend. If so, then they kept it pretty quiet, with nothing in SX or SSO about it. Perhaps hoping that no women would find out about it, or not wanting to scare off the male clientel? Hmm. It would feel like turning up at a party you were not invited to.
- Sun 8 Jun 2003 13:28:03
It doesn't matter how much you negotiate - with todays laws no licensed venue
can have a sex space.
In my opinion after 18 years of dance parties and no problem getting sex , this
problem only came to light because people demanded a sex space so promoters blocked off an area for it - right in peoples faces. You may as well have just
shoved strobe lights and a big arrow advertising it.
You could go the toilets, go behind the curtains in Dome until users left a
mess and that got stopped or just find a dark'ish corner some where or just take them home.
You can slag venues, promoters or whoever but if you keen enough start campaigning your local members etc but I feel once you voice what you want it will be ignored. We dont have a dedicated sex space at Gilligans,Arq,Home,Batutas,Colombian etc.
Sure you're entitled to your opinion but it ain't going nowhere unless the
law is changed.
Dance parties are for dancing, sex venues are for ? - Sun 8 Jun 2003 13:58:39
nada - Thanks for the update on Black... Of course this is continuing to flow on as seen at Inquisition couple of weeks back with the rapid dispersal of anyone congregating for carnal purposes and being threatened to stop or else the party will be shut down. I expect the proprietors of City Live (or whatever) and the IXI organisers were nervous about a repeat of the troubles at Pride's New Year and possibly heafty fines. I didn't think sex spaces were negotiable... that's interesting. Truely a touchy subject because of the (draconian) liquor licensing laws (no alcohol sales at sex on premesis). Of course there are ways around it with a bit of emagination. HQ run their monthly ws arvo with alcohol provided (cost inbedded in the door charge). Maybe sell alcohol only at City Live and have the sex spaces at the Dome. After all... it's a private party and there arn't any laws that apply to consensual sex at private parties. When I go to any of the Harley Davidson Rallies, you purchase Harley or HOG dollars at the beginning of the rally and you use these to buy your food, drinks and merchandise over the three day period, that way the rally organisers don't need to worry about state licensing laws. I guess, with all the forced political correctness now it's easier to scrub the idea of dedicated sex spaces and not buy into the arguement by taging those who request it as some sort of deviants. I can't buy your ACON arguement though, safe sex isn't ACON's responsibility. The issue of safe sex packs is comendable but ultimately it's up to the individual to look after himself and go to the party prepared.
Xane
- Sun 8 Jun 2003 14:25:23
I think the Queens Birthday long weekend public holiday should be cancelled.
Its just not the same without a big dance party on this weekend.
- Sun 8 Jun 2003 15:03:51
Bring it back - Sun 8 Jun 2003 10:25:51 -
It's great that you were having withdrawal symptoms when you didn't even know who was producing the party!
- Sun 8 Jun 2003 18:56:23
I don't think it's draconian to have a law that doesn't permit alcohol to mix with sex. we are in the middle of a new rise in HIV infections. no doubt alcohol and drugs will have played a part in that.
- Sun 8 Jun 2003 19:03:06
Xane - Sun 8 Jun 2003 14:25:23 Part of ACON's government-funded harm minimisation brief is to provide the necessaries - condoms/lube/needle exchange - at major community events that occur within - and for - at risk communities. They've been contracted to do this at major gay dance parties for nearly 20 years. But you're right: nothing ACON does obviates the need for gay men to be accountable for their own actions.
- Sun 8 Jun 2003 19:34:27
Dance parties are for dancing, sex venues are for ? - Sun 8 Jun 2003 13:58:39 Do you REALLY think that the RAS and the Centennial Park Trust Board weren't aware of what was going on in the Hordern toilets all those years? Or that the organisers didn't cater for what was going on there?
- Sun 8 Jun 2003 19:39:39
- Sun 8 Jun 2003 19:03:06 I think the fact that the epidemic itself - especially the treatments-led change from death to chronic manageable condition - has a helluva lot more to do with it than alcohol and drugs.
- Sun 8 Jun 2003 19:41:51
Good luck to all people attending Queer nation tonight. If the promised amendments have not been implemented and the same old crush occurs please complain on the night to any staff member you can see. Bombard them with your thoughts of dissatisfaction.
If they again have oversold - let them know.
They cant justify getting away with this party after party after party.
Protest - Sun 8 Jun 2003 19:43:31
well I'm just home from Queer nation and I want to say I'm disappointed.
The "crush" as other people call it was still there. It was mildly better than the last party but only just.
I actually did try to make these sorts of comments to staff on the night but gave up after one staff member very rudely said I should "stop complaining , get a life and "f--k off". Marvellous customer relations if I do say so.
In the end I spent 90% of the night in rooms OTHER THAN the main crush room and had a good time, but the point remains that the managers of queer nation have done little compared to the last party (nor do they seem to care).
Bedtime for me now. I should be up and about by Thursday lol :P
Greenie - Mon 9 Jun 2003 08:31:58
"...Dance parties are for dancing, sex venues are for..."
Maybe for you...
The organisers of those older parties didn't care, nor should they have cared, it was none of their business becuase they were private parties.
Xane
- Mon 9 Jun 2003 08:51:44
bring in those reviews ! I wanna hear if Tom Stephan was as good as he's meant to be and if anyone actually went to Egg
Sancy Ninatra - Mon 9 Jun 2003 11:09:51
Protest - Sun 8 Jun 2003 19:43:31
Yes they can! If the parties get sold out time and time again, they won't care about over crowding.
How much of a problem must "complaints" be if these same people still keep on coming to the parties time and time again?
Addicted to crush - Mon 9 Jun 2003 13:00:52
at the top of this graffitti wall it says this ...
"Sydney's PRIDE also has an action packed week planned for later in the month. This year it celebrates the numbers 30, 25, 15 and 10! "
In reference to 30 , 25 , 15 , 10 - What the hell does that mean ??
- Mon 9 Jun 2003 13:23:40
Xane - you missed the point luv. I did not say you cant have sex at a dance party. You just cant advertise the fact with a dedicated space thats all.
I said it was never a problem in the past, only a problem when people starting
demanding a dedicated spaced off area within one of the Halls - against the law
pure and simple.
If people just kept quiet about and just had sex somewhere this whole fiasco
wouldnt be a problem.
Dont advertise the space - Mon 9 Jun 2003 13:58:52
Hey Greenie , sorry but I disagree with you. Sure Home was packed - they have to be able to make money honey. I only danced on the main dance floor all night and was absent from the floor twice for about 20 minutes. Yes the middle of the floor was impossibly busy but I dance on the side of the dance floor and except for a few occassions had no problems and I'm I real claustrophobic , I cant stand the RHI dance floor especially before or after a show and this was not as bad. The area near the bar was very busy I admit but there were other places to dance. In fact right in front of the DJ's was reasonable all night. I and a few others posted we couldn't understand why Home just doesn't extend the dance floor area and they certainly did. The music on the main dance floor was exceptional for most of the night until Luke Leal shoved in some old stuff around 4:30am - my opinion on this as others had their hands in the air so I'm not complaining but must admit it did bring me
down off my drugs :)
I did not attend those QN's where everyone complained but I'll certainly go
again. 2100 is the max number for that place.
And Greenie , dont complain to the security or the staff, they are so busy and if you've ever dealt with drunk/drugged public , your temper is very short.
I enjoyed my self - Mon 9 Jun 2003 14:06:37
I went to Queer Nation and thoroughly enjoyed it. Of course there were spaces that were packed to the rafters, but it's easy enough to go to another space for a bit of a breather and then get back into it.I dont see why people should complain.It didn't seem overcrowded to me.
Only complaint is that it's five bucks for a water and five bucks for a bloody coke.
redhead - Mon 9 Jun 2003 14:32:27
Re Party behaviour / Social behaviours such as alcohol and drug consumption related to sexual activity and HIV. I do not believe parties, alcohol, drugs, accompaning sex have anything substantial to do with HIV rates.
According to WHO... Numbers of people living with HIV / AIDS comparison between Asia/Pacific/Australia and Western Europe which has similar population numbers in 2000:
Western Europe: 520000
Asia/Pacific/Australia 530000
Western Europe has a relative free social structure in terms of alcohol/drugs/sex. Asia Pacific and Australia have a relative tight structure (draconian Laws) in terms of alcohol/drugs/sex. The arguement falls slightly in favour of a more free society and slightly against prohibition.
Draconian Laws = Shutting down Pinkboard because of content, drug sniffer dogs, no alcohol sales at Sex Premises , Marijuana laws, methodone programs, age of consent laws (fortunately not any more)... the list goes on.
Xane
- Mon 9 Jun 2003 14:44:48
Dance parties are for dancing, sex venues are for ? - Sun 8 Jun 2003 13:58:39
Thanks Mum... I'll keep that in mind.
- Mon 9 Jun 2003 15:09:49
Was Winterdaze in Melbourne as ghastly as I predicted? Did anyone go?
Paul Diamondo - Mon 9 Jun 2003 16:00:43
A friend of a friend of a friend thought that their straight hairdresser was maybe going to Winterdaze - that's as close as I can get. As far as I can tell most of Melbourne is still at recoveries.
lovin' - Mon 9 Jun 2003 16:28:57
Queer Nation was a blast! But, the main dance floor is no place for the faint hearted, or anyone who dislikes VERY close physical contact with fellow partiers.
All the DJ's were good, with Luke Leal reigning supreme, as usual. And I'm glad they reduced the normal 2 silly shows down to just 1 silly show. Hopefully they'll do away with that next time too!
Alex did include quite a few older songs when he came on after the 4am show, but was still quite good, and I reckon he's actually getting better with each QN.
As for the supposed internal changes to make more room - I didn't notice anything different. One exception was the absence of the podium in the middle of the dance floor - which I missed a little bit, because it served as a bit of a landmark for navigating throught the crowd, and was also a sanctuary from the heaving masses.
No, it's not a perfect party, but was definitely the pick of what was on over the weekend, and generally speaking, a very good night.
jeffgg - Mon 9 Jun 2003 18:29:48
Dont advertise the space - Mon 9 Jun 2003 13:58:52 So much for 30 years of gay liberation. Let's just all button up and neck with the opposite sex....
- Mon 9 Jun 2003 18:34:23
Xane - Those numbers are so high in 3rd world countries because they don't have the same level of access to condoms - hardly the same conditions as in this country.
A more appropriate comparison would be to look at the percentage of sero-conversions in this country that had something to do with being pissed or high.
If being pissed or high wasn't a problem, then why does ACON devote so much time to distributing condoms at dance parties?
- Mon 9 Jun 2003 19:55:29
The numbers at the top of the page are explained here as well as in the PDF brochure.
Panther - Mon 9 Jun 2003 20:00:53
Tom Stephan was enjoyable enough and *almost* as good as our DJ's. I am glad you all enjoyed QN. A party was had by all.
Andrew - Tue 10 Jun 2003 08:54:40
Xane - you're crazy. If I ever do something stupid, it's when I am too out of it. Stimulants can fuel your libido as other substances can lower your inhibitions and impair judgement. That's a recipe for disaster if you don't have the maturity and experience to handle it.
Trust me - Tue 10 Jun 2003 09:01:58
Hi went to Rubys CD launch on Sunday and had a blast. Dancefloor was a buzz people were sexy and classy and the whole night especially the pre launch drinks where fantastic. Thanks to the RUBY team for a fantastic night. Cant wait fot the next one when RUBY goes to the enchanted forest. See you all there.
Kisses for RUBY and congrats on the CD.
Ruby Fan - Tue 10 Jun 2003 10:19:36
Mon 9 Jun 2003 18:34:23
Liberation was so that we could live our lives openly with our partners. Not so that you could fuck anyone you liked whereever you liked.
Some of us are still decent - Tue 10 Jun 2003 10:29:10
Mon 9 Jun 2003 19:55:29 If you look at the number of gay seroconversions versus the number of gay guys who do drugs, you'd have to conclude that far more guys have safe sex when they're on drugs, rather than the reverse. The vast majority of sexually active gay men aged between 20-40 aren't HIV positive - in that age group it's probably no more than 10%. Surveys show however, that around 70% of them have done/are doing drugs.
Of course "being out of it" is high risk behaviour, but it's nowhere being THE explanation for the spread of HIV. A more plausible explanation is the fact that a significant proportion of HIV transmission in our community occurs via guys who don't know their actual serostatus and make assumptions based on a negative status they no longer have. The culture of 3 monthly testing is pretty much gone.
In Victoria, 40% of the new infections presenting in the recent infections spike were in guys who had never previously had an HIV antibody test. Anyone who is out there doing it in gay culture should be testing every 3 months. A guy who is himself in the process of seroconverting will be highly infectious - the virus reaches blood concentration levels at that point that it will never reach again.
But I think looking for a single causative factor for the rise in infections is pointless. It's about a whole range of factors.
- Tue 10 Jun 2003 10:42:45
Trust me - Tue 10 Jun 2003 09:01:58
Oh yeah... I'm crazy alright and aint it great? (Sounds like you get a bit crazy at times as well, and that's OK, nobody's business but your own). The point I am trying to make is that prohibition makes the problem worse not better. Research it your self and form an objective position, transcent the common myths served up to us by our parental governments.
Xane
- Tue 10 Jun 2003 10:57:55
I went the QN on Sunday night and am now even more strongly in favour of the numbers of people wanting to be in the main dance area at any one time being regulated. If it means having security at the entrance to the main dance space then so be it. A club with a CAPACITY of 2100 simply cant allow 80-90% of the capacity of the venue all try to squeeze into a space that only holds 60% of the venue capacity at any given time.
ITS JUST NOT SAFE.
I would hate to see the day that some silly queen pushed himself too far in an environment like that got over dehydrated and died as a result. Home nightclub would never survive a possible lawsuit.
I think the managers of Home has to seriously look at ways of making that place a safer place to party. Right now its a disaster waiting to happen.
Having said that, I must admit I had an excellent time, but thats probably cause I was sensible enough to not party in the overcrowded main dance floor space.
My opinion - Tue 10 Jun 2003 11:09:37
Any reports from the Melbourne parties?
curious - Tue 10 Jun 2003 11:14:40
redhead, there is a water fountain hiding up near the toilets in the terrace
parched - Tue 10 Jun 2003 11:19:03
More details about Sunday @Home are requested (times,cost etc.)
I like the thought of checking out Home in the daytime - it is daytime, right?
dayclubber - Tue 10 Jun 2003 11:20:59
curious - Tue 10 Jun 2003 11:14:40 I think we're waiting for 'lovin it' to give us feedback from his friend's friend's straight hairdresser....
- Tue 10 Jun 2003 11:36:22
Recovery @ Home (Pride Week event as per Pride Centre website http://www.pridecentre.com.au)
Together with New Mardi Gras, PRIDE will be hosting a Sunday Recovery at Home Nightclub on Sunday 22nd June from 6.00pm – 2.00am.
On the Terrace you will be treated to the funky tunes of DJ’s Kate Monroe and Alex Taylor and for those wanting a harder edge, DJ’s Kelly Lynch and Chip will be servicing your needs in the Silver Room.
PRIDE & New Mardi Gras Members: $15 Non-Members: $20.
Tickets available through the PRIDE Centre.
This event is proudly sponsored by Queer Nation.
- Tue 10 Jun 2003 13:35:49
Recovery @ Home sounds great due to the interesting DJ lineup. Then at 2am, you can keep it going at Arq/Shift/Stonewall/Phoenix or wherever. Something for the boys and the girls.
What will happen to the downstairs area? Hopefully, it will be unused and not full of incompatables. One hopes the Sunday crowd of families visiting Darling Harbour is not homophobic or else would be safely at home eating dinner and watching telly at that time.
It is a good idea and will help those who want to work on Monday.
evening-clubber? - Tue 10 Jun 2003 15:21:09
Tue 10 Jun 2003 10:42:45 - we aren't looking for a single cause for HIV sero-conversions. merely an aspect of why the "draconian" liquor/sex in venue laws, might not actually be quite as "draconian" as people make them out to be.
- Tue 10 Jun 2003 15:45:38
Thank for the tip parched - Tue 10 Jun. I'll rememeber for the next QN.
Redhead - Tue 10 Jun 2003 16:01:49
Rollins rocked this weekend at Queer Nation in the silver room. Great mix of people and very sexy vibe thanks to Miss Rollins. Can this girl get any better?
- Tue 10 Jun 2003 16:37:39
Just in case u havent noticed, HeadQuters is licenced (cabaret).
HQ is a sex club with a licence to sell booze..
- Tue 10 Jun 2003 16:37:59
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re:Anyone who is out there doing it in gay culture should be testing every 3 months.
true point, but even still, you have the window period where even if tested you cannot be sure. it is fair to assume that you can never assume you are negative until you haven't had sex for three months and get tested
- Tue 10 Jun 2003 16:51:21
- Tue 10 Jun 2003 15:45:38 The indecency in licensed premises legislation has absolutely nothing whatsoever to do with HIV. It was a part of liquor licensing law for decades before HIV was even heard of.
- Tue 10 Jun 2003 17:23:46
Tue 10 Jun 2003 16:37:59 - no i hadn't noticed. how to they (legally) work around the liquor laws?
Tue 10 Jun 2003 16:51:21 - you can go 3 months with having sex and never put yourself at risk of HIV. use a condom with lots of lube when you fuck, or just things other than fucking. Zero HIV transmission that way.
- Tue 10 Jun 2003 17:24:23
What's the word on the Toybox Day party - will it be like the non-recovery Frisky parties? Interested to get views on whether day partying can work in Sydney - seems an interesting concept.
Ozfritz - Tue 10 Jun 2003 19:45:43
Anyone who is out there doing it in gay culture should be testing every 3 months.
Thanks Mum... I'll keep that in mind.
- Tue 10 Jun 2003 20:16:03
Just in case u havent noticed, HeadQuters is licenced (cabaret).
HQ is a sex club with a licence to sell booze..
No I hadn't noticed, Why don't they sell it then? They were giving it away last time I was there.
- Tue 10 Jun 2003 20:18:31
I've just responded to NMG request for opinion/suggestion on how Sleaze should be organised this year. I expect to see all my suggestions implemented for a wild and raunchy party... sorry Ball.
I just wish they would pick a date and pick it soon. I need to organise my social calendar & sex life so that I can attend. Interestingly they mention Alcohol Licensing Laws and Sex Spaces. A suggestion that the party be alcohol free so it would solve the Sex Space problem. WOW...! What do we think of an alcohol free Sleaze Ball...?
Xane
- Tue 10 Jun 2003 20:25:39
Xane - you missed the point luv... If people just kept quiet about and just had sex somewhere this whole fiasco wouldnt be a problem.
Dont advertise the space - Mon 9 Jun 2003 13:58:52
My apologies... I agree entirely...!
Xane - Tue 10 Jun 2003 20:30:55
Just in case u havent noticed, HeadQuters is licenced (cabaret).
HQ is a sex club with a licence to sell booze..
- Tue 10 Jun 2003 16:37:59
Pinkboard is unable to verify this statement.
The top floor upstairs of HeadQuarters used to be a cabaret licensed strip club. Don't think it is any more and may be part of HeadQuarters when they have a big night on.
paying attention - Tue 10 Jun 2003 20:34:52
DJ Tom Stephan on Sun night at Arq was pure class. He had the dancefloor pumping with his sexy tribal music. As a regular party goer it was great to hear something different. After him came Luke Leal and Peter Farris; and if you didn't know it was them you could have guessed: Paul Goodyear? Alex Taylor? Jake Kilby? Sydney dj's are sounding a lot alike. They're fast becoming clones of each other (or clones of Paul? -- no offense Paul, you're the best!). Thanks Arq for promoting variety.
- Tue 10 Jun 2003 22:33:09
Been quiet for a while because my favourite room at QN (Silver Room) is beginning to sound like the main floor. My friends and I are hoping the DJs playing in there will bring back those dirty sexy beats like Coco did. He always had a fresh set. Seriously hoping the Silver Room at the next QN will sound darker instead of same-ish. No offense intended, just an opinion.
Still A QN Fan - Wed 11 Jun 2003 00:11:59
I can't but help think that Toybox sounds somewhat tragic. Surely if you get through Saturday night without going out and taking drugs, you could just allow yourself a normal sunday. Maybe it will be a blast, but it could be full of all the tragedies who just have to go out at any cost. I don't like the idea of day parties really. Clubbing isn't about being sensible and not missing sleep. night time is the time ffor fun and dancing and meeting and cavorting with strangers.
The email flyer for toybox stresses how you will be able to go home and have dinner and have a restful night's sleep. as if!!!! and even if you did go home, you would sleep badly and still feel like crap the next day.
- Wed 11 Jun 2003 08:13:23
- Tue 10 Jun 2003 20:18:31 The premises that HQ occupies carries a license from it's previous days as a Restaurant. That doesn't mean that the HQ business itself is licensed to sell booze - and it doesn't.
- Wed 11 Jun 2003 08:30:08
re a previous post - "DJ Tom Stephan on Sun night at Arq was pure class. He had the dancefloor pumping with his sexy tribal music. As a regular party goer it was great to hear something different. After him came Luke Leal and Peter Farris; and if you didn't know it was them you could have guessed: Paul Goodyear? Alex Taylor? Jake Kilby?"
I really agree with this.
The current batch of popular DJ's in this city all play the same American circuit party tribal music. There all as boring as each other.
Most Sydney DJ's 5-6 years ago were playing music that was coming out of Europe and now they are playing this awful souless American tribal house stuff. The main offenders in the production of this crap music are remix teams such as Hex Hector , Thunderpuss (AKA Barry I f--ked up my set at SleazeBall 2000) Harris , Club 69 (AKA Peter Raohoffer) , Victor Calderone and a few others that dont come to mind at the moment (thats how forgetable they are)
People slagg off commercial (cheese , handbag, call it what you like) music but quite frankly I think its on the way back. And about time too.
People dont smile on dance floors as much as they used to and its all because of this American circuit party tribal music that is dead boring.
The sooner we turn back to Europe for the source of our dance music the better in my opinion.
And lets correct one misconception - A Kylie / Madonna / Cher / Dannii track remixed by one of the above mentioned remix teams does NOT make the track a commercial release. A traditional "handbag music" artist remixed by a tribal house remix team still remains a tribal remix no matter how hard to try to promote it otherwise !!!!!
On a final note - i wish certain DJ's would pull their big heads in and stop playing dubs at Arq (mostly on Saturdays). Its bad enough having to put up with tribal house without resorting to the dub mix instead of the vocal mix ... ZZZZZZzzzzzzz
A Happy Commercial Handbag - Wed 11 Jun 2003 09:42:28
I have only heard Coco once at QN but you are right, he set a seriously sexy pace, allright. Last time I was there, Chip and Neale sounded every bit as good.
Can't imagine the Silver Room sounding like the main floor. Are you sure about that?
- Wed 11 Jun 2003 09:48:58
Although I have a few complaints about Inquisition XI (Late May is a bit late!venue - never again!, lighting - too much!, $85 for a nightclub experience - also too much! and generally not as good as X in 02) I'd like to congratulate SLPA for keeping on trying. In particular, a big kiss to y'all for encouraging women to attend (somewhat controversially, it seems). This is more than I can say for the leather scene in Melbourne (where I live) which seems to do its damnedest to exclude women. Stuff 'em...I fly to Sydney to party with the freaky fetish boys n girls, and where the tiny group of chicks who do attend are welcomed (officially anyway). As for the mixed queer issue, obviously I'm for it because I feel a great sense of solidarity when poofs n dykes come together to party, and let's face it, having chicks there just adds a hint of style, good looks and sophistication! As for the DJ's, Mandy Rollins rocked and Steven Sonius funked it up at the end of the night (thank god!). Thanks, keep on encouraging women and see y'all next year for XII.
BigBlue - Wed 11 Jun 2003 09:54:41
" Wed 11 Jun 2003 09:42:28 " who said comedy is dead ? hysterical !
Mr Panties - Wed 11 Jun 2003 09:58:09
To "Wed 11 Jun 2003 08:13:23" I know where you are coming from but have you considered that about 20% of workers are doing shifts? Probably more than that in this industry, actually. Weekends don't mean much to some of us. I predict that we will see more daytime clubbing. Besides, with all that melanoma out there, "a Surry-Hills suntan" can't be all that bad.
anytime-clubber - Wed 11 Jun 2003 10:20:24
"Wed 11 Jun 2003 08:13:23"
At the risk of being flamed here, I'm guessing the reason you think you wouldn't be able to go home from Toybox and eat, rest and sleep soundly is because you'd be a putrid mess! (Not that there's anything wrong with being a putrid mess) I believe a day party is the perfect opportunity to prove that it is possible to go out, have a dance, listen to your favorite style of music and hang with your friends without doing a single line, a solitary bump, a lonely pill or a smoke of the pipe!
Sure it's fun to get messy sometimes, but it's also fun not to.
GiT - Wed 11 Jun 2003 11:18:25
The Melbourne leather scene is suburban anyway. Why would any woman go out there? But you're right- some of those leather dance party organisers don't seem very friendly to women :(
Lather - Wed 11 Jun 2003 11:20:41
- Wed 11 Jun 2003 08:13:23
well clearly....duh..... this party isnt for you.
please don't come
toyboy - Wed 11 Jun 2003 11:22:59
oh dear! the Pride calendar looks very housefrau!
Frow Line - Wed 11 Jun 2003 11:28:59
Clearly those who complain about over crowding at Queer Nation have two choices: 1. Go and stay off the main dance floor, or 2. Don't go at all. But, I have to say, stop bitching about it on here because it's really just starting to look like a smear campaign. It is getting really tiring reading about it. If you don't like it, then don't go. There are other choices. It seems obvious to me that if Home was doing anything that was against the law then they would be dealt with by the law. Those that attend clearly love the party. If they didn't, then Queer Nation would not continue to sell out. So, stop boring us with your bitching.
- Wed 11 Jun 2003 11:44:06
Wed 11 Jun 2003 08:13:23 - it sounds like you are struggling with the feeling that you're being lured out every Saturday night - when I think most people go out for because they want to have fun. That said, Magnitude's day parties in Melbourne have a reputation for being fantastic, and daytime clubbing in London is out of this world. Don't expect Toy Box to be the only day party in Sydney a year from now.
- Wed 11 Jun 2003 11:57:54
yes I'm with you Mr Panties. when I think of so called "tribal house" the names Chus, Castrelli & possibly Tenaglia come to mind. I never knew Thunderpuss & Hex Hector were doing tribal stuff, only cheesy handbag house.
Chiclet - Wed 11 Jun 2003 12:26:14
- Wed 11 Jun 2003 11:57:54
I'm not struggling against any feeling about being lured out every saturday...been out about three times this year and had great times, just have no desire to do it on Sunday day.
And, maybe I'm way off whack here, i am sure that the majorit y of people who go to Toybox will indeed indulge in drugs. And, no I dont end up a putrid mess, but I do have huge problems sleeping after taking stuff whjch is why I don't do it too often.
- Wed 11 Jun 2003 13:22:39
COME CELEBRATE WITH PRIDE
Hi all
PRIDE Week 2003 is just around the corner. Programs are now available week from the PRIDE Centre and the Colombian Hotel and will hit local shops, restaurants, cafes, pubs and clubs this weekend. The PRIDE Website (www.pridecentre.com.au) has full details of this year’s program.
Sunday Recovery @ Home
PRIDE & New Mardi Gras will be hosting a Sunday Recovery @ Home Nightclub:
Sunday 22nd June 2003
6.00pm – 2.00am
PRIDE & New Mardi Gras Members: $15 Non-Members: $20.
Tickets available through the PRIDE Centre & the Darlinghurst Toolshed. Members tickets only available from PRIDE.
On the Terrace you will be treated to the funky tunes of DJ’s Kate Monroe and Alex Taylor and for those wanting a harder edge, DJ’s Kelly Lynch and Chip will be servicing your needs in the Silver Room.
This event is proudly sponsored by Queer Nation.
2003 PRIDE Week Awards Night
To celebrate and acknowledge the work done by our community volunteers, PRIDE will be producing the 2003 Sydney Star Observer PRIDE Week Awards Night:
Sunday 29th June 2003
Starting 7.00pm
Paddington Town Hall
Tickets $20 with discounts available for group bookings (table of 10) available from PRIDE.
The evening will be a cabaret style event with special guest presenters, DJ’s, fantastic entertainment and a surprise finale featuring the 73ers, community and professional performers. Your comperes for the evening are Gillian Minervini and Portia Turbo, with direction and choreography by Ian Knowles.
Contact the PRIDE Centre on (02) 9331 1333 or check out our Website: www.pridecentre.com.au for full details.
- Wed 11 Jun 2003 13:51:01
Chiclet - Wed 11 Jun 2003 12:26:14
"I never knew Thunderpuss & Hex Hector were doing tribal stuff, only cheesy handbag house."
Sorry to correct you but that statement is incorrect.
The above remix teams do tribal American House Dance remixes , they dont do cheesey handbag.
If you want cheesy handbag look no further than Almighty Remixes. They define cheese.
coon , cheddar, swiss - Wed 11 Jun 2003 15:24:59
- Wed 11 Jun 2003 08:13:23
thanks for your opion ....I don't agree.
- Wed 11 Jun 2003 16:02:32
i went to both Winterdaze in Melbourne on the Sat night and Queer Nation in Sydney on the Sunday night and the difference between the two couldn't have been more stark. Winterdaze was amazing, great DJs (Tom Stephan, Deep Bitch Boys) and a spacious, fun venue that made exploring a joy - loads of non pretentious guys dancing to great music with a really great vibe. Then to QN on the Sunday - freezing cold, jam packed, boring music - frankly i think all parties have a shelf life, and I think QN has definately reached the end - it's time for soemthing new..
me - Wed 11 Jun 2003 16:12:10
- Wed 11 Jun 2003 08:13:23
"normal sunday" what exactly is a normal sunday?
thanks ....but dont tell me what i can and cant do on my sunday.
Its not my fault you fell that you have to go out on sat night.
"I don't like the idea of day parties really".....have you ever been to one?
I think they are way more fun.
"Clubbing isn't about being sensible and not missing sleep"...well for some people it might be.
"and have a restful night's sleep" ....its all about "moderation"
sorry to hear your not sleeping well.
spot - Wed 11 Jun 2003 16:18:33
Greenie, i think perhaps the home security were right. I went to QN on sunday and had the most amazing night! I found the crowd in the main floor to be very 'cosy' but not uncomfortable. There are so many areas other than smack bang in the middle of the main floor that you can dance with space. Personally - i love being in amongst it all. Congratulations to Home for coming through on their promises to reduce numbers - An amazing night was had by my friends and I.
PS. Redhead - I agree $5 is a bit steep for water, but Home also provide free chilled water fountains in the terrace bar where you can refil your bottle with chilled filtered water - i don't see that at Arq or the shift who charge only $1 less for their water.
A positive attitude tends to always leave me with a positive party experience - lets all stop the whinging and just try and enjoy ourselves for a change?
Born Again QN Supporter - Wed 11 Jun 2003 17:12:47
Hey all! Finally just woke up after a whole weekend of partying, and can I say that Queernation #11 Manga rocked! Plenty of commercial gay karaoke remixes early in the night (especially the female vocal remix of Duran Duran's Save a Prayer) and topping off with plenty of mean ass tribal beats as the sun came up over Darling Harbour. Didn't honestly think that there was much of a crush, I've been through worse at the GUCCI mid-year sale.
Running up that hill - Wed 11 Jun 2003 17:14:29
thunderpuss and hex hector do a cheesy version of tribal house - are we all happy?
check out locals cass&slide - Wed 11 Jun 2003 17:16:58
i love going out, i love spending time with my friends, i LOVE listening to music. if i can do it without sleep deprivation, i'm already one step ahead.
- Wed 11 Jun 2003 18:22:38
God I hate the term "Clubbing" sounds like baby fur seals are involved. How 90's.... Blag...!
Xane
- Wed 11 Jun 2003 18:38:54
Agree Born Again QN Supporter - I only danced on main floor and probably
from 1-3am it was packed but no worse than I've had in the RHI. Otherwise had just enough space to dance and music was great ( although agree with previous poster that the few oldies Alex thru in bought me down as there was a big difference in beat/speed etc but thats my personal view not a bitch ) otherwise will support QN again.
All you had to do was move around a bit and you could find a space. The middle of the floor did look like sardinesville but those dancers probably like it that way.
I had fun too - Wed 11 Jun 2003 19:16:49
is it possible that Xane & Rhiannon are the same person ? they're both really irritating
Sancy Ninatra - Wed 11 Jun 2003 23:02:17
I love being packed close to hot sweaty bodies.
Paul Diamondo - Wed 11 Jun 2003 23:52:39
Instead of blaming the DJ's for playing mixes by american DJ's, why not point the finger at the record companies?
More often than not, whenever any new release from a major artist comes out the only commercially available remixes are by Hex Hector,Thunderpuss,Peter Raohoffer,Victor Calderone etc.
Very few major releases these days have mixes done by European DJ's.
Personally I hate playing a lot of hex hextor (they all sound the same) and Peter raohoffer. Unfortunately when my audience want ceratin songs and they are the only mixes available, I (and a lot of DJ's) don't have a big range of mixes to chose from.
Newbie dj - Thu 12 Jun 2003 07:30:59
16 days to G.A.Y at the shift :)
- Thu 12 Jun 2003 08:11:13
enough talk about QN and Home, its boring me to tears. can we find something else to talk about?like whats happening with the Imperial and how its a great dancing crowd with good music at Phoenix? and whats happening on Oxford Street with new niteclubs appearing and old ones disappearing and whats happening with Beauchamp? there is more to talk about than just QN and Home, its time to go...QN and Home.
sydneyman - Thu 12 Jun 2003 10:39:57
i wanna know who newbi dj is and i wanna come and listen and support you
- Thu 12 Jun 2003 11:59:36
any other Tom Stephan reviews from arq please? I've heard very mixed reports thus far...
curious - Thu 12 Jun 2003 14:52:10
what about reviews from lee coombs
- Thu 12 Jun 2003 16:13:09
i actually prefered queer nation with the mass crush!!!thought it was fun!!!!
- Thu 12 Jun 2003 16:22:05
Newbie dj- How about trying to buy your records in places other than Sydney record stores. If the track has been done,it is available over the internet to buy. Just go into the record labels website or any of the english record stores sites and you can pay for everything with your credit card,delivered within 2 weeks.
It's not that hard to find variety. That is of course unless you are playing cd's only, then you limit your range considerably.
JB - Thu 12 Jun 2003 16:55:10
Ben Drayton heads into the west next Thursday (19th) for a serving of Rock Sucking Hoes @ the Imperial. Cool!
- Thu 12 Jun 2003 17:20:19
I think newbie Dj should play more almighty mixes :o)
- Thu 12 Jun 2003 17:22:58
JB - you make a good point but the question of profitability comes into play. there are many tracks available to buy on overseas website but the exhancge rate can make it unprofitable to do so. Still again my point is these mixes should be made available locally by the record companies, making life for us DJ's a lot easier
Thanks to Thu 12 Jun 2003 11:59:36 for the kind comments :) I'm on each week at a club in the city but still shy about advertising where I am. Still finding my feet but having a wild time so far.
p.s. I have been known to delve into the Almighty remixes for some fun handbag :)
Newbie - Thu 12 Jun 2003 18:13:45
please newbie tell me where to come and drool over you
- Thu 12 Jun 2003 18:58:45
Following on from all the postings about “not so squeezy anything but easy Queer Nation” does anybody out in Pinkboard Land now how the “licensed to hold” numbers are formulated? Following are my thoughts out loud - pls skip if not interested.
I gather it is done by measuring the total area of a venue - made up of the dancefloor and bar areas and timing this by a standard number of people in a square meter. Does this sound right?
I gather that the state legislation is probably quite old. The standard was fine when most venues comprised cinemas and theatres with seated audiences. And dancing meant two people doing a waltz etc just like everybody in the room. In the post Hordern age this view of a nice night out needs reviewing. Is there a standard number of people per square meter? Are the people “doing” anything ie dancing, moving, collapsing?
Or are the capacity numbers controlled wholly by fire safety regulations, gained from experience of getting people out of danger quickly.
It was interesting to watch the Mardi Gras Post Parade Parties grow and grown in the late 80’s and early 90’s. Once only one main hall was used. As others were added the number of available tickets grew. I think the biggest party had 22,000 patrons. Of course not everybody could fit into the RHI at once. An effective control to stop this was closing the doors when the main show started. This can’t be done at a venue like Home I gather. And staff keeping track of who’s going in versus who’s coming out wouldn't be practical.
I confess to not going out to clubs very much precisely because of the crowding issue. At the old Showgrounds you have the luxury of being in the thick of it and being able to escape outside quickly if you wanted to.
If there was a review of the regulations it would probably result in lower
numbers that would effect the commercial viability of clubs.
I don’t know. These are just some thoughts out loud. Anybody with any ideas?
David of Redfern - Thu 12 Jun 2003 18:59:34
Ok moving on from QN - any goss on Sleaze ? When ? Where ? Halls/Venues ?
? - Thu 12 Jun 2003 20:00:13
Par-tay ?
Hey girls, ever had a Robot in the Boudoir? Zarjaz, you need it badly!
The biggest, longest, hardest, baddest Daddy of them all.
Grinding your booty.. Lordy Lord, halelujah!
More Man, than you can bear. Think you can take it?
Can you handle it ? You'll be on your knees, begging for it.
You want to be my b****? Give it to me, let it go, oh yeah
Heartbroken - Thu 12 Jun 2003 20:46:19
Newbie-sometimes you have to pay more for quality
JB - Thu 12 Jun 2003 22:03:14
pride awards - who is that eagle leather man?
- Thu 12 Jun 2003 22:15:57
? - Thu 12 Jun 2003 20:00:13 I think the biggest number recorded at a MG party was the reputed 28,000 racked up for "20 Years of Mardi Gras" in '98. I've gotta say that in the peak attendance years of the mid to late 90's, I was always half-expecting some poor person to be trampled underfoot in the huge human tideflow in and out of the RHI before and after the main show. And how no-one ever suffocated in the 1,000 guy orgy in the Hordern toilets was also a miracle.
Mind you....there'd be worse ways to go......
- Thu 12 Jun 2003 22:38:59
is "newbie dj" mike kelly ?
confused - Thu 12 Jun 2003 23:03:07
True JB but also the week or two delay in getting the goods can be just as costly. However, I am looking into the merits of your suggestions and may end up doing exactly what you've said so thanks for the input.
and no "confused" I'm not Mike Kelly.
newbie - Fri 13 Jun 2003 07:18:12
Went to Brisbanes Queens Ball on the weekend and the promoters have moved the party from the big pavilions of the showgrounds to a very large night club with three seperate spaces. Much better than big pavilions. Fantastic party with hundreds of shirtless party boys, very friendly security and probably the best 2 dj's Queensland has, Neroli and Les Smith. Both played to packed dance floors and absolutely rocked the house. Maybe more of us from Sydney should venture somewhere else apart from Oxford Street or Melbourne for our partys. Cheap airfares, cheap accomodation, cheap party tickets and recovery parties as well.
Great to see some other guys from Sydney there as well as some from Melbourne as well. Think I will go up for their Sleaze Ball in November.
arq boy - Fri 13 Jun 2003 10:07:12
Dean is in the pride awards from Demon Leather. He's completely hot.
- Fri 13 Jun 2003 10:35:25
I dont think it's a good thing that a dj with his L plates is getting tips from pinkboard
- Fri 13 Jun 2003 12:04:21
Toybox....cant wait to see what they have installed for us.
love the metro ...got my ticket,can't wait to try partying during the day.
see you all there.
- Fri 13 Jun 2003 13:28:45
Further comment on DJ playlists:
The issue of playing the 'imports' has also to do with economics. Most DJs, especially the younger ones, get paid an appalling $50/Hour (or less) and many imports can actually cost this or more so the cost effectiveness is a major consideration.
Then you get a few long established DJs, one assumes being paid well into the $100s/Hour, who play things like MPEGs (music ripped off the internet). Regardless of the reason for playing MPEGS, they are illegal for public performance. Venues pay a small fortune to APRA for having the right to allow DJs to play licensed music to their patrons. Venues that allow DJs to play MPEGs are breaching their responsibilities.
The legal issue aside, MPEGs are arguably the worst compressed format, regardless of post-theft equalisation (you can't put back what isn't there in the first place), leaving good sound quality, from even the best system, impossible to maintain.
Many of the young DJs today are buying 'real' music, whether on Vinyl or CD, not ripping it off. Good luck to them, support them. Effectively, because of their "pay" rate, they work for next to nothing but do it because they love the music and the buzz of entertaining us. If they are playing vinyl, it's obviously 'real'. If they are playing CDs, it's probably worth asking the question "Did you pay for this track?".
Mind you, you should be able to tell by the woeful quality....
Noisy Gypsy - Fri 13 Jun 2003 13:46:50
Dear Noisy Gypsy, I couldn’t agree more.
somone who knows - Fri 13 Jun 2003 14:59:50
Noisy Gypsy - Fri 13 Jun 2003 13:46:50
I agree with everything you say. I buy music from the internet but it is imported as vinyl. I don't download stuff and play it, although I do know some dj friends who do. I've also got some dj friends who get p###ed off when you dont "share "the music you've paid for buy burning it for them.
To anybody who wants to take up djíng, I always say- it's a great hobby, do it for yourself, not for fame and expect to spend a lot of money on it.
Playing MPEGs is a bit like cheating.
JB - Fri 13 Jun 2003 15:17:53
Good comments about the MP3s. However when mixes go off the market after only a few weeks, the record companies leave not a lot of choice but to use mp3's.
I try to use only original music if possible but for older tracks, remixes are usually not commercially available. If I could buy them I would gladly do so.
I generally only use downloads to see what a track is like, then I try to buy the original when I can. More often than not though I get the same response, "that's been deleted" or "we've had your order in with the record company for 4 months now and no response"
what's a DJ to do?
newbie - Fri 13 Jun 2003 15:50:28
Sounds like this djíng thing - far from being a benign profession -- does have some industry skeletons in the closet! Tell us more!!!
- Fri 13 Jun 2003 16:18:36
I'm thinking that newbie is really Rhiannon.
- Fri 13 Jun 2003 16:55:00
Today I caught the American Dance*Star awards on Fox [v]. Saw Tenaglia, Timo Maas, Frankie Knuckles, Grand-master Flash, Kosheen and others but Fat-Boy-Slim stood-out-he took his award for *ALL* the DJ's playing House {..because they invented House..} I'm just a patron but I say that that our Queer DJ's are re-defining House music and their contributions are every bit as significant.
BTW, I heard that -for the first time in history, more mixing gear was sold than guitars-!
food for thought - Fri 13 Jun 2003 17:41:59
Dean is in the pride awards from Demon Leather. He's completely hot.
- Fri 13 Jun 2003 10:35:25
what is Demon Leather? Is it a store/label???
- Fri 13 Jun 2003 18:18:48
be surprised to hear anyone say Chip in Silver Room was like the main floor ... this is the place i hate to miss hearing him play. Mandy Rollins too... how much more dark do you want it?
mp3 ... not for me - Fri 13 Jun 2003 18:25:38
who told you that ?
Rhiannon - Fri 13 Jun 2003 19:01:43
At the topic of this page it says....
"Sydney's PRIDE also has an action packed week planned for later in the month. This year it celebrates the numbers 30, 25, 15 and 10!"
What is it with the numbers ? Can ANYBODY tell me ?????
- Fri 13 Jun 2003 20:53:12
Have a look at the Pride site. There are links further up this page. - Panther
food for thought - Fri 13 Jun 2003 17:41:59
Fatboy Slim a.k.a is Norman Cook is an amazing Dj and producer. Probably a better producer. He started off with an almost raver sound, you might remember MR Pizzaman. His remixes are always floor fillers.
Sydney has some very talented dj's indeed-Alex Taylor, Mike Kelly and Kelly Lynch and Chip are technically fantastic. As far as putting a set together, you can't go past Stephen Allkins and Ben Drayton. Junior B and plays some of the most beautiful sounds you will hear on a dancefloor, if you like rhythm, percussion and vocals.Scott Pullen, not gay but we all know him,only plays tracks with some substance, and puts it together so well.Richard Weiss,likewise. Some great dj's coming through the ranks, Dj Renae, Calvin,Sistr P,. And that's just the Queer ones! Don't even get me started on the straight dj's in this town....Sydney has a great amount of dj talent, and the best time to appreciate it is when some international blows in and you pay $50 upwards for a ticket, and the local support act kicks ass!
pinocchio - Fri 13 Jun 2003 21:23:37
Thanks panther, I checked the Pride site. I cant find anything to tell me about those silly numbers.
Could somebody who knows just tell me instead of me having to wade my way thru a web site that doesnt answer my question.
- Sat 14 Jun 2003 03:30:29
Try here.
JB - Fri 13 Jun 2003 15:17:53 - Yeah that's a real good way of thanking a DJ for his work. Asking him an accusing question like "did you pay for that track?"
don't even bother with it - Sat 14 Jun 2003 08:48:55
pinocchio, a few missing votes just in and just between us:
Least-heard-but-most-enjoyed: Scott Pullen, Richard Weiss, Fiesty
Smoothest-and-most-versatile: Alex Taylor
Most humble: Alex Taylor
Best lounge: Bill Morley
Most original: Mandy Rollins
Maddest-sound: DJ Chip
Best-set-this-year: Tony Svehla at MG2003
OUR-Godfathers-of-House: Stephen Allkins & Paul Goodyear
Alex Taylor gets my vote for the smoothest sound.
Chip gets the most maddest sound
M.Y. Awards - Sat 14 Jun 2003 11:03:02
When is DV8 being held next?nothing over queens birthday weekend so anyone know any more info???
- Sat 14 Jun 2003 11:07:17
Another nominee was Tom Stephan. I must admit, he was pretty exciting and slick as well. Didn't mind paying $25 to see him; besides, DJ's ought to be paid more, anyway!
Not a DJ - Sat 14 Jun 2003 11:12:49
"maddest sound" ? like fully sik Bro !
Parra Westfields Crew - Sat 14 Jun 2003 13:35:28
pinocchio, some fine DJ's but i just can't go past Mandy Rollins. With many a saturday night spent down at the Phoenix, she gets my vote every time. Yes, one of the most original with her twisted tribal beats. Just when you think Mandy can't get any better she pulls out one of the finest sets on any given night. One of the strongest sounding DJ's and one of the most liked. How many big parties has she played this year. Good luck to her i say. You won't meet or hear a finer DJ with this style of music.
- Sat 14 Jun 2003 13:59:03
Parra Westfields Crew, no - "maddest sound" as in I feeling like SCREAMING and HOWLING when Chip's cooking up a storm in the Silver Room. If you get my drift..
West of Phoenix - Sat 14 Jun 2003 15:11:47
Of-course- I didn't mean to leave out Mandy,just didn't want to go on for too long.Yep, she rocks too.Can tailor a set to whichever space she is given and still keeps the floor packed every time.
pinocchio - Sat 14 Jun 2003 15:56:07
anyone got details of mike kelly's alleged Finger Lickin UK tour ?
Pink Cashmere - Sat 14 Jun 2003 16:05:16
Would anyone else love a rotation of dj's in the main room at QN? No disrespect to the current ones but it's time for a change, just once I'd like a different feel. Ie, bring the silver room out. It's not big enough and doesn't have enough ventilation for us to enjoy its aural pleasures. I'd love to hear Chip in the main room. Does anyone have a email address for home so we can ask?
KC and the sunshine band - Sat 14 Jun 2003 16:14:09
I too am a very big Mandy fan. Love the work she is doing down at the Phoenix. Her set in the silver room at Queer Nation was huge. Not often you see people with hands in the air when Mandy plays, more like hot grind action. Many a up and comming DJ would do well to take a leaf out of her book and one of a few people who has helped other DJ's find there feet.
Both Alex and Chip are way up there with her. How lucky we are to have such DJ's like the above, who love what they do and do it very, very well.It's about time clubbers wake up and see the class acts we have in this town!
word up - Sat 14 Jun 2003 16:48:21
Attention Pride -
Please consider putting on a big party next year ? Surely just having the Hordern , no Dome/tunnel etc and basic seating etc but great music/reasonable lights, you can still turn a tidy profit ? So many people I spoke to were moaning about the loss of this great winter party.
Clubs are there 365 days of the year, but they can't cut with the Hordern.
Please bring it back Pride - Sat 14 Jun 2003 16:53:39
KC-You could perhaps start with "guest slots" to test the crowd & DJ synergy.
That way, Chip doesn't have to deliver a lengthy set straight away.
mmm? - Sat 14 Jun 2003 17:49:24
Hey West of Phoenix if you don't like Chipp in the Silver Room there are plenty of other spaces in QN. Just take a walk.
lulu - Sat 14 Jun 2003 21:49:17
Sure you can call Stephen Allkins a godfather of house,but Paul Goodyear.He is more like the Sally Spectra of house.
- Sat 14 Jun 2003 23:36:34
Pride runs NYE party. ACON ran Hand in Hand.
- Sun 15 Jun 2003 05:14:26
‘rock sucking hoes’ is a fresh as a daisy chain new club experience. A whole night of new & classic sounds that traverses the hip-hop / rocky / funk / electro spectrum. Expect the jocks to be spinning punky electronic, electrowave, rock & rouge, mash ups, bootlegs, twisted popp, & a family sized potpurri of musical indietronix featuring special/exclusive/rare mixes!
‘rock sucking hoes’ is a fun night out for the inner westie in all of us. Featuring freaky tunes, covering the genres that generally don’t get a guernsey at most venues. Very special guests will be providing weekly slots of musical mayhem. Live acts too!! Dress up as a rock slag/ hip hop player / pimp / gang banger for the chance to win giveaways! Expect downstairs to be intense / noisy and but most of all, fun smokin' dancefloor action.
STOP PRESS: Thursday June 19 special guest is the bad dog Ben Drayton!
Imperial Hotel, Erskineville Road
(the basement is @ tres kool klub!)
Thursdays - 11pm till 3am
$5 in and cheap beers all nite
3 minutes walk from trains – erskineville or macdonaldtown stations.
All 3 sexes welcome, would love to see you out & up for it!
‘rock sucking hoes’ - a club that really sucks! - Sun 15 Jun 2003 13:07:02
ACON stopped doing Hand In Hand cause they experienced about a 400% increase in their public liability insurance premium making the putting on of the party financially unviable given the shrinking attendances from the hey day of 12,000 in the early 90's to the 3,000 that attended the final event in June 2002
If you still want a Hand in Hand party on Queens birthday long weekend in the Hordern pavilion then ask yourself this question...
Are YOU prepared to have a 400% increase in the cost of your admission ticket ?
I didnt think so.
Its time to move on - Sun 15 Jun 2003 13:09:31
anyone got details of mike kelly's alleged Finger Lickin UK tour ?
Pink Cashmere - Sat 14 Jun 2003 16:05:16
FYI - Mike Kelly in London:
Heaven (StarBar) SatJuly19, Playtime SatJuly26 + guesting at Finger Lickin bar (a very small venue) in between...
IE - not a Finger Lickin tour. Not quite sure where you got that info but not the case.
- Sun 15 Jun 2003 16:02:04
So how come there hasn't been a 400% increase in Mardi Gras/Sleaze or
NYE Parties ? and if 3,000 attended the last party , lets say 3,000 attend again at say $70 a ticket.
You're telling me no one could run the Hordern on $210,000 ?
or $60 a ticket = $180,000 ?
Just what is the cost of the Hordern and its insurance ? others seem to be able to do it ? - Sun 15 Jun 2003 16:20:05
you would not believe how expensive it is to get that venue. you have to pay for user-pays police, entertainment, production & staff, security, operations staff, other performers, public liability insurance, cleaning, and even down to water taken from the tap etc.
it is not that easy to do that place - haven't seen many other all night dance parties anything like the gay paties at Fox in years... rock concerts yes and day events no probs, but these are really very unique events for sydney. feel lucky when they are on
btw PLEASE go when someone puts on a party at a different venue.
- Sun 15 Jun 2003 17:00:52
"Just what is the cost of the Hordern and its insurance ? others seem to be able to do it ?" - Sun 15 Jun 2003 16:20:05
It's worth pointing out that ACON reported doing a bit better than break-even with the last H in H, despite the low numbers. The bottom-line for ACON though was that H in H was a fund-raiser. The party-generated profit was disbursed in grants to lots of HIV/health based community initiatives over many years. The mounting costs and falling attendances obviously meant that this was becoming less possible to do. And there's not much point in putting your fundraising investment dollars in something that doesn't give you the funds at the end of the day.
- Sun 15 Jun 2003 17:11:50
..but lulu, thanks but I *have* already bought my ticket to catch Chip at Home, next Sunday. Main or Silver, I don't mind. I thought LONG and HARD about how to categorise Chip and I chose that description because my fondest memories are when you can't see a thing, when it's HOT and foggy, when the walls are padded (clue) and when Chip's got me in a frenzy. It's a type of "madness" that brings a smile.
old sKool chesire cat - Sun 15 Jun 2003 18:32:48
Mr. Goodyear was DJ'ing way back at Bacchanalia, Rat etc. Got the ball rolling,I say. I must make a tribute to Dean Essing, as well.
Trips down memory lane that your parents never took you on - Sun 15 Jun 2003 18:40:44
Hand In Hand in the mid 90's paid its public liability insurance up front for a period of (I think) 6 or 7 years. By the time this contract ran out after the 2002 Hand In Hand they found that the costs of that insurance product had blown out of all proportions. Any renewal of that contract would require ticket prices to be pushed up to the $100 mark or more based on numbers at Hand In Hand not exceeding four to five thousand.
The user (party attendees) has to pay for any associated costs with putting on a party at the Hordern.
Putting it bluntly you NEED a minimum of 4,500 - 5,000 at a Hordern party to make it financially viable. Mardi Gras and to a lesser extent Pride on NYE can do this standing on their heads, Hand in Hand in the middle of winter is a different kettle of fish altogether.
The people of Sydney showed in June 2000 , 2001 and 2002 that they are not prepared to support Hand in hand in the depths of winter in the numbers that ACON would find acceptable enough to take any further risks on future events. Hence the party is no more.
I refer you all to a letter that was published in SSO & SX this week by myself and I also posted on this board at Sat 7 Jun 2003 14:02:16.
Sydney took forgranted the Hand In Hand party. We stopped supporting it. It wound its operations up. We have no body to blame but ourselves.
Personally I blame the death of Hand In Hand on events like Queer Nation and Frisky who deliberately tried to woo people AWAY from community run events like Hand in Hand to privately run money grabbing events such as QN & Frisky. That is the biggest crime in this whole mess.
The biggest fools in this situation however are all you queens and lesbians who failed to support Hand in Hand but chose the after parties. Thanks to your thoughtlessness the whole gay and lesbian community now doesnt have a community run Hordern Pavilion Dance party on the Saturday night of the Queens birthday long weekend. It makes me so mad.
Joey - Sun 15 Jun 2003 18:42:33
"Its time to move on" I don't mind taking responsibility for myself by signing a disclaimer to effectively waive my rights to sue or claim. That way they party would be cheaper, with the money going back to Pride or whoever.
Making the public liability insurance to cover medical only and not personal suffering would be another way of limiting liabity.
- Sun 15 Jun 2003 18:56:08
or ACON
- Sun 15 Jun 2003 18:56:52
I got the info re: his "finger lickin tour" from one of those oh-so-subtle posts on the previous wall. I guess it's just another example of people using pinkboard to toot their own horn (legit or not) I'm not 100% sure if it's the actual dj or their friends acting as publicists, but some of the recent postings have been looking a bit suss. watch out - propaganda like that can (& has) backfire
Pink Cashmere - Sun 15 Jun 2003 18:59:12
People you can go to the fox studios website and follow the links to find out how much it is to hire the horden etc.
You are realy looking at a start price of $300k just for the pure hire of the halls for Mardi Gras.
I cant understand why we dont ditch it and go to a new venue like homebush. Much newer and more space etc.
Camo - Sun 15 Jun 2003 19:03:11
To the poster at Sun 15 Jun 2003 18:56:08
Your comments are naive and totally unworkable. Give it up.
- Sun 15 Jun 2003 21:38:10
This is the opinion of the poster.
Joey - Sun 15 Jun 2003 18:42:33
The reason the bigger parties are dying is because they are no longer in demand.
These parties grew out of the 80's when comunity/hiv/aids,were much bigger issues.
Queer nation and frisky are not to blame,they are providing a different product for a different/younger audience.
times change thats life. :-)
I personally loved those parties, memories I will hold forever.
- Mon 16 Jun 2003 01:07:46
re: Pink Cashmere - Sun 15 Jun 2003 18:59:12
still not sure where your info is coming from, but no finger lickin' tour was ever publicised. as for propaganda - how many in the queer scene would even place finger lickin' (or like it)?
attempted clarification - Mon 16 Jun 2003 01:51:57
Joey - Sun 15 Jun 2003 18:42:33 I hear your pain Joey but I don't think there's much point in blaming a greater range of choice for HinH's demise. The fact is, there are more choices and people are free to make them. The long weekend Recovery phenomenon in Sydney has been part of the picture for years and it's affected all the major community dance parties. And, unless those parties are rethinking their approaches, responding to market challenges, they're not going to get the punters.
We've also got very short memories. H in H was frequently criticised for being too straight, too twinky, too whatever. That other partying options will emerge to meet demand in those circumstances, is as inevitable as night following day.
- Mon 16 Jun 2003 07:59:33
- Mon 16 Jun 2003 01:07:46
First you say "The reason the bigger parties are dying is because they are no longer in demand."
Then you say "Queer nation and frisky are not to blame,they are providing a different product for a different/younger audience."
WHAT A LOAD OF BOLLOCKS @!!!
Major community run dance parties WOULD have a demand in this day and age if greedy private enterprise parties like QN & Frisky had not come in and put on an event in opposition to the community dance party. By putting up an opposition your saying to the community "you make a choice". As most queens and lesbians are fairly "tight asses" with their money they invariable go for the cheaper option (ie a $30 QN ticket instead of the big production $80 Hand In Hand tiK) - Hence the community fund raiser suffers - BADLY.
I have a radical solution which will never happen.
If QN / Frisky etc put on an event on the same weekend as a community fund raiser dance party then you are not allowed to purchase a tik to any over those events unless you also have bought a ticket to the community based dance party.
That should sort out the people who REALLY CARE about this community.
Joey - Mon 16 Jun 2003 09:03:53
This is the opinion of the poster.
To Joey - Mon 16 Jun 2003 09:03:53 - Frisky used to give a specified amount from every ticket to the Gay and Lesbian Rights Lobby, so at least it made some contribution back to the community...QN on the other hand does nothing of the sort.
- Mon 16 Jun 2003 09:39:31
Pinkboard is unable to verify this statement.
"then you are not allowed to purchase a tik to any over those events unless you also have bought a ticket to the community based dance party"
what planet are you living on?
Get with the programme,young people don't care .
They want value for money
- Mon 16 Jun 2003 10:33:12
This contains a generalisation.
i agree with - Mon 16 Jun 2003 01:07:46
These big community parties were very popular ten years ago.
People do want value for money, but the spirit is no longer there.
I dont think QN and frisky are to blame.
Its all about choice....now
thats how the real world works.
- Mon 16 Jun 2003 10:56:10
Joey, so are the only people who care about cthe community, the type of people who go to dance parties?
- Mon 16 Jun 2003 11:00:18
As most queens and lesbians are fairly "tight asses" with their money they invariable go for the cheaper option ....
Woah...slow down there Joey, you almost had a good point there,until you brought in the ridiculous sweeping statements.
Not a tight ass - Mon 16 Jun 2003 11:09:05
Joey - Mon 16 Jun 2003 09:03:53 Gee - how would you enforce that? Would Downing St Court be filled with out of it queens on Tuesday morning, charged with failing to buy a Ticket to the gay community dance party? Maybe we could have a DJ playing in the court lobby area........?
- Mon 16 Jun 2003 11:14:52
Joey, so are the only people who care about cthe community, the type of people who go to dance parties?
- Mon 16 Jun 2003 11:00:18
I don't think so......but this is a party discussion wall.
- Mon 16 Jun 2003 12:23:18
Joey,
Such silly comments from one who obviously has only been around the block once....
Seen and not heard please... - Mon 16 Jun 2003 14:14:01
Sveta, Lanny K & Miss Yetti this Friday night at Hellfire ... yay!
- Mon 16 Jun 2003 14:40:39
I really hate repeating myself, but whoever you are - read the previous graffiti wall for the bit about mike kelly playing at the "finer lickin tour"
Pink Cashmere - Mon 16 Jun 2003 17:41:32
Whilst Joey has gone overboard with some of his comments , I agree on some points.
In my email to Pride re NYE ( they asked for comments ) I made the usual ie
need 2 Halls if possible to offer different music styles etc but also pointed out that besides just advertising the Party , why dont they really make it obvious where the $'s go and call on the community to support it. I for one have supported all Queens Birthday and Pride NYE parties as I have had great friends pass away or need their help so I never considered these alternative
parties on those weekends.
Most younger gays have probably never had to go through the hideous 80's/90's
and would probably be unsure of what these organisations do but if it was made clear to them, I would hope they would for-go the alternative parties and support the community based parties. After all there are only 3 per year now and QN have parties at other times of the year for them to attend.
Would telling them how the $'s are used help ? - Mon 16 Jun 2003 19:10:46
Would Auburn be to far out for a decent sized party?
I'm thinking of the unused space/empty warhouseshop next to the Reading Cinema's at RedYard. It would need sound proofing at the back but the sides and front wouldn't need it. Only 1 room though. would need portaloo's since I think there is only a couple of built in toilets...
Just an idea...
Fireman Sam - Mon 16 Jun 2003 19:46:03
pink cashmere-on previous board, it was said that mike is being recruited by finger lickin. obviously not true. in his dreams. perhaps an over zealous friend or fan as you suggested.
- Mon 16 Jun 2003 20:06:28
to the poster at - Mon 16 Jun 2003 11:14:52
How would i enforce it ?
Easy.
You cannot buy a tik to the after party unless you buy a tik to the main event party first and you have to produce that tik to buy your QN / Frisky / Ice tik.
The tik number of the main event would be recorded by the people selling the after party tiks to avoid people using the same party tik to get a after party tik.
As I said , its a radical idea that will never happen, but at least Im thinking positive thoughts which is more than i can say for the moron who abused me at
"Seen and not heard please... - Mon 16 Jun 2003 14:14:01"
Joey - Mon 16 Jun 2003 20:16:56
re "Your comments are naive and totally unworkable. Give it up"
You are probably right but what does the liability insurance actually deliver? Is it mandatory? And it's only for just for ONE night.
I worry about drugs and dehydration. I don't worry about stubbing a toe. Nor getting knocked out by falling mirror ball.
AND IF a person is under the influence of drugs could they really claim anyway?
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""Give it up for naive""! - Mon 16 Jun 2003 21:06:32
PL insurance is a must...
Also, is a massive day party totally out of the question?
It could still be at a venue with massive tent halls or indoor venues, but this would do wonders for making the party a lot easier to produce. it might also open up the possibility of using a whole range of unthinkable venues and make sound/security issues easier.
If such an event had cultural cred too (perhaps due to showcasing quality culture in addition to the existing dance spaces eg short plays/comedians/caberet/sexy exhibits etcetc), it would be worth $70-$110 for those uninterested in drugs, dance parties, yet still interested in community. might be interesting for those into dance parties too since the idea of a chill out zone is only really somewhere to sit and sip more liquid (with no realisation that the people in the chill out with you probably aint lookin so good either and that right now something visually distracting would be good).
- Mon 16 Jun 2003 21:59:33
""Give it up for naive""! - Mon 16 Jun 2003 21:06:32 Public liability insurance is mandatory for public events in NSW. It's purpose is ultimately to protect the state, (i.e. taxpayers) from having to absorb the costs of failure to provide a safe environment.
- Tue 17 Jun 2003 08:49:00
party space: Has anyone considered the disused Redfern goods yards/shunting yards used for trains (think the old Paddies Markets)? Acoustic modifications are required but that may be offset by the reduced cost (if available). Ok, maybe not that suitable but it's big and close (and probably unavailable) Or something similar?
running low on ideas - Tue 17 Jun 2003 10:56:04
To Alex, Chip, Kate and Kelly
I'll be at Home Sunday evening. Please visit.
Wherever I lay my hat,,, - Tue 17 Jun 2003 11:06:42
Joey, If you are so concerned about community orgs losing fundraised money to privately funded events (and I share that concern), why not:
a)Buy your ticket to QN or one of the other private groups who make money from our community without offering anything back, but at the same time as buying your ticket, contact your fave organisation and make a donation. That way the community organisation makes pure profit without the expense of putting on an event.
b) Lobby groups such as QN to start providing funds back to the community from which they make their profits.
Also, I noticed that Frisky was nominated as a group that takes and doesn't give. Frisky has been one of the two main funds providers to the Gay and Lesbian Rights Lobby since Jojo started arranging the parties. Without Frisky's help the Lobby may have been bankrupt years ago. SO by all means criticise QN but not Frisky.
Wombat - Tue 17 Jun 2003 12:29:54
forget all those big dance parties - the Palms rocks!
- Tue 17 Jun 2003 12:57:20
running low on ideas - Tue 17 Jun 2003 10:56:04 Yeah, it is a great space but unless a space is purpose built - or structurally modified - for public entertainment these days, your chances of obtaining [affordable] insurances/licences etc is virtually nil. That's pretty much why all roads eventually come back to the same old places. The era of finding a "great undiscovered space" for a dance party is pretty much behind us.
- Tue 17 Jun 2003 13:33:46
why are queer events obligated to donate money to a charity ? you dont see straight people whinging about this topic.
Rhiannon - Tue 17 Jun 2003 17:30:07
So could the community parties apply for insurance together ? ie
NMG/Sleaze/Inquisition/Pride NYE/hopefully ACON back again in June all get together for this public liability insurance ? instead of doing it individually ?
Is the idea of signing a waiver not to sue or whatever a dumb idea ?
And kinda agree with some points of Joey's but maybe the various organisations should really promote where the $'s go and besides there are plenty of times
when there are QN or alternative parties for fans to go to excluding these 4 weekends a year !
Just a thought - Tue 17 Jun 2003 18:04:54
Rhiannon, due to nature/god whatever, straights have the numbers. Minority groups need to be more cohesive to preserve their identity and culture. Sharing wealth is such a noble thing (if you can afford it) and it all comes back to you, they say. Enough reasons?
Robbin' Hood - Tue 17 Jun 2003 19:11:28
Mon 16 Jun 2003 21:59:33 re. Day-parties:
I love daytme parties. As long as it's dark or has a large dark area with regular doses of dark music.
Darkie - Tue 17 Jun 2003 19:45:26
"Sveta, Lanny K & Miss Yetti this Friday night at Hellfire ... yay!
- Mon 16 Jun 2003 14:40:39"
Noooooo! Where's the sexiest woman Mandy Rollins on this line up??? She should be there. She's sexy and i like to perve on her when at hellfire or whereever she is...
Vote Mandy Rollins - Tue 17 Jun 2003 19:47:07
If the price of holding big parties at Fox is so prohibitive, why not go somewhere else...? There must be dozens of options in South Sydney or the inner-west... sports stadiums, warehouses etc. It solves so many problems - venue cost (and ticket prices), licencing issues etc.
- Tue 17 Jun 2003 20:57:23
Mandy will be back at Hellfire next month ...
- Tue 17 Jun 2003 21:47:28
Tue 17 Jun 2003 20:57:23 - Unfortunately there are very few options, and virtually none for a party the size of Mardi Gras. If anyone knows of anything this side of Homebush please let New Mardi Gras know of your find.
Arti - Wed 18 Jun 2003 09:33:27
Fab weekend coming up. Going to Toybox then rockin along to the Home Recovery. Can't wait! Who else is going?
Party Boy - Wed 18 Jun 2003 10:44:04
An event for the South Coast queer folk. 28 JUNE scarborough Wombarra Bowling Club - JACK HIGH. 2 dj's 2 shows, and electro band ENTROPIC. Support the local effort - Tickets from Redback Music, W'gong Mall. $15.00. more info call 02.4267 2139
jack high - Wed 18 Jun 2003 11:06:30
We're going to the Home Recovery as our Pride Week contribution. That we will have loads of fun, dance to good DJ's and party with our friends is immaterial, as we bask in the warm glow of Community Support.
Evil Twin - Wed 18 Jun 2003 12:04:52
THERAPY
Friday 20th June. 10pm-6am. $7 entry
Join DJ FEISTY, MANDY ROLLINS & DAYLA this Friday @ THE PHOENIX, 34 OXFORD ST.
HAVE YOU HAD YOUR THERAPY?
The Phoenix - Wed 18 Jun 2003 12:10:40
anyone going down to melbourne for BEYOND?
- Wed 18 Jun 2003 13:57:42
seriously considering BEYOND,had a brilliant time @Redemption over long weekend, wasn't planning to be back so soon but very tempted!!!!
- Wed 18 Jun 2003 14:44:02
toybox then pride at home ...place to be this sunday
- Wed 18 Jun 2003 16:48:58
Hey Evil Twin - did I read it right about the recovery at Home ? ie
they mentioned DJ's in the Silver room and the Terrace .
So whats happening on the main floor ?
Missed you at QN, kept wanting to go up to the ladies dancing around me and asking " are you Evil Twin " :)
Just me - Wed 18 Jun 2003 19:22:42
Can we have more feedback on Redemption please? Size, feel, sleaziness, venue etc? Sydney is not the whole world contrary to popular belief.
Paul Diamondo - Wed 18 Jun 2003 20:48:29
Just me - After checking back on the Pride website, it looks to be only the Terrace and the Silver room. I guess for $15 you don't get the main floor (doesn't worry me, I never squeeze onto it anyway). Ah well. Small party, cool vibes. Keep an eye out for the short butch dyke with the silver hair (me) and my gorgeously attractive girlfriend with my hands all over her.
Evil Twin - Wed 18 Jun 2003 21:15:55
Arti, maybe after us visting Home enough times then soon Darling Harbour's Convention area may oneday become acceptable for a large party? (maybe? -- can't believe I am suggesting this. It still doesn't feel right, yet.
out of ideas now - Wed 18 Jun 2003 21:18:14
Ben Drayton spinning at the Imperial hotel Thursday night. Woo Hoo! Cool tunes for the inner west. Will be spending my darlo cab fare where it counts... on beer at my local!
erskineville baddog! - Wed 18 Jun 2003 21:48:26
I heard there's a really hot DJ in the back room at Beyond
- Wed 18 Jun 2003 21:55:20
oohh errr, i just though of a fabbo venue.
The Moore Park Supa-Centa - every gay man and lesbian this side of moore park heights (i mean gardens) knows where it is - we could use the car parks to get a real "underground" vibe.....so phoenix meets ikea - perfect dahling! and so subtle in the irony - really sticking it to those pre-fab gay-boys who dress up all butch but love nothing more than self-assembly shelving
Ms Golightly - Wed 18 Jun 2003 22:39:54
Wed 18 Jun 2003 12:10:40 - no thanks. I'm quite sick of hearing those 2 djs in that space. can we have some new talent please ?
tired of the same sets over and over - Thu 19 Jun 2003 08:34:37
I've been to a number of Redemption parties and thought the last one was great. Venue appropriately sleazy if a little new, two distinct dance areas with different styles, designated sex area which worked well, friendly sexy crowd,leather biased but not exclusively leather,after experiencing Inquisition in Sydney 2 weeks before, it all seemed so simple and so effective - bring on the next one!!!
- Thu 19 Jun 2003 11:49:23
three sleeps to go!!!!
- Thu 19 Jun 2003 15:03:41
anyone going down to melbourne for BEYOND?
- Wed 18 Jun 2003 13:57:42
yep...
Come! Get together.
Let the dance floor feel your leather.
Step as lightly as a feather.
Let yourself go.
Irving Berlin - Thu 19 Jun 2003 15:53:13
Ms Golightly - Wed 18 Jun 2003 22:39:54 Lovely idea but.......not liquor licensed, nor entertainment venue licensed. Supacentre opens 7 days a week - how do you bump in/bump out?
- Thu 19 Jun 2003 15:57:32
Good music at the Imperial??? Man that takes me back to the signal days... remember them anyone? (Wooof if you do, dirty piggys!!!) Ill be there thursday nights just to support Mr Bad Dog from the whiney whitney/britney nexus
Bad Pig! - Thu 19 Jun 2003 16:35:28
three sleeps to go: is toybox sold out?
- Thu 19 Jun 2003 17:59:09
when is the next bad dog? I've heard a lot about them and would love to go.
- Thu 19 Jun 2003 18:08:24
Hey "out of ideas" the Darling Harbour's Convention area's where used for dance parties in the early 90's. I didn't go so I don't know how they went. Still has the problem of not enough toilets. No noise problem unless its the Hall near the Goldstein (sp?) building. Might have a problem blocking out the outside light though.
Fireman Sam - Thu 19 Jun 2003 18:11:43
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excitement plus - Thu 19 Jun 2003 18:56:55
- Thu 19 Jun 2003 18:08:24 I'll just bet YOU can tell us when the next bad dog is - and I'm sure you're gonna tell us ;)
- Thu 19 Jun 2003 19:29:05
Toy Box is not sold out. I don't know about anywhere else, but I just got my ticket at Cafe Comity. They still have tickets left.
Can't wait - Thu 19 Jun 2003 19:45:10
Well "out of ideas" and " Fireman Sam " I went to those parties in the early 90's and whilst the space is great ie huge areas, high ceilings etc its soooooo
white the lighting was ineffectual. One party I attended how a row of portaloos
right at the back so toilets were not a problem. Sound etc was great but just too light. Went to a NYE there as well and by 6am the light was shining through and there is nothing worse than sunlight hitting the dance floor. Talk about walking dead ! last time I ever took a trip ! but I'm sure the windows could be covered up to a point. I heard though that no way can it run to 10am.
Trouble is we have all been spoilt rotten with the venues at Fox even back in the mid 80's with the Government Pavillion then moved onto RHI/Hordern etc and even when they just used to throw parties in the Banquet Hall ( now Dome ) and then when it all became so huge, all the venues were just too conveniently close to each other , you couldnt help but have a great night.
Homebush is just too far and besides the trains wont be running at 1am or 3am or 5am so who is gonna hop a bus that far ?
Does anyone know why the parties were stopped at Alexandria Basketball stadium ? I heard because it was ruining the floor but with the $'s they go they could afford a new one every year !
Pity the old church opposite St Vincents cant be turned into one of those dark gothic type venues we see overseas but Australia lacks. Just where are all those old cinemas/community halls ?
Just me reminiscing - Thu 19 Jun 2003 19:48:49
CAN WE NOT HAVE SOMETHING DIFFERENT AT PHOENIX ON A FRIDAY ?
- Thu 19 Jun 2003 20:13:07
The Alexandria Basketball parties were stopped by local council rezoning the area part industrial part residential (it used to be 100% industrial). Noise complaints from residents = no more parties.
Arrrrr, the good old days
- Thu 19 Jun 2003 20:20:26
oh Ms Monroe ! your SX cover pic is hilariously daggy. I adore you, but what were you thinking Luv ? you're gonna get a roasting for this when I see you next. but I have no idea who the other guy & girl in the pic is ? it doesnt matter, it;s still funny :)
Leonie Bon Bon - Thu 19 Jun 2003 21:22:51
Fireman Sam - Thu 19 Jun 2003 18:11:43 ......and Darling Harbour is non smoking....
- Thu 19 Jun 2003 21:42:07
This Sunday? Toy Box, of course, then maybe a visit to Spunk (never been, so maybe worth a look?), then ARQ. Can't miss Shine at ARQ on Sunday night, especially if the red-hot sexy dancing boys are on! YUM-O!
Hmmmmm, that's gonna be a quite a day/night!
Hope Toy Box goes off like Frisky used to. Miss those days : )
jeffgg - so happy to be heading back to the Metro! - Thu 19 Jun 2003 22:12:45
SX Mag - too funny! they're all girls hee hee. can you read?? back page reveals.
Think outside the hole you live in - Thu 19 Jun 2003 22:55:36
Can we not have something different at Phoenix on a friday?
-Thu 19 Jun 2003 20:13:07
There is something different on at the Phoenix every Friday.
Maybe you should look at SSO or SX to see what that is.
Open your ears - Thu 19 Jun 2003 23:01:51
Leonie Bon Bon - Thu 19 Jun 2003 21:22:51
The 3 people of the front cover of SX are ALL females, your comment -
"I have no idea who the other guy & girl in the pic is"
made me laugh hysterically.
The 3 in the pic of course are all female DJ's , the one I suspect you think is a bloke is DJ Many Rollins you clutz !
- Thu 19 Jun 2003 23:52:05
anyone done the mixed sundays at manacle? think i might check it out after toybox this week. toybox:)
- Thu 19 Jun 2003 23:53:14
Smoking in Gay Venues
A very interesting letter in SX today.....
"I was invited out with some friends a week ago to a couple of Oxford Street
bars for a few post dinner drinks. After spending only about two hours in
two separate bars I went home to bed. Next morning I awoke with a really
sore throat and my clothes stunk of cigarette smoke.
Like most non-smokers I am offended at having to suck in passive smoke in
enclosed public areas. Many straight bars and clubs run non-smoking areas or
even have non-smoking nights in the whole of their establishment. There are
even straight places out there that ban smoking all the time in their
premises and still manage to have a very busy and profitable venue on their
hands. What joy I say !!
Why is the Gay community so far behind 21st century mentality in adopting
healthy environments for people to socialise in and why are smokers who are clearly in the minority catered for in gay bars against the majority of people who dont smoke ?
Its high time a gay club or bar took the initiative and created a
non-smoking place to socialise. Im sure there are thousands of others who feel this way.
I challenge any gay run bar or club to take on this cause. The first gay venue to show such an initiative will probably find a whole new group of clientele that most people never knew existed."
A worthy topic of debate - Thu 19 Jun 2003 23:57:41
that's a woman ? crikey !
Leonie Bon Bon - Fri 20 Jun 2003 09:58:19
A worthy topic of debate - Thu 19 Jun 2003 23:57:41
Love your work.
I respect peoples rights do do as they feel but the idea of a smoke free policy in bars / clubs works for me. I don't pour my Bourben over patrons clothes, so why should i have to smell like an ashtray everytime i set foot in these places.
I have partied in smoke free clubs around the world and the difference is amazing. Breathing in clean air is so refreshing.
- Fri 20 Jun 2003 11:16:50
A worthy topic of debate - Thu 19 Jun 2003 23:57:41. I have to agree with you. There are many occasions where I've thought about popping into a pub for a quick drink to meet friends but the thought of spending the rest of evening stinking of smoke puts me off big time. Vote 1 for a smoke free trial in pubs.
- Fri 20 Jun 2003 12:10:54
Fri 20 Jun 2003 11:16:50 The question is, why don't gay venues go smokefree? They're perfectly at liberty to do so if they choose.
- Fri 20 Jun 2003 12:23:31
Mandy Rollins is playing at Nation 03 in Singapore in August.
- Fri 20 Jun 2003 13:11:33
Hi Pinkboarders
Just a reminder that PRIDE Week 2003 begins tomorrow. Kicking off the festivities will be the fabulously formal Aurora Dinner.
For those who like to party PRIDE and New Mardi Gras will be hosting a Sunday Recovery @ Home Nightclub. Just $15 for PRIDE and Mardi Gras members, $20 for non-members. Tickets are on sale from the PRIDE Centre and the Toolshed and at the door. DJ's Kate Monroe, Alex Taylor, Chip & Kelly Lynch.
Hope to see you all there. I'll be working on the door so if you get a chance, come up and say hi.
Happy PRIDE Week.
xxxx
Lou-Anne Lind
Co-President
Sydney PRIDE Centre
- Fri 20 Jun 2003 14:41:20
i like smoking
it makes me cough
- Fri 20 Jun 2003 14:59:10
i like smoking
it makes me cough
- Fri 20 Jun 2003 14:59:10
but i don't like your smoking
it makes me cough
100% Passive - Fri 20 Jun 2003 15:06:53
Hellfire tonight:
Special guest DJ SVETA hits the decks after our usual cocktail hours (9pm-midnight) with LANNY K and MISS YETTI bringing up the rear (as only they know how!) until closing time.
There'll be serious hula-hoop action at midnight courtesy of TRASH VAUDEVILLE & KIRA (Hula Deluxe) followed by some heavy-duty bloodsports from RUSH ELECTRA - not for the squeamish!
- Fri 20 Jun 2003 16:12:36
Stop Press!
Toybox WILL sell out!
Last tickets at Comity or One Stop.
Good on you Sydney for supporting something Melbourne has been doing for years now.
Noisy Gypsy - Fri 20 Jun 2003 16:50:16
I never thought I d say this but........................... "The music was cool at the imperial on Thursday". Ben Drayton spun some amazing tracks from White Stripes to Erik B & Rakim. A clued up friendly freaky crowd, chunky bears dancing with feral cheryls.... Looks like winter will worth it!
yeah! - Fri 20 Jun 2003 17:50:27
I think the issue of smoking in our clubs and bars is a very important one.
Today I have written to SX News as follows -
A huge round of applause for Stephen of Alexandria's letter in SX issue 125 about smoking in gay clubs.
For a number of years now I have been reluctant to socialise in any enclosed
gay bar in this city that doesnt have any sort of fresh air circulation and
any non smoker who values their health should follow this lead.
I also agree with Stephen that if any gay run establishment made its venue
non smoking that there would be a flood of appreciative non smokers who
would support such a venue with its patronage.
Does anybody think for a second that any gay bar in this city has the guts
to do this ? I'd say its unlikely as most gay venue managers tend to show a
lack of initiative and imagination when it comes to the well being of customers.
If you feel strongly about this issue please join me in writing to SX.
Hopefully SX can advise us of the number of letters of support this issue raises ?
Email SX at editor@sxnews.com.au
.
Joey - Fri 20 Jun 2003 18:05:23
Fellow ToyBox players, please try to be a bit in theme. It's a party not a club night. See you on the Giant Twister Board. Be safe, be happy, be free. Have a great weekend everybody.
Fireman Sam - Fri 20 Jun 2003 20:18:13
Does anyone remember the names of a club on King Street (North Newtown end) that was run by a tall guy who spoke fluent Japanese? I'm sure it changed names at some point. Top Gun I think was one of the names. Was that the 1st name or 2nd name. Or am I all confused?
- Sat 21 Jun 2003 10:06:20
Thu 19 Jun 2003 23:52:05,
I didn't recognise the one-in-the-middle, either. All the same, SX gets my praise for actively promoting DJ's.
Nice photos, girls. - Sat 21 Jun 2003 10:58:44
Hmmm that thursday at the Imperial does sound ok. The crowd description ticks most of my boxes for a fun night.
Now for more coffee after a lovely busy night at Hellfire. Oh, and I hope you all appreciated the large hunky sailors we sent up to Oxford St. They were pretty :-)
Evil Twin - Sat 21 Jun 2003 11:11:19
Sat 21 Jun 2003 10:06:20
I remember 'Cockpit' well, (on a site now occupied by apartments) the club was doomed from the start - and changed it's name later to 'Top Gun' so it didn't sound too gay when they were in death throws touting for a straight crowd.
In what was originally an ethnic dinner cabaret lounge two entrepreneurs (Bob with a moustache and his tall friend) decided to give wee Dawny a run for her money on King street - at that time a bad idea.
They owned a gutted 4?-seater plane which they installed as the centrepiece of their new theme club. Bought some obsolete business class airline seats in working order and 'Cockpit' was born.
Monique Kelly was primary entertainment along with obligatory boys.
As a novelty it was fleeting and nothing the boys tried to get guys in the door worked.
I have to admit I was there often, got to know them well and even helped on occassion flyer drop on Oxford Street of all places.
I often think of them and what they are doing now - they gave it a good hard push but it never flew.
I was there! - Sat 21 Jun 2003 12:01:54
was there! - Sat 21 Jun 2003 12:01:54 The history of Sydney's inner-west is littered with the remains of gay entrepreneurs who've tried to have a go. For some strange reason only Dawn has ever managed to survive. Wonder why that might be?
Particularly when the Newtown Hotel is the bleakest, dankest vision of gay culture imaginable.
- Sat 21 Jun 2003 12:55:56
re: I was there
people like you make this whole industry fun - thank you:)
- Sat 21 Jun 2003 13:17:53
Hey Evil Twin - can you send one of those sailors my way ?
Would love him to be black/tall/big'ish( but comfortable )/mid-late 20's with a beatiful smile and roots like a rabbit !!!
Just for me pretty please ? - Sat 21 Jun 2003 15:07:47
I hate the way Dawn seems to spend absolutely no money improving her venues. It shows not only in the venues themselves but even her marketing... just look at the Newtown Hotel website or when the Newtown advertises in the gay press... it's appalling!
On another note I have been interested to see just how much Toybox has been promoted. It is sure to do reasonably well just due to the amount of advertising they have dished out. I hope most people are going to Home afterwards considering this is a community event. Spunk at the Shift so far has not taken off at all. I hear most nites they are lucky to get 30 people through the door (unless it's a 'special' nite). Arq still rules supreme on a sunday.
And I am definitely joining in the 'venue smoking ban campaign' and have sent my email of support to editor@sxnews.com.au
Stefano - Sat 21 Jun 2003 20:54:04
I ahve missed out on tix to Toybox so think I will be venturing out to Pride Recovery.
- Sat 21 Jun 2003 21:45:50
WOO HOO !!! 167 HOURS TO GO TO G.A.Y !!!
excitement pluys - Sat 21 Jun 2003 23:19:24
Sat 21 Jun 2003 21:45:50 Re Toybox
How did you miss out???
There were still tickets at Cafe Comity.
You should try 1st thing in the morn. Would be a shame if you missed out.
- Sun 22 Jun 2003 00:42:03
stefano et. al.:
try stonewall cocktail on sundays after 9pm - also a community event this week. it is always on (free!!) and a sexy, funked affair - this week dayla rogers, sista p & mike kelly... so should be going til very late.
tim blanchard and akio are also playing top floor for a bonus treat
- Sun 22 Jun 2003 03:25:22
someone took a dump in the sandpit at toybox + the music & crowd left a lot to be desired so I'm home early ! might pop down to Kens for a nice spa now
Anthony - Sun 22 Jun 2003 19:35:36
Just home from TOYBOX - for all of those who didnt go, Im so sorry, the music the lighting, the crowd were all premium qulaity. The whole place was jumpin and comfortably packed till the last song. Dont miss the next one is all i can say, AND RUBY - u DJ god, u rock my world. What a blinder of a set, what a start, thank heaps.
- Sun 22 Jun 2003 21:49:19
pee-ewwww ! toybox was a stinker. the pride thing at Home was pretty good though. much better music & atmosphere.
happy pride week ! (and hopefully bybye to any future toy box parties)
Glade Essence of Vanilla - Mon 23 Jun 2003 01:29:20
did someone really do a pooh in the sandpit?
Eeuuugh! - Mon 23 Jun 2003 09:56:33
Glade Essence of Vanilla - Mon 23 Jun 2003 01:29:20
so TOYBOX was a huge sucess then.....You sad bitter queen.
- Mon 23 Jun 2003 10:06:47
The Pride thing was sparsely populated. It felt very odd having space on the dance floor at Home. And I mean ........space......... Luckily the Lord Roberts on the way home had Mandy playing and was full of happy dyke goodness. Much better.
Evil Twin - Mon 23 Jun 2003 10:35:11
toybox stunk. dont take it so personally darlin'. oh, that's also the first time I've been called a queen as I'm a dyke. lol
Glade Essence of Vanilla - Mon 23 Jun 2003 11:15:55
This is the opinion of the poster.
I don't think 'Glade Essence of Vanilla's opinion of TOY BOX makes her a sad and bitter anything - she is entitled to her opinion.
I think someone is being a little too sensitive - you're not the promoter of the party are you ?
- Mon 23 Jun 2003 11:45:05
Did someone really do a pooh in the sandpit? Eeuuugh! - Mon 23 Jun 2003 09:56:33
That's what you get at a kiddywiddy theme party. Someone - inevitably - will need a nappy change....
- Mon 23 Jun 2003 11:46:20
"Mandy Rollins is playing at Nation 03 in Singapore in August.
- Fri 20 Jun 2003 13:11:33"
So? What's the big deal? I'm going to Milan on a buying trip. Should that be posted?
Gucci buyer - Mon 23 Jun 2003 12:01:56
No Smoking - I'd love to see it enforced - especially on the dancefloor. I am not against smokers per se (I, myself and an ex-smoker) but smokers really should have a little more respect for those that don't.
I'd love to see a bar in Sydney have the balls to be a smoke free environment, I think they would be surprised at its success.
- Mon 23 Jun 2003 12:14:42
Thursdays at the imperial bassment this week features dj Cedric (from Paris -really!). Freaky whacky but sleazy tunes. All three sexes welcome. www.rathergood.com/gaybar
viva Rock sucking hoes! . - Mon 23 Jun 2003 12:25:19
Five days to G.A.Y, Five days to G.A.Y, Five days to G.A.Y,
Five days to G.A.Y, Five days to G.A.Y, Five days to G.A.Y
Five days to G.A.Y, Five days to G.A.Y,Five days to G.A.Y,
Five days to G.A.Y. CYA There
Countdown Boy Mark 2 - Mon 23 Jun 2003 13:38:39
or perhaps a bar may be tempted to run a "smoke free night" on a friday or saturday - test the waters and see whether the fickle gay men of sydney will actually support a club/bar that does offer such a venue.
Ms Golightly - Mon 23 Jun 2003 13:50:19
Heard last night that the license for the Newtown hotel has been sold to the crew that run the Columbian Hotel. Who knows, maybe we'll see some changes around Newtown and Erskineville. Haven't noticed a lot of change to the Imperial Hotel so far, but maybe this will spark some competition between the two venues. Here's to hoping.
- Mon 23 Jun 2003 15:08:02
Gucci buyer - Mon 23 Jun 2003 12:01:56 I think it just has been .......
- Mon 23 Jun 2003 15:58:44
re:"Mandy Rollins is playing at Nation 03 in Singapore in August.
- Fri 20 Jun 2003 13:11:33"
So? What's the big deal? I'm going to Milan on a buying trip. Should that be posted?
Gucci buyer - Mon 23 Jun 2003 12:01:56
please post your buys. Lol:)
- Mon 23 Jun 2003 18:27:38
rocked up to pride recovery @ about 9pm to find it dead! poor pride...maybe 30 people max at that time and alex playing to a room of 15... The Silver Room wasn't open at all. I wondered why all the staff were so friendly on the way in. ventured up to the shift and found it pumping till late. keen to here some more toybox reviews though...
nathan - Mon 23 Jun 2003 19:37:35
Toy Box was good. Packed, but not uncomfortable; brilliant lighting; great set by Ruby; very friendly and happy crowd. The day party concept seemed to work pretty well.
Neal Crawford started well, but seemed to lose steam half way through, resulting in the last coupe of hours feeling a little flat. The crowd seemed to be having a good time, with most staying right to the end.
Hope there'll be more Toy Box parties in the future!
After Toy Box headed to ARQ - but something happened and it wasn't the usual happy Sunday night scene. Very strange crowd in there, especially what seemed to be an over-supply of "english soccer hoon" types. Luke Leal also seemed to be somewhere else, falling well short of his usual standard, and leaving us scratching our heads as to what had happened to the normally fun Sunday night Shine.
jeffgg - Mon 23 Jun 2003 20:14:36
Sad to hear that pride's recovery was not very busy... but not surprised. The majority of the toybox partygoers opted for the free entry (normally $7 on sunday) provided to them by the shift club and I guess also arq's minimal $5 charge.
Stefano - Mon 23 Jun 2003 21:04:56
as impossible as this may seem - toybox made frisky seem chic in comparisom
- Mon 23 Jun 2003 22:29:59
anyone know of any winter leather type parties coming up in Sydney for thse of us who can't make it to Melbourne for 'Beyond', perhaps another 'Indulgence' @shift
- Tue 24 Jun 2003 09:12:14
Four days to G.A.Y, Four days to G.A.Y, Four days to G.A.Y,
Four days to G.A.Y, Four days to G.A.Y, Four days to G.A.Y,Four days to G.A.Y, Four days to G.A.Y, Four days to G.A.Y
CYA There
Countdown Boy Mark 2 - Tue 24 Jun 2003 09:13:42
countdown boys are irritating
irritated - Tue 24 Jun 2003 11:39:07
i had an amazing time at toybox. Ruby and Neil Crawford were great.
- Tue 24 Jun 2003 12:39:56
Has anyone heard about the new bar on the block getting sued because of its soon to be released illegal mix cds??... seems some record labels and artists are chomping at the its!! watch this space.
- Tue 24 Jun 2003 13:45:36
keep an eye out for a 'Carnal' party sometime this winter ...
Lil - Tue 24 Jun 2003 13:50:32
I just wonder how many of the people that said Toybox was awful were actually there ?
- Tue 24 Jun 2003 13:50:36
countdown boy mark 2 clarely doesnt have the class that the original countdown boy had.
- Tue 24 Jun 2003 13:55:51
I just don't understand how you could think toybox was aweful. everyone i went with seemed to be going off.
had a mad time.. - Tue 24 Jun 2003 14:22:54
Countdown boys (original. apprentice, mark 2, genuine, the real thing or fake) are extremely banal and annoying - don't know what class has to do with it!!!
- Tue 24 Jun 2003 15:52:28
Countdown boys (original. apprentice, mark 2, genuine, the real thing or fake) are extremely banal and annoying - don't know what class has to do with it!!!
- Tue 24 Jun 2003 15:52:28
I couldn't agree more. Panther, could you please start a wall called Countdown so if we really are interested in being constantly reminded how many days/hours/minutes/sleeps there are until whatever upcoming party we can just pay that wall a visit????
- Tue 24 Jun 2003 16:23:52
Anyone that thought Toybox was a bore must have been at the wrong party or just taken downers.
I can honestly say that it was the best party i have been to in 4 years. Ruby played a great set and Neal Crawford had the crowd sreaming. Have not seen that sort of energy on the dance floor anywhere.
The lighting was sensational, the crowd was super friendly.
Congrats to the organisers and dj's..
Please give us more!!!
Blown away - Tue 24 Jun 2003 16:28:09
Back 2 Love
The Alfred Hotel
51 Missenden Road Camperdown
Saturday 26th June 2003
9pm - Late
Entry $10.00
Dj's Chip, Garry Tee, Irene Hatzis
Just a call that Back 2 Love: The 3rd edition is on this Saturday night. We hope to see you there for another dose of good lovin’. If you require a flyer or more info sent to you and maybe to invite not only you but all your fiends, please contact us at back2love@optusnet.com.au.
See you all on the dance floor
the crew - Tue 24 Jun 2003 19:04:42
heheh the toybox PR machine has swung into gear to defend their party. or is it damage control ? come on guys, have some dignity. if people didnt like the party, then just take it on the chin like a man.
deep - Tue 24 Jun 2003 19:08:38
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countdown boy Mark 2 (not going away) - Tue 24 Jun 2003 19:52:24
re: toybox. can anyone please tell me what rooms were open and which dj's played what room? did it really sell out? I love the metro but those party times didn't suit me. can the metro trade 24hours again yet?
curious... - Wed 25 Jun 2003 00:45:00
deep - Tue 24 Jun 2003 19:08:38 - All messages on Pinkboard Graffiti Walls are anonymous, so it is not possible to determine who the posters are. It is possible that those who write in support are promoters. It is also possible that those who write against are competitors or others who did not attent. It is even possible that they are legitimate punters making a legitimate report. For this reason I do not allow speculation about the identities of these people.
Instead I urge people to make constructive criticism. If you didn't like it, tell us why: You didn't like the music. There were not enough/too many people. There was too much/too little sex. No one picked you up.
If you did like it, tell us what you liked most!
Parties are meant to ba about fun. Don't spoil other people's fun.
Panther - Wed 25 Jun 2003 08:21:46
countdown boy Mark 2 (not going away) - Tue 24 Jun 2003 19:52:24
I did NOT make the above posting.
Three days to G.A.Y, Three days to G.A.Y, Three days to G.A.Y,
Three days to G.A.Y, Three days to G.A.Y, Three days to G.A.Y,
Three days to G.A.Y, Three days to G.A.Y, Three days to G.A.Y.
the Countdown boy Mark 2 ( all trash and definitely no class and not going anywhere)i - Wed 25 Jun 2003 09:54:53
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I am the countdownboy yes i am i am iam iam ~~~ - Wed 25 Jun 2003 10:45:04
Pride's recovery was a cosy intimate affair that did lack numbers (Fortunately, I brought my own).
No matter what -- Alex, Chip, Kate and Kellie -- It was nice to be there. You will always get a big fat "THANK YOU" from me.
I suspect the time slot was a bit awkward but it was nice to have the club to ourselves, I thought... and THANKS, again~!
Andrew - Wed 25 Jun 2003 11:31:28
You tell 'em, Panther. You are SO correct! If constructive criticism is tendered, then our parties can only get better.
Andrew - Wed 25 Jun 2003 11:39:36
Only 298 sleeps till Panther's birthday! Only 298 sleeps till Panther's birthday! Only 298 sleeps till Panther's birthday! Only 298 sleeps till Panther's birthday! Only 298 sleeps till Panther's birthday! Only 298 sleeps till Panther's birthday! Only 298 sleeps till Panther's birthday! Only 298 sleeps till Panther's birthday!
If you can't beat 'em, join 'em :) - Wed 25 Jun 2003 12:10:44
There are now only 81 hrs and 45 mins left till the doors at G.A.Y are opened !!
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countdownboy's appretice making fun of the original countdown boy who doesnt seem to be around anymore - Wed 25 Jun 2003 12:24:34
in respect for Panther, here's a few reasons why I didnt like toybox. please respect this as my opinion !
* I thought the crowd was pretty trashy & ugly + it wasnt crowded enough for any real atmosphere
* the music was too cheesy and not going anywhere interesting
* I was never a huge fan of the frisky parties & this just seemed like a half arsed immitation of them
* a few people had Glow Sticks ! tragic
Twisted Australia - Wed 25 Jun 2003 12:47:28
As much as i loved toybox, I agree with twisted Australia i have to take points off for the glow sticks, what next stuff animals, whistles or dummies agin?>???
And yes i know i cant blame the organisers for this
- Wed 25 Jun 2003 14:16:20
re: glowsticks - not a user myself but why why why would you criticise anyone for using glowsticks. get over yourself and realise that the people with glowsticks are probably the most keen to have a good time in the room, they are certainly trying to have a special night... what about you sitting there in the corner with your bag of k
ps - i find a shirt off at arq equally tragic - even though somewhat attractive it is just another set of commodities for the queen to ascribe towards and pretty dull.
let people be MR/MISS grown up - Wed 25 Jun 2003 14:47:52
I am a G. A.Y novice, realise its big time handbag which sounds great but what's the crowd like?, is it like G.A.Y London, young cheesey, pretty cos I'd like to go but don't wanna feel like a dinasour.
40something Frisky veteran - Wed 25 Jun 2003 15:09:41
i agree with above comments, but why is unfettered praise (no matter how little thought has gone into forming an opinion) more acceptable than unfettered dislike?
- Wed 25 Jun 2003 15:20:54
Speaking of stuffed toys, there was a guy at the last queer nation with a stuffed ET doll, it was one of the funniest things I've seen at a dance party... (or at least it seemed that way at 6am on the Sunday morning).
- Wed 25 Jun 2003 15:39:05
why criticise glow sticks??? cause its so rave 1995 - ACCCCIIIIIDDDDD!!!!
- Wed 25 Jun 2003 15:51:11
It is now 4.15pm 25.6.03
There are now 4665 minutes to go till G.A.Y !!!
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countdownboys second cousins half brother in law - Wed 25 Jun 2003 16:31:27
only 3 days til BEYONDonly 3 days til BEYONDonly 3 days til BEYONDonly 3 days til BEYONDonly 3 days til BEYONDonly 3 days til BEYONDonly 3 days til BEYOND
suck eggs Sydney losers!!
- Wed 25 Jun 2003 17:06:45
Beyond?...who??...what??...Beyond the NSW boarder??...I don't get it, and frankly, what's so wrong with sucking eggs? Makes for very good practice.
Gobble - Wed 25 Jun 2003 17:28:06
Dear Disgruntled Melbournite, We are sorry that the $69 seats on Virgin were all taken and you were not able to attend the dance events recently staged in Sydney. Should you have been able to attend you would retract your statement regarding “Beyond” as you would realise that it is you who missed out!
While I am at it - Would the Mandy Rollins Fan Club please refrain from posting vicious disgruntled comments on parties they attended mistakenly. Not everyone lives in the jungle you know – That means you :Glade essence of Vanilla.
shock - Wed 25 Jun 2003 17:41:24
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countdownboys mother in law - Wed 25 Jun 2003 17:43:25
Twisted Australia - Wed 25 Jun 2003 12:47:28
* I was never a huge fan of the frisky parties & this just seemed like a half arsed immitation of them...
How many negatives can you put into one point?
If you were never a fan, why would you go?
When you say parties, i assume you went to a few?
If you couldn't figure out that Toybox was going to be alot like Frisky you must be plain ol stupid.
Why did you bother to go, or did you just need an excuse to get on Pinkboard and sound like an idiot?
Your opinion suxs
Duh! - Wed 25 Jun 2003 17:46:42
40something Frisky veteran - Wed 25 Jun 2003 15:09:41
The crowd at G.A.Y is no different to a Frisky or a Ruby or a Queer Nation. The only difference is the fact that the music is very definitely camp. Expect loads of Kylie , Dannii , Madonna , Whitney , etc etc.
All are welcome. Im 40 next year and dont give a flying f--k whoever else is there cause I'm going to have fun for me and me alone.
Rhiannon - Wed 25 Jun 2003 17:50:47
Re Glowsticks - depending on what the person is on, when they are waiving them in front of the faces they see "more" than those commenting here. I'd rather have the glowstick look than the slumped/out if it K look. Maybe these posters dont show any reaction on drugs/alcohol ?
As for shirts off person - have you ever tried it ? My friends and I dont do it for show, we do it for comfort. After a decade of partying beleive me its very appropriate and very comfortable.
Not every queen is concerned about making a fashion statement !
Just my opinion - oh and any sailor stories boys and girls ? - Wed 25 Jun 2003 19:05:10
Toybox gets the bigs thumbs up :-)
haven't spoken to one person who didnt like it.
The people on here are full of it.....clearly they didnt go.
- Wed 25 Jun 2003 19:50:20
Who did what, in MY sandbox, you've been bad girls..
Whips and leather at camp Torquemada!
Adam Q. Rot - Wed 25 Jun 2003 20:51:06
dear Duh, here are the answers to your questions (in order)
* many
* I went because I got a comp ticket & some friends were going + the curiosity got the better of me.
* yes, a few ( I dont see your point in asking this question )
* same as my 2nd point
I dont know why you're getting so worked up about "my" opinion of the party. if you're so confident your party was a success, then what I think shouldnt matter to you. I hope this hasnt spoilt your day.
Twisted Australia - Wed 25 Jun 2003 22:23:34
Please, boys and girls play nice.
Otherwise I'll have to come and work for you.
The love and the Wrath (also: the Inquisition!)
Adam Q. Rot - Wed 25 Jun 2003 22:35:09
just heard theme for G.A.Y. is BLACK & WHITE. cooool. maybe i'll come as Michael Jackson. just got my ticket after recoverying from toybox!
mj x - Wed 25 Jun 2003 22:37:07
can't anyone answer my questions about which DJ played which room at toybox and whether the metro can trade 24 hours again? everyone seems pre-occupied with mid-week come down bitch slapping and 'countdowns'.
curious...! - Thu 26 Jun 2003 01:34:24
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Adam Q. Rot - Thu 26 Jun 2003 02:12:36
Hi everyone!
No doubt, you would have all heard by now that The Lewisham Hotel has closed temporarily. It is expected that the hotel will re-open next week.
In the meantime, fortunately for all BITCH! regulars, the Flinders Hotel have come to the rescue by kindly allowing us to use their venue to continue the Lewisham magic by bring all the Lewisham crew to Darlinghurst for this coming Saturday night - 28th July
Below is a FAQ list to further explain in detail.
Q: Does this mean that the Lewisham Hotel's Saturday BITCH! night is moving to the Flinders Hotel?
A: No. At this stage, it is for one night only.
Q: Will the management of the Lewisham Hotel run it?
A: Yes
Q: Can I expect to hear my favourite DJ from the Lewisham Hotel, Justin Scott bellowing out his usual stuff?
A: Yes
Q: Will the talented Miss Sandy Bottom be hosting the evening as usual?
A: Yes
Q: Will Vida Las Vegas grace us with her presence at around midnight?
A: Yes
Q: Will Portia Turbo be injecting us with her wonderful performances?
A: Yes. She’s also bringing with her, her dear friend Miss Rusty Box.
Q: Will the show line up remain the same"
A: Yes. Shows at 11, 12, 1 & 2 o'clock.
Q: Will the same bar staff as The Lewisham Hotel serve me?
A: Yes
Q: Is there a dance floor?
A: Yes.
Q: I like podiums. Are there any there for me to show off my fabulous dance moves?
A: Yes. People are also invited to use the Bar itself to dance on.
Q: Will SX News be there taking pics for the papers' social pages.
A: Yes
Q: I'm broke. Is there a cover charge?
A: No
Q: Being the western suburbs queen that I am, what is the exact address of the Flinders Hotel?
A: 63 Flinders St, Darlinghurst. It's only a short walk from Taylor Square.
Q: The Lewisham Hotel closes at 3am. What time does the Flinders close?
A: 24 hr license on weekends
It is expected that this will be a huge night, as this is the first time the gay inner-west have moved to Darlinghurst, as a whole, under the one roof.
Please arrive early, as unlike the Lewisham Hotel, the Flinders Hotels capacity is not as big. We also expect to get bombarded with Oxford St regulars who have never made the cab trip out to the Lewisham Hotel. Bearing all this in mind, you may need to queue to get in if you arrive too late.
Kindly let all your Lewisham buddies know, who may not be on the Lewisham Hotels' BITCH! email group.
See you all on the night.
Bye for now
Juzzy - Thu 26 Jun 2003 08:10:19
curious...! - Thu 26 Jun 2003 01:34:24
Toybox DJ List -
Main Room was Ruby & Neal Crawford (not sure which order they played)
Smaller Room was Alex Taylor midday to 4pm , then Jake Kilby 4pm to 8pm (close)
The Metro does NOT have a 24 hour licence anymore. Any evening events held at that venue would need to close at 3am as has been the case for the last few years.
Question answered.
- Thu 26 Jun 2003 09:15:52
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countdownboy's sisters twin daughters pet dog - Thu 26 Jun 2003 09:29:32
Twisted Australia - Wed 25 Jun 2003 22:23:34
My point is that if you had been to "many" Frisky parties complementary or not and had never been a fan, then why would you bother going to to Toybox knowing it was going to be much the same style of party.
This is not about the party being a success, it's about your dumb ass going to it in the first place.
I'm far from trashy and or ugly( and yes i was there )
And yes i still think your opinion sux
Duh! - Thu 26 Jun 2003 10:57:24
Ruby played his blinder of a set 12-4, then Neal kept it all happenin from 4 -8 in the main room
- Thu 26 Jun 2003 11:30:48
Does GBH = GHB = ketamine?
Curious - Thu 26 Jun 2003 11:46:54
GHB (Gammahydroxybutrate) and Ketamine ('K' or 'Special k') are two different drugs. GBH is the abbreviaion for "grievous bodily harm" but is often used interchangeably with 'GHB' either mistakenly or because it seems like an ironic comment about what taking GHB might do to you.
- Thu 26 Jun 2003 12:23:31
jeffgg - Mon 23 Jun 2003 20:14:36.
I agree. Wierd Arq Sunday crowd. I left very early. Sundays used to be more fun. Maybe everyone went to the Shift. What's going on?
not so SHINEy - Thu 26 Jun 2003 12:43:07
Curious, see www.erowid.com for quality information on these matters.
- Thu 26 Jun 2003 13:29:44
I would go to the Shift more often but I find the drinks too expensive. No beer on tap and the coat check guy ripped me off! Classy!
- Thu 26 Jun 2003 13:32:24
Toybox had a fantastic vibe and was busy from beginnning to end. It's official, day parties work in Sydney - and this one jumped! Now, who stands to lose from this success? Probably the negative posters on this board who I doubt even went to the party. ;) Though we may be the unwitting part of a reverse psychology campaign designed to create controversy.
- Thu 26 Jun 2003 13:45:05
Is there a G.A.Y recovery???
- Thu 26 Jun 2003 14:20:20
Anyone know about Lavish @Kandy's Appartment 12/7, Is it going to be like dv8?
- Thu 26 Jun 2003 14:21:40
Evil Twin, it was nice to meet you. I missed your departure, sorry about that.
- Thu 26 Jun 2003 15:10:51
Sounds to me like someone younger and pretty has entered the catwalk.
Heres a tip, try putting more energy into creating a new frock,and less at throwing rubbish.
- Thu 26 Jun 2003 15:55:40
Orgy of Drag V
Party night at Stonewall
Friday 26 June (note Friday not Saturday as listed in some places)
$5.00 donation at door. All proceeds to ACON. 9pm till very late.
DJs Shigeki, Akio, David Beecroft and Mike Kelly. More drag Queens than you can poke a stick at doing shows.
acon events team - Thu 26 Jun 2003 16:24:32
Check this out regarding MPEGS and audio theft:
http://www.smh.com.au/articles/2003/06/24/1056220597879.html
- Thu 26 Jun 2003 19:08:56
re Toybox, just for the record:
Toybox utilised the same suppliers that Frisky did. Why? Pretty simple - they know the room better than anyone when it comes to creating that amazing Metro experience.
From their promotion: "ToyBox will deliver the superior production levels that you've come to expect from events at the Metro Theatre. As part of our team, NiteGroove will ensure an amazing production with the help of Lasers by Oracle, intelligent lighting by Concert Lighting Systems, sound by Norwest. All to create a ToyBox designed for maximum fun".
Toybox did not quite sell out but went within 100 tickets of doing so - not a bad result for a first time party. I believe the figure was around 1120.
Toybox did not pretend to be anything more than a hell of a lot of fun in the middle of winter - it succeeded in giving us that experience.
If people don't like that format, so be it - enough do!
Extremely Wrecked.... - Thu 26 Jun 2003 19:28:46
Theres no GAY recovery, just go to Arq when its over I'd say !! (or Bodyline) :P
- Thu 26 Jun 2003 20:16:55
the shift WAS very busy last sunday (although usually it's dead if it's a 'normal' sunday) and the reason for this was because the shift offered free entry to all toybox partygoers. shift went to great lengths to woo everyone from toybox which is sad considering there was a worthwhile pride event that nite hoping for the same punters. on a normal sunday nite it stills seems like arq is pulling huge crowds while the shift is lucky to get even a small group of people. some other nites for the shift seem to be working well though. i like the idea of day parties definitely, but i hated the 'toybox' theme and concept which is why i didn't go. looking forward to a different style of day party... perhaps similar to magnitude. also looking forward to g.a.y.!!
Sam - Thu 26 Jun 2003 21:50:40
I danced for eight hours straight at toybox, didn't see a glow stick anywhere.
There were some really cool spinning light chaser things.
I also saw lots of stuffed toys for the charity thingy.
(childrens hospital I think)
I loved the party.
When's the next one?
- Thu 26 Jun 2003 22:00:55
I agree with you Sam about the theme of "toybox". it didnt appeal to me either - it reminded me of a happy hardcore rave from the mid ninties. so not cool.
Leonie - Thu 26 Jun 2003 23:02:08
- Thu 26 Jun 2003 09:15:52
thanks for satisfying my curiosity!
- Fri 27 Jun 2003 01:11:05
does anyone know of any websites posting pics from parties and club nights? dragmeout.com.au doesn't get updated anymore.. They are always good for a laugh and a perve, all from the comfort of your desk chair.
chris - Fri 27 Jun 2003 01:19:04
try www.pinkandblue.com.au
- Fri 27 Jun 2003 09:59:06
will the upstairs mezanine discreet sex space be operating tomorrow night @ the shift as usual with G.A.Y being on??
- Fri 27 Jun 2003 10:03:29
acon events team - Thu 26 Jun 2003 16:24:32 More drag queens than you can poke a stick at? Pity. I just remembered I've arranged to stay home to read my book on Euclidian mathematics....
- Fri 27 Jun 2003 10:15:10
- Fri 27 Jun 2003 10:03:29
so much for it being discreet now... thanks VERY MUCH !!!
- Fri 27 Jun 2003 11:13:30
Check out all the cute guys at the opening of KX Gym on page 22 of this week's SSO.
- Fri 27 Jun 2003 12:20:22
The cloak room takes up half of the upstairs area at the Shift and dressing rooms the other half.
suck it at home. - Fri 27 Jun 2003 12:27:21
The Shift had planned a large recovery for Toybox six weeks out from the party. The 'community' event, basically promoting Queer Nation, was put together in less than 2 weeks. Apart from that, there was an important birthday party at the Shift that night from 5pm which flowed into the night activities.
get your facts right before mouthing off please - Fri 27 Jun 2003 13:11:53
Rick Mitchell from USA is playing at Nation 03 Party in Singapore in August.
- Fri 27 Jun 2003 14:20:29
"I also saw lots of stuffed toys for the charity thingy"Thu 26 Jun 2003 22:00:55
No.....they were the toybox partygoers......
- Fri 27 Jun 2003 14:28:11
Baby Bear and Chip were playing at the Shift last Saturday. I am seldom tempted out on Saturdays but I couldn't resist this time.
A. Groupie - Fri 27 Jun 2003 14:31:46
what cute boys on page 22.... I see ONE possibility the rest are hideous
- Fri 27 Jun 2003 15:05:01
I hear Babybear, Chip and another DJ will be back at The Shift weekly, with the launch next week? Sounds a little like Indulgence meets Divasated! Can the shift please confirm this and whether the djs are all on every week at certain times?
tempted - Fri 27 Jun 2003 15:44:46
Where is the central DJ roster that lets us know WHO is on and at what TIME?
Has anyone invented one yet?
who? where? WHEN? - Fri 27 Jun 2003 17:27:06
whats on at the phoenix 2night??? anyone know??
Nezvla - Fri 27 Jun 2003 17:38:59
RE: BITCH! night this Saturday night at the Flinders Hotel. (See earler thread)
Unfortunately, due to circumstances beyond the promoters control, a $5 cover charge will apply upon entry to the hotel from 9pm.
However, the good news is that your first drink is FREE!
The promoters apologise, and once again, we look forward to seeing you all there.
Juzzy - Fri 27 Jun 2003 17:41:36
from what I read, the theme of toybox was "toys". wherever your head took you, it was really up to you. some people took the kids toys angle, some went with sex toys - and I'm sure there were probably a lot more. if you actually WENT to the party, you'd know that it went off from beginning to end.
- Fri 27 Jun 2003 18:27:41
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countdownboys year 12 school teachers brothers daughters pet pig - Fri 27 Jun 2003 19:23:00
enough about toybox. please !
- Fri 27 Jun 2003 22:50:56
LAVISH
A Fetish Dance Party With A Twist!
Saturday, July 12th, 2003.
CANDY'S APARTMENT
22 Bayswater Rd, Kings Cross
10pm - Late
Main show by "Lytex" 12 midnight
Dj Mandy Rollins + guest dj
Tickets: $30 + b/f pre-sales / $40 @ the door
Tickets on sale at: Gallery Serpentine, Reactor Rubber, Fish Records @
Newtown, ToolShed @ Newtown, Rubber Emporium, Demon Leather, The Wild One,
House of Fetish, Karnal Leather. (and Eagle Leather in Melb)
This is going to be more twisted than club DV8... a real treat for the senses. The theme is Medieval-meets-Fetish get your best dress ups out and come along and check it out. for more info: www.pixelpusher.net/lavish or email: brainchild@iprimus.com.au
Sam - Sat 28 Jun 2003 03:13:37
Just under 18 hours to go to GAY !!!!
Just under 18 hours to go to GAY !!!!
Just under 18 hours to go to GAY !!!!
Just under 18 hours to go to GAY !!!!
Just under 18 hours to go to GAY !!!!
Just under 18 hours to go to GAY !!!!
Just under 18 hours to go to GAY !!!!
Just under 18 hours to go to GAY !!!!
Just under 18 hours to go to GAY !!!!
Just under 18 hours to go to GAY !!!!
Just under 18 hours to go to GAY !!!!
Just under 18 hours to go to GAY !!!!
countdownboy's mum - Sat 28 Jun 2003 04:26:29
Nice photo of Pinkboarder's Evil Twin + pretty friend in SSO @ Home.
- Sat 28 Jun 2003 09:17:50
Sam - Thu 26 Jun 2003 21:50:40
"shift went to great lengths to woo everyone from toybox which is sad considering there was a worthwhile pride event that nite hoping for the same punters".
Sam you are so off the mark.
The shift was the only ones that would open for the toybox crowd.
When preparty preperations were being done.
Maybe pride could start their organizational skills a little earlier next time.
Also consider the style of music......
and door charge........?
- Sat 28 Jun 2003 10:25:18
hey countdown boys mum, are you wearing Black & White to G.A.Y. tonight?? save me a dance, i'm just as excited about tonight as you are!
mummy's boy - Sat 28 Jun 2003 11:04:03
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if you cant beat countdownboy I say join in!! - Sat 28 Jun 2003 11:29:06
Sat 28 Jun 2003 10:25:18, You say "Also consider the style of music.."
I understand your comment re. the door charge but were the music styles THAT much of a factor in you not attending Pride's Recovery? How much different do you think the music was?
tell me more - Sat 28 Jun 2003 11:44:29
arselickers anonymous. meeting at phoenix bar. 11pm - late. first friday of the month. seymour butz & gemma.
- Sat 28 Jun 2003 13:01:24
9 hours to G.A.Y
- Sat 28 Jun 2003 13:05:57
Nice photo of Pinkboards Panther in SSO as well!
Panthers Pretty Friend - Sat 28 Jun 2003 13:28:38
When a crowd have been going off to trance, they want more trance. The music style is a huge factor.
- Sat 28 Jun 2003 13:51:18
has anyone else noticed how crappy the 2 sydney fag rags are now ? SX has been bad for a long time but this week - SSO gives it a run for it's money
Fanta Lemonade - Sat 28 Jun 2003 14:11:20
Panthers Pretty Friend, please give me the co-ordinates of Panther's picture (if you dare)
- Sat 28 Jun 2003 15:59:00
Well said, Malcolm (referring to SSO letter)
- Sat 28 Jun 2003 16:00:08
Nice photo of Pinkboards Panther in SSO as well!
Panthers Pretty Friend - Sat 28 Jun 2003 13:28:38
For those that dont know panther (like me) please I.D for us which pic in SSO is panther :)
curious - Sat 28 Jun 2003 16:41:04
Did anyone go the Queer Screens Trivia nite last night ?
How bad was Dollywood ? and before some screams she does a lot for charity which I give her her dues but..........she couldn't even pronounce simple
English words let alone the foreign names and broke the sentences up so much you didn't know what the question was and she got heckled for it.
The dyke who opened it should have been asking the questions. Better still get the boys who ran the Trivia nights in the lead up to Gay Games - Bruno and ?
they put fun and personality into it.
You need another MC - Sat 28 Jun 2003 16:41:57
when punters enjoy cheesy trance music, they will go to the next venue that can provide them with more cheesy trance music
logical progression - Sat 28 Jun 2003 16:42:07
re: Sam you are so off the mark.The shift was the only ones that would open for the toybox crowd.When preparty preperations were being done.
Maybe pride could start their organizational skills a little earlier next time. Also consider the style of music......and door charge........?
- Sat 28 Jun 2003 10:25:18
stonewall, kinselas, lord roberts, phoenix and manacle were open
- manacle was amazing... maybe try one of the less glossy alternatives next time where budgets are spent on you rather than on adverts attracting you- they're usually all always free... not a discouragement from doing the shift
- Sat 28 Jun 2003 16:48:21
did mandy rollins play at toybox
- Sat 28 Jun 2003 17:02:06
Sex @ Dance Parties.....?
Hey i have always been a campaigner for the right to express ourselves sexually or otherwise in this world and think most of the censorship laws are draconian. but ya know it's quite hard for promoters to find a good venue and keep it these days and if you do, all that can be spoiled by people who cannot keep it zipped until they get home! is it absolutely a prerequisite to have sex in public? i wonder if the average club-goer really understands how seriously the shite can hit the fan for club owners, licencees, promoters etc... if the Licensing Police do come in and find something that going on which falls outside of the law/guidelines etc.? someone on this list mentioned lobbying or making contact with your local parliament to get these laws changed and i agree that is the only way to go. if you decide to "flirt with danger" and do whatever you want at your average dance party which does not have a sex space... you are putting everyone in jeopardy, not just the venue etc... ALL the punters can be made to leave immediately. hence there goes your ticket price down the drain, not to mention that's the death of the party instantly. or... the police can lock the doors and keep everyone in and do a headcount to see if the place is overcrowded or search everyone ONE by ONE... that could take ages and i'm sure nobody wants to be searched or harrassed do they? i think we need to make the distinction between sex clubs and dance parties.... and not assume it's okay to mix it up. in the king's cross area, the police are on a "clean up the cross" campaign frenzy... and clubs in that area are visited by police on average about every second nite with many of them being closed down or fined regularly.
someone asked how you find out about the crowd capacity... if you are organising a dance party you can go the council and get a "P.O.P.E" certificate (no i did't make that up, i researched it) *giggle* it's: A Place of Public Entertainment - Authority Certificate. i think that means the council come round and check out the premises etc.... and give you the all-clear etc. Basically the current Liquor Licensing Laws do not allow: Overcrowding, No Full Nudity, No Sex, No simulated sex (!) No drugs... but most difficult one of all for some venues is: DO NOT BLOCK FIRE EXITS. sometimes that's impossible as there is nowhere else to stand. it might help promoters if we are all aware of these things and try to work with them, instead of whining about the way things are. i am not one for conforming, but jeez sometimes it seems we've gone too far... from extreme sexual repression in the 50's to an overthetop attitude: we demand!? to be able to have sex in public if we want to, so there! in 2000's...???!!! i spose some of you will disagree, but if all that stands between your great nite out for a dance and a drink with your friends and you excercising a little self control.... till you get home....which is it gonna be? personally i want to be able to go out and not be in fear of getting kicked out all the time.
be well, be wicked, play safe.
busy bee - Sat 28 Jun 2003 17:51:18
If I was a dj, i'd call myself guest dj.Then I would get promoted everywhere,without even knowing it.
Guest dj - Sat 28 Jun 2003 18:07:32
- Sat 28 Jun 2003 16:48:21
stonewall, kinselas, lord roberts, phoenix and manacle.
are these venues capable of taking 600 people?
because as i know it people want to stay together.
- Sat 28 Jun 2003 18:24:15
did mandy rollins play at toybox
- Sat 28 Jun 2003 17:02:06
NO.
- Sat 28 Jun 2003 18:28:20
did ben drayton play at toybox ?
- Sat 28 Jun 2003 18:28:35
Party spaces: is the Entertainment Centre an option?
I was enquiring about Paddy's Markets but they only clear it out on Mon-Wed.
thinking...thinking... - Sat 28 Jun 2003 18:39:17
DJ Guessed, can't wait to see you. I'm all over the place, myself
- Sat 28 Jun 2003 18:41:34
Did Ben Drayton play at toybox....play records - no. He may have been there "playing"...but he didn't play records.
Alex Taylor, Jake Kilby, Ruby, Neal Crawford were the DJ's for toybox.
- Sat 28 Jun 2003 18:46:24
did ben drayton play at toybox ?
- Sat 28 Jun 2003 18:28:35
NO.
- Sat 28 Jun 2003 18:54:01
Ive play with Ben!!!
but not at toybox.
- Sat 28 Jun 2003 20:38:01
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countdownboys twin sister - Sat 28 Jun 2003 20:51:39
2400 Seconds to GAY !!
- Sat 28 Jun 2003 21:28:32
Well its passed 10pm...., GAY is now open.
There are NO minutes to GAY !!!! There are NO minutes to GAY !!!! There are NO minutes to GAY !!!! There are NO minutes to GAY !!!! There are NO minutes to GAY !!!! There are NO minutes to GAY !!!! There are NO minutes to GAY !!!! There are NO minutes to GAY !!!!
I'm off to check it out, hope you all have a good night !!
- Sat 28 Jun 2003 22:09:11
hahah as if ben drayton would go to toybox !
reality - Sat 28 Jun 2003 23:29:06
Mandy Rollins, Ben Dayton and Stephen Alkins did play at Toybox. I know i was there giving my full steam support and i was having a good time. Why are people saying that they did not play?
Mandy's No. 1 Fan - Sun 29 Jun 2003 02:39:22
Lavish deserves our full support. The promoters have been members of our tribe for years and they're giving something new a go. I'll be there in full fetishware.
- Sun 29 Jun 2003 08:29:11
Agree Busy Bee - I'm all for sex but as you say its a dance party and lets leave it at that so that we are allowed to keep having them. You will get slagged by other posters saying its their right/choice.
Makes me wonder why they dont slag all the Sauna's and Suckshops to put in a dance floor and music for them :)
Leave it as a party - Sun 29 Jun 2003 08:36:38
Anyone going to the Fist Party today at Headquarters?
- Sun 29 Jun 2003 11:42:25
GAY was fantastic.... hot bois everywhere... my eyes are so sore !!
- Sun 29 Jun 2003 12:46:26
It's SUNDAY, so - c'mon trashbags, join me in celebrating the fag-end of the week
Tonight could be the last - Sun 29 Jun 2003 13:40:22
busy bee - Sat 28 Jun 2003 17:51:18 You post as though there was some understood legal basis to "indecency" on licensed premises. But there isn't. Short of full-on, strobe-lit, naked podium pumping, the law is incredibly vague. Basically it's about whether or not the people who might have an opinion on it - licensing police, licensee, etc - reckon there's either a specific behaviour case to answer or a business-threatening risk to avoid. That's why our big dance parties have - for the last 10-15 years - negotiated dedicated, discreet spaces in which sex can occur, with police/licensee approval/tolerance. It's the breakdown of that arrangement - largely owing to the sheer stupidity of the Gay Games Black Party organisers - that made what wasn't an issue, into exactly that.
It's basically illogical to say that sex and parties don't mix. Says who? And who defines what 'sex'is finally? And against whose standards? People 'have sex' in a thousand different ways and degrees at every dance party - gay and straight. Dance parties are supposed to be sexy events that sexy people go to. You don't check your libido at the door.
There's a middle way here that has worked for many years. We need to make it work again.
- Sun 29 Jun 2003 13:42:34
What a nice surprise to see DJ Josh playing at ARQ on Saturday night!
We weren't expecting much, assuming most of the gay crowd would be at G.A.Y., but DJ Josh soon had us smiling, and the dance floor pumping.
She played a fantastic set, definitely the best Saturday night at ARQ for a long time. And everyone there seemed to be enjoying it and having a great time.
Two questions; why didn't ARQ advertise the fact that she would be playing? The venue info in both SX and SSO seems to be hopelessly out of date, rarely updated, and more often than not, inaccurate.
Secondly, has the time come to give Paul Goodyear more regular breaks on Saturday nights, and freshen it up a little with guest spots by brilliant DJ's such as DJ Josh?
Hopefully, ARQ will have the good sense to bring DJ Josh over more often : )
jeffgg - Sun 29 Jun 2003 18:42:11
>You post as though there was some understood legal basis to "indecency" on licensed premises.>
there is... well in the eyes of the idiots who make the laws anyway. i didn't say i agreed with them, i just questioned the consequences of flouting them.
>That's why our big dance parties have - for the last 10-15 years - negotiated dedicated, discreet spaces in which sex can occur, with police/licensee approval/tolerance.>
yes, but that's impossible to do in the smaller venues. that was my point. as far as i'm aware, you can't ask the cops if they mind if you do that thang they've got laws saying you're not allowed to do... pretty please? can you? am i missing something here?
>It's basically illogical to say that sex and parties don't mix.
It's basically illogical to say i choose to exercise my godgiven right to have brekkie naked in my favourite cafe, despite what any silly law says. should i give that a go do ya reckon?
>Says who? And who defines what 'sex'is finally?
errrr..... apparently "THEY" do... whether we like it or agree with them or not. It's their standards we are unfortunately bound to either abide by or accept the consequences of what happens if we don't. I don't like it any more than you, but i like getting kicked out of parties and watching events go bellie up becoz of these issues, even less.
>And against whose standards?>
Well i'm an idealist, but even i can do the reality check now and then.... and as i understand it we'd need to work really hard to alter the establishment's standards to match our own....? (i'm not giving up, but i'm not holding my breath either)
>Dance parties are supposed to be sexy events that sexy people go to. You don't check your libido at the door. >
yes i agree... the sexier the better... but at what cost should i let my libido run rampant? seems a bit uncaring not to consider that, when we talk of "community values" so very very often. i may check my common sense at the door, to make sure i still have some. ~smile~
>There's a middle way here that has worked for many years. We need to make it work again.>
is there? what is it? i'd love to know. when did it work before? (at parties other than the really big ones, not everyone has the clout and resources of a Mardi Gras committee or an Acon organisation, smaller venues have to fend for themselves)
thanks for your thoughts.
busy bee - Mon 30 Jun 2003 00:53:52
hey, does anyone else hate smoke-machines at clubs as much as i do? i went to Back 2 Love on sat. nite and i had an asthma attack within the first twenty minutes i was there. i was forced to hang at the quiet end of the bar near the door because that was the least smokey area and in case i needed (air) an escape route in a hurry etc... surfice to say i wasn't there more than an hour.
seems like even if you don't have asthma that stuff couldn't be good for anyone! my lungs still hurt :(
busy bee - Mon 30 Jun 2003 01:05:17
busy bee - Mon 30 Jun 2003 00:53:52 And hey! Thanks for your highly selective quoting from them....nothing like missing the point.
- Mon 30 Jun 2003 08:31:50
Is busy bee worried that her Lavish party will be raided by the Licensing Police?
- Mon 30 Jun 2003 10:10:43
I really have to say that i did not enjoy G.A.Y. at all. My friend and I were both really excited about going as we both like the concept. Unfortunately I did not feel it was pulled off well this time around. Why? Well the music was awful. Nowhere near as camp and handbaggy as you'd expect. When you have a party concept like G.A.Y. it seems to me that the music should be totally over the top handbag and not a mixed up assortment of bits of everything with the sounds from 2 different music spaces all merging into one (shift club really wasn't designed for 2 music spaces). And each time people walked past the temporary speakers in the lounge area they would cover their ears.. too loud! Too close! The first show was ok but after that the shows were pretty average and mismatched. The theme also failed with unattractive decorations scattered around.
Dissapointed @ G.A.Y. - Mon 30 Jun 2003 10:23:07
Mon 30 Jun 2003 08:31:50 - I actually agree with most of what busy bee has said in that post.
- Mon 30 Jun 2003 11:53:30
Dissapointed @ G.A.Y........
On the same lines of your last point about "unattractive decorations", did you manage to catch the window display downstairs ? What a wasted opportunity. Up until the last day or two before the party, all that was in the window was a tatty bit of white material hanging behind the mirror ball. Then all of a sudden, a couple of pieces of black and white wrapping paper appeared.....hmm, come on guys, what happened to creativity ???? Did it get lost in the coat check ???
I missed GAY on this occasion, but again, echoing the comment above about two different dance spaces - DROP IT GUYS !! It doesn't work !! Leave the smaller space as a chill out area and open BOTH doors to the main dance space....
- Mon 30 Jun 2003 12:39:08
smoke machines do not cause asthma attacks. maybe you have Sars ?
Mr Panties - Mon 30 Jun 2003 13:34:08
Sex can happen openly at some parties ... like the No Holes Barred parties ... as they are held in unlicensed premises. Simple solution.
- Mon 30 Jun 2003 13:57:21
>And hey! Thanks for your highly selective quoting from them....nothing like missing the point.
- Mon 30 Jun 2003 08:31:50>
there isnt' much to choose from when quoting those laws, unless you want to post about 10 pages of legal jargon. i thought it was pretty obvious that those points i outlined are the main issues.
if you feel i've missed the point... then please tell me what you think it is. i am open to your feedback here. my point is to work together, not in opposition.
busy bee - Mon 30 Jun 2003 16:06:32
to - Mon 30 Jun 2003 12:39:08
See what happens when you open your big mouth and make a comment about an event you didnt go to ?
Your comment "and open BOTH doors to the main dance space" is completely incorrect.
Both doors to the main dance space (unlike previous GAY's) on this occassion WERE open.... all night
Now who's the one with egg on his or her face ?
For the record GAY was OUTSTANDING !
.
Next time you feel like expressing an opinion at least make it an informed one - Mon 30 Jun 2003 16:08:40
>I actually agree with most of what busy bee has said in that post.
- Mon 30 Jun 2003 11:53:30>
thankyou for that feedback.
busy bee - Mon 30 Jun 2003 16:16:05
>smoke machines do not cause asthma attacks. maybe you have Sars ?
Mr Panties - Mon 30 Jun 2003 13:34:08 >
heheeh, thanx for your (medical?) opinion smarty panties... i do not have sars. do you have asthma? ask another asthmatic if they get an attack when exposed to smoke machines. i'd be interested to hear the answer. or perhaps you could conduct a survey if you don't believe me.
have a nice day : )
busy bee - Mon 30 Jun 2003 16:22:13
>Sex can happen openly at some parties ... like the No Holes Barred parties ... as they are held in unlicensed premises. Simple solution.
- Mon 30 Jun 2003 13:57:21 >
yes, that's true... but have you noticed No Holes Barred has not been on for some time?... i went to the last one, i think it was 2 years ago. (maybe they've had trouble finding a good venue)? the place it was held was not the sort of place i'd want to go to again or hold a party at. each to their own. major factor: there are hardly any unlicensed premises you can hire that have any character or potential. perhaps we could start putting on fetish events in scout halls and get the rotary club to do the bar for us? ahh, if only it was "simple" like you suggest.
busy bee - Mon 30 Jun 2003 16:33:11
>Is busy bee worried that her Lavish party will be raided by the Licensing Police?
- Mon 30 Jun 2003 10:10:43>
Of course i am! and aren't you clever, you've not only figured out that i'm the Promoter, but you've outed me too. that's cool... i wanted to be open anyway, but was concerned about putting people offside on this list. I did however, decide it was a good idea to go right to the source for this discussion and find out how people feel about this whole sex at dance parties issue and get the dialogue going. After the fiasco that took place at the last Club DV8 where at least 20 people were ejected for "obscene" behaviour (not my words) i am definately concerned and anyone who isn't is asleep. i want people to feel safe at my event and to be able to have a good time without fearing discrimination. The security guard who did most of the harrassing at club dv8 was definately a big homophobe, but he was also under instruction from a perhaps over-cautious management/licensee who was obviously not prepared to be fined or closed down. please understand that if i've stuck my neck out in this public forum, it must be important as i wouldn't do that lightly. i had no idea just how full on the clean up sydney's clubs campaign is when i booked this venue, so i'm working here on prevention, rather than cure, as that could be too little too late. i think that it's gotta be possible to go to a dance party and ENJOY yourself without getting or giving a blow job, (though that would be nice)... as far as i can tell, the only place it's safe-ish to do that in most clubs is in a toilet cubicle. why not just save it for those events that are structured that way. For those who can handle that concept, come along to Lavish and have a great nite out with us! for more info: www.pixlepusher.net/lavish or
view poster at: http://www.screamzteam.com/html/lavish.html
busy bee (aka Miss Sam) - Mon 30 Jun 2003 16:56:42
p.s... No Holes Barred was a Play (Dance) Party ... they had rooms set up with play equipment which punters could use and a darkened fuck room with a glory hole or two. Lavish is not a B&D party, it's a Fetish Dance Party....with BDSM shows throughout the nite. Quite a different kettle of fish to NHB.
busy bee - Mon 30 Jun 2003 17:04:10
Guest DJ, Dan Murphy (Paul's nominee? - good choice) BabyBear and Jake: You did GOOD! A memorable night of diverse House. Even Greg skewed it upbeat. Babybear worked hard and took it out on us! \\Love it//.
You guys cramp my mussels yet warm the cockles my heart and the souls of my feet.
A. dancing maniac - Mon 30 Jun 2003 17:07:10
5 posts in a row from "busy bee". perhaps "bored bee" would be more suitable ?
I admit the medical degree which Mr Panties hangs on his office wall is slightly dodgy looking, but it's common knowledge that smoke machines dont cause respiratory problems. it's a synthetic "fog" not smoke.
Chiclet - Mon 30 Jun 2003 17:29:20
busy bee....I agree with you about the Asthma/smoke machine subject....I gather the chemicals used in smoke machines can aggrivate some suffers....
- Mon 30 Jun 2003 17:31:12
I was pointing out my experience in the past. Good on the organisers for making sure the doors were kept open, it's nice to see they are doing at least one thing different from the last parties.
- Mon 30 Jun 2003 17:34:35
Dissapointed @ G.A.Y. - Mon 30 Jun 2003 10:23:07
Im not sure if you were paying too much attention to the music given what you said.
I will however grant that it was a tad annoying moving from one space to the next and having to put up with the music from both rooms crashing together however that was easily avoided by moving swifty away from that area of convergence.
As for you comment on the music how wrong can you be.
There was so much girly music played between the two spaces and also so many anthemic tracks played from the 90's and even some from the 80's !!
I recall hearing artists during the night such as Old 1980's Donna Summer, Multiple Whitney Houston , at least 2 Kylie tracks , Danniis last 2 singles at least 4 Madonna tracks, a 1980's pet Shop Boy track, as well as other cheesy anthems of yesteryear such as
3 is family - Dana Dawson 1995
Santa maria - Tatjana 1995 *cringe*
Lets all chant - Pat & Mick 1989
Never can say goodbye - Communards (mid 80's)
Sing Hallelujah - Dr Alban 1993
Relight My Fire - Take That 1993
Losing My Mind - Liza Minnelli 1988
I Need Somebody - Loveland 1997
Rhythm of the Night - Corona 1994
Lets hear it for the boy - Denise Williams 1982 !!!!
You spin me round - Dead or Alive 1983
In the evening - Sheryl Lee Ralph 1995
Walkaway Lover - Toni Pearon 1995
On top of that there were so many anthems played from the present and last 12-18 months such as
I will love again - lara fabian
Joy - Staxx
Above the clouds - AMber
Just a little bit - Liberty X
The new remix of - Lost without you - Delta Goodrem
One day in your life - Anastasia
Dirty - Christina Aguillera
Honest to God how much more camp do you want it ??????
Some people are never satisfied.
Stephen Blomfield - Mon 30 Jun 2003 18:20:35
To 'Next time you feel like expressing an opinion at least make it an informed one'... is there any need to be so feisty? The 'Mon 30 Jun 2003 12:39:08' posters comments were not soley about the doors but about the fact that there are 2 dance spaces. In fact the doors remark has little to do with the overall point the poster was trying to make. I have been to 2 G.A.Y. parties (including the most recent one) and whether one door or 2 doors are open seems to have little consequence. Both options have their own negative impact. The issue is the fact that they are trying to create an additional dance space in an area where it just shouldn't be. It was horrible. Even die-hard partygoers were walking past the speakers with their hands over their ears. That has got to be a sign that something is wrong! I would like to bring to everyones attention though that this was only one of many faults on the night that I could see. Would love to hear more opinions from other genuine posters
Dissapointed @ G.A.Y. - Mon 30 Jun 2003 18:30:20
Oh pish tush "outing"! Is "busy bee" the name on your birth certificate? Scroll back through the posts. Sex on premises, sex on premises, advert for Lavish, sex on premises... hardly need to be Einstein here. If you wanted to be open, why didn't you say at the start?
Re the licensing laws, why rely on second hand info from Pinkboard? Make a call to the Surry Hills police and sort it out with them. How hard is that? Then brief your own security properly on the night.
BTW, sussing out who is the promoter posting is common sport around here.
- Mon 30 Jun 2003 19:44:02
The Big Parties have negotiated sex spaces for the past 10 -15 years ???????
Not any that I've worked on. Where did you get your information from ?
If you wanted sex you went behind the curtains in Dome or the Hordern toilets
or back row of the bleachers.
Back then it was discreet, no dedicated area roped off and advertising the
fact. From memory the problem only started once dedicated areas were in place.
Venues are not interested in losing their licence by breaking the law no matter
how pinkboard know-it-alls interpret it.
They wont give up Busy Bee
I just wanna dance - Mon 30 Jun 2003 19:48:50
Dissapointed @ G.A.Y. - Mon 30 Jun 2003 18:30:20
I suppose you were expecting to hear "Nutbush city limits" , "The Time Warp" and "YMCA" ?
some people have no taste - Mon 30 Jun 2003 22:16:50
I just wanna dance - Horden toilets up till the renovations in the late 90s? Even if that wasn't negotiated, it was dedicated.
Everyone still seems to be missing the issue - it is a harm reduction issue. If sex happens just anywhere (and it will) and condoms are not close to hand, then some people are more likely to just have unsafe sex. If there is a place with plenty of condoms available close to where people are haing sex then many people will make use of them.
HIV is officially on the increase again. We need to keep trying to find ways to stop it spreading. The Nancy Regan "Just say no" does not work.
Arti - Mon 30 Jun 2003 23:11:06
- Mon 30 Jun 2003 19:44:02 >Oh pish tush "outing"! Is "busy bee" the name on your birth certificate?>
whatever. maybe you've missed my point now, but obviously you believe you're right and i'm not. have it whichever way you like. someone else suggested i must be "bored bee" not busy bee... can't quite see what is wrong with errr... responding. and umm this is work sweetie... its' all part of the project care and organisation of Lavish. call it a holistic approach. how many of you can say you've had this much input from promoters personally about your wellbeing and your nite out? i'm not doing this to sell tickets, that's not necessary.
>Scroll back through the posts. Sex on premises, sex on premises, advert for Lavish, sex on premises... hardly need to be Einstein here. If you wanted to be open, why didn't you say at the start?>
pretty sure i've already answered that. (see: read back) reason no. 2.. maybe becoz of people like you? i notice you remain anonymous :)
>Re the licensing laws, why rely on second hand info from Pinkboard? Make a call to the Surry Hills police and sort it out with them. How hard is that? Then brief your own security properly on the night.>
i'm not asking for info here, i've quoted the relevant legal info here. i did my homework. i'm here talking to people who actually go to clubs to find out if they understand the difficult position (rock & hard place) promoters and club managers/licensees can be in ? it's all feedback. didn't think that was so unclear. ultimately i'm here to find the best way to work with party goers and police.
>BTW, sussing out who is the promoter posting is common sport around here.>
i noticed that... and that you seem to get lots of pleasure from this sport. happy hunting, i've got nothing to hide... you did me a favour.. now i can speak directly instead of in the third person.
i also invite anyone who feels so inclined, to come up and say hello to me on the nite :) i'll be easy to find... just ask for the Hostess/Dommie Bitch *evil laff*
cheers
p.s... if anyone wants to ask me anything or take this off this list, please feel free to email me at brainchild@iprimus.com.au
Miss Sam (a busy bee organising lavish) - Mon 30 Jun 2003 23:32:22
>They wont give up Busy Bee
I just wanna dance - Mon 30 Jun 2003 19:48:50>
hey there "i just wanna dance"... hehehe, neither will i..!
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bbee - Mon 30 Jun 2003 23:58:27
I just wanna dance - Mon 30 Jun 2003 19:48:50 So all those endless negotiations around gender-specific spaces never happened? ACON never set up sexual harm reduction spaces at every Sleaze and Mardi Gras for years on end? Inquisition never had a sex space in the Dome or the Hordern and never entered tortuous negotiations to achieve them? The GLO's from Surry Hills Police never acted as go-betweens between different arms of the Police and event organisers, in order to ensure that discreet spaces occurred?
One of the recurring themes of Pinkboard is for people who know nothing about our community's history, to get on here and blather away reinventing an historical experience about which they clearly know nothing. Thanks for ensuring the continuation of that tradition.
- Tue 1 Jul 2003 08:14:51
Arti - Mon 30 Jun 2003 23:11:06
Your posting makes it sound like we are "addicted" to having sex. Harm minimization to the point of supplying all needed equipment (in this case condoms) doesn't even happen for drug addicts who are physically addicted to very powerful chemicals.
Maybe the Nancy Reagan "Just say no" line won't work - but how about the "Please begin to behave like a responsible adult" is more appropriate.
We can't expect ACON to rush into the rescue every time some gay adult man can't do the sensible thing ie. bring their own condoms and find a loo in which to have sex.
If you look at the figures of who precisely is seroconverting it's the 30-39 yr old age bracket - not young guys who don't know what safe sex is - but a maturing population who are used everyone doing everything for them to keep them safe whilst they never have to think about anything except who they are next gonna lay.
A responsible adult - Tue 1 Jul 2003 09:32:02
Beyond in Melb was fantastic - sexy men, good sex space and fabbo music. and the recover with Paul mac and frisky was brilliant.
- Tue 1 Jul 2003 10:16:08
"yes, that's true... but have you noticed No Holes Barred has not been on for some time?... "
I heard there's one on the 2nd of August ... but I don't know where.
"how many of you can say you've had this much input from promoters personally about your wellbeing and your nite out?"
On this board, all the time! Just usually (but not always) more openly and honestly than your flood of promotional posts.
"i'm not doing this to sell tickets, that's not necessary."
Pull the other one. Have you sold out already?
Darkmikel - Tue 1 Jul 2003 11:11:44
Darkmikel - Tue 1 Jul 2003 11:11:44 I doubt that she will sell out, but you've got to admit that a Fagdyke Fetish Party that actively discourages sex is kind of a novel idea. Presumably Busy Bee is planning to sting anyone who tries it...
BYO insect repellent.
- Tue 1 Jul 2003 11:48:47
Party animals,
When I go out to party, sex is on my mind. How can it not be? Sexy people, Sexy music, not to mention catalysts.
But it's strictly for AFTER. Not just for privacy, but by planning it this way, avoidable risks become just that.
Some friendly advice, KEEP IT QUIET! You will eventually force licencees and promoters to cover their arses; why force it?
can of worms - Tue 1 Jul 2003 12:02:40
I heart Donny Rumsfeld, uNF!
We now return you to our normally scheduled programming.
Adam. Q. Rot - Tue 1 Jul 2003 12:12:50
BEYOND ROCKED!!! Thanks guys.
Mira Ball/morale and entertainment officer for ethel yarwood enterprises - Tue 1 Jul 2003 12:25:23
Some friendly advice, KEEP IT QUIET! You will eventually force licencees and promoters to cover their arses; why force it?
Sound advice, o can of worms! Speaking as a promoter who has spent a lot of time in court, you're dead right. Some things are better left unsaid, especially when they draw attention to stuff that's always been going on, but all have chosen to look the other way from. The more stridently people demand sex spaces at parties, the less likely they are to happen, as venue owners will be aware of the need for them to put into place anti-sex security strategies to 'cover their arses' as you so succinctly put it.
Sometimes a little British understatement can go a long way.
Also, I and many other promoters use this board regularly to promote their own events. If I am posting about mine (or anyone else's event) I always sign the posts, to make it clear that I have a vested interest in what is being said. May I suggest that all other promoters who post on this board do likewise, to enable us all to get past some of the nastiness that clouds this board from time to time. If everyone is upfront from the start, then nothing can come back to haunt you later on, and no accusations can be made about bad faith.
Think of it as Pinkboard karma. It works, and it can be good or bad for you - you reap what you sow.
Now let's all play nice ...
Craig/Tom - Tue 1 Jul 2003 12:42:27
GAY sucked. It was the worst Party that they have had. I think it time for a re- vamp
Not Impressed - Tue 1 Jul 2003 12:53:22
G.A.Y was crap, sad to say as went there for the first time with great anticipation
- Tue 1 Jul 2003 14:10:04
How does one get a job at Ethel Yarwood enterprises? Is that job a bit like being Julie McCoy on the Love Boat? Hope you haven't developed the same type of habit that she did. And credit where it is due for Beyond, it was Peter Mac, not Paul Mac playing the recovery.
lovin' it - Tue 1 Jul 2003 14:13:41
Thanx Craig/Tom for your sound advice and feedback. Nice to hear from another promoter. I have never been on this board before about a week ago... so was wasn't sure of usual protocols etc...
To those who wish to trash Lavish before it's even happened... that says a lot more about you than me or the event. That's fine. As i said it's all feedback. And the feedback i'm getting here is that there are some truly open--minded people on this list and then again there are some who just seem to really enjoy putting shit on others. I never have understood that kind of attitude, so not willing to buy into it. Speculate all you like, be a sour puss about it. If you don't "get" my intention here, (under the circumstances it seems logical to discourage sex in a non-sex venue doh!) you've totally missed the point. I'm over the discussion for now.... i've got lots else to do. Want to thank "responsible adult" for posting. i don't expect venues to supply me with a diaphragm or tampons or wotever, i reckon you're on the right track there. Time a few of these spoilt children learned how to behave themselves eh...? and recognise where it IS okay to run amok.
darkmikel: do you really think this is a good way to sell tickets?? think about it. (you made me chuckle)
and finally......
> I doubt that she will sell out, but you've got to admit that a Fagdyke Fetish Party that actively discourages sex is kind of a novel idea. Presumably Busy Bee is planning to sting anyone who tries it...
BYO insect repellent. - Tue 1 Jul 2003 11:48:47
wow! are you always this bitter? why not extend your repertoire to poofter bashing as well? which part of - i am trying to get your co-operation so i dont have to "sting" you - didn't you get? if you don't like the concept, don't come. isn't it up to you to check yourself/your behaviour ultimately and not me? food for thought. a novel idea?
see ya.
buzzy been there done that - Tue 1 Jul 2003 15:15:19
Any rumors of where Sleaze will be held... has to be Fox doesn't it...? I notice a date now... that's good.
Xane
- Tue 1 Jul 2003 16:03:45
surely all this pre-talk for Lavish is not going to help the attendance - sounds like another pinkboard drama.
and ps - can people get over the sex in clubs debate? are you really all that desperate to fuck all the time in public? go to a sex club and let us dance - maybe we don't want to see it.
boring prude - Tue 1 Jul 2003 16:11:28
NHB is the essence of 'backroom' Sydney. A night which doesn't get caught up in any gender dramas...you gotta love that.
- Tue 1 Jul 2003 16:13:56
Sorry Countdown Boys and the others but G.A.Y was just too awful for words!
- Tue 1 Jul 2003 16:30:38
Is it not possible for NSW licensing laws to be brought in line with the Victorian model that enables parties such as Beyond to happen with appropriate sex space arrangements??
- Tue 1 Jul 2003 16:33:03
will Lavish be lile dv8??
- Tue 1 Jul 2003 16:34:17
charming stuff. Accusing people of "poofter bashing"? How very welcoming of you. I think in your efforts to get our co-operation, you may have shot yourself in the foot.
Here's a suggestion for next time. This is a new party, getting off the ground. This party has no track record, so people do not know what to expect with regards to music, atmosphere, vibe, venue, whatever. You have no "support" base, other than pitching it at a certain subculture. It's not easy, so don't make it harder on yourself.
Instead of berating your detractors, invite them along to see for themselves. As a promoter, *promote* the event. Put forward the positives. Rising to the bait makes you look defensive and petty.
- Tue 1 Jul 2003 17:02:59
I'm one of the many readers of Pinkboard who reads this board regularly but only responds every month or so. As an inner city dweller I also attend dance parties (including clubs) on a very regular basis, mostly fortnightly, if not weekly. Yes I do spend a portion of my well earnt dollars on the party scene, but hey - its another choice in my urban lifestyle. I must admit there is some very unconstructive criticism on this board. I do love the idea of Fetish and a dance party atmosphere, needless to say I've bought a couple of tickets to Lavish, and I'm sure I'll see the usual fetish party people in attendance, which is a friendly crowd with a good attitude. For me, dance parties are for dancing, and sex (if I feel like it - usually NOT while I'm dancing)is much better after the party. Looking forward to experiencing Lavish. Yes, No Holds Barred is on soon, so if you want to explore fetish sex at a party (safely,consensually) try getting tickets. And no, I don't know the promoters - just a regular well informed inner city party goer.
its a lifestyle - Tue 1 Jul 2003 17:22:59
"Wrong way - go back" party in melbourne rocked on the weekend. Ladytron are playing at the next one!!! Anyone in Sydney playing electro sleaze?
beat man - Tue 1 Jul 2003 18:03:57
I love to dance in a group of men. Sweaty bodies rubbing together. Guys around me who are f**king, sucking, fondling... and those who watch this happen are watching as members of the community who the party is for. They are men who enjoy the samething and appriecate what is going on. I don't enjoy having people around with that *oh my gosh* look on their faces as gay men around them party how they want to. I love dancing with a group of gay men, where there is no feeling of being watched by outsiders, as I cruise and play and just dance with a group of men who are *the* most important and defining part of my community.
- Tue 1 Jul 2003 18:12:00
To the people who posted at Tue 1 Jul 2003 12:53:22 as well as Tue 1 Jul 2003 14:10:04 about Saturdays GAY party. I wish to comment.
Both of your brief and yet still negative one liners saying GAY was awful , crap and the worst ever are a total disgrace.
How can you possibly make a comment without having the balls to actually justify yourself !
To my of thinking the fact that you didnt justify yourself means one of two things - (1) You werent even there , or (2) You dont have the intelligence to string together in writing more than one sentence.
It is my opinion that "one liner" postings critical of any event , person , or group that dont say WHY they/who are being critisised should NOT be published on this board (but this matter i will address personally to Panther in an email shortly).
If you say something is crap it should be mandatory to back up that statement with the reason you felt that way inclined for it to be published on this wall or have it face its deletion by a moderator.
In defence of GAY let me say this. In my opinion it was one of the best GAY's Ive ever been to (and Ive been to about 5). The DJ's were outstanding , the crowd was great and unlike the trend in previous GAY parties the majority of the crowd stayed right to the end and did not drift away at about 4am like previous events. At the close at 7am I would say the place was still more than two thirds full. On the crowd itself let me say that I have never seen so many gorgeous men in the once space at any given time (possibly with the exception of a Mardi Gras party). The only negative I could see was the issue that there were certain places in the Shift where the sounds of both rooms music came together in a mish mash type of way. It was annoying but all you had to do was quickly move passed those areas and once again you would only hear one song at a time. Not to hard a task hey ?
Anyhow thats my say and i've justified all my comments with reasons unlike spineless anonymous people who make one line smart assed wise cracks ! Time for a change of moderation policy to avoid these useless , and pointless one liners being published on pinkboard in my opinion.
GAY you rocked. Its now the only special event in Sydney that I feel excited about going to anymore. Congratulations to all the hard working girls who put this wonderful event on for all us queens who still appreciate fun handbag music. Watch out peoples, handbag music is on the way back !!
Stephen Blomfield - Tue 1 Jul 2003 18:29:56
to jeffgg - Sun 29 Jun 2003 18:42:11
I think if you ask around you will find that Paul Goodyear is out of town for up to 4 weeks doing a circuit party tour of the USA. Therefore You might find someone other than Goodyear in the DJ box for a few weeks to come. I'd suggest you ask around. Mind you it would be far easier if Arq actually had a phone number where a real person actually picked the phone up and spoke to you rather than that silly money grabbing 1902-240004 recorded info line. Good luck in your quest, let us know what you find out.
- Tue 1 Jul 2003 18:37:42
Does anyone know about something called Sunday School? Apparently these guys hold a party once a year and it's an absolute hoot.
- Tue 1 Jul 2003 19:04:19
How much was GAY?
If it's handbag that you want you can't go past the Taxi club on thursdays, fridays and saturdays.Why pay a huge price for GAY when the Taxi is free to get in if you're a member and much cheaper drinks than anywhere else on Oxford st?
the three DJ's there play the best handbag you'll find.
It's just an opinion so if you don't agree that's ok, just don't start bitching cause I have a wild time there everytime I go. (and I'm not a drag queen, tranny or a chaser of them, I just love good fun music)
- Tue 1 Jul 2003 19:06:34
How do I go about petitioning the Sauna's to put in a dance floor ? Sometimes at the tubs I do feel like a dance.
Thank you Craig/Tom and Busy Bee and Can of Worms but no matter how many times you quote the law they wont get it.
And to the #@@$@@#@!# who posted saying what about the gender specific spaces at past parties. Thats exactly what they were #$@%$@$%#%$#..... I never saw a fvck space at the Fox and Lion did you ? We are talking dedicated sex spaces and not matter where you go , if its a licenced venue and they are aware of what you want to do , they won't hire the hall. And the Hordern toilets were not negotiated as a dedicated sex space at ANY party I worked at.
The problems at recent parties only caused trouble as the dedicated space was shoved in the laws face. You won't get you sex space by hurling abuse at people on this board or bad mouthing promoters that wont give it to you.
Still just wanna dance - Tue 1 Jul 2003 19:49:27
- Tue 1 Jul 2003 19:06:34
Why not go to the taxi club ? Maybe its got alot to do with the fact that the taxi club is tacky and the Shift is a high quality dance club/space that most queens enjoy going to.
Clubbing isnt always 100% about the music, its about the people and the environment you are in. GAY + The Shift on a quarterly basis is the perfect equation.
- Tue 1 Jul 2003 20:20:26
Whilst I'm not interested in sex at parties, I find the argument against harm reduction ridiculous. We are grown up and responsible for our own actions but some of us will get horny at a dance party and try to have sex. Usually because of the drugs that have been taken. Having somewhere out of the way with condoms available will not impact on the rest of us that just want to dance. If we are all responsible for our own actions and don't need harm reduction then we can get rid of the medical tent at the major events and save the organisers some money. Remember that drugs are illegal too!
GT - Tue 1 Jul 2003 20:25:13
Peter Farris is replacing Paul Goodyear this weekend at ARQ, as for the following weekends I am not too sure
- Tue 1 Jul 2003 22:16:48
- Tue 1 Jul 2003 20:20:26
This is not the first time I have heard these exact comments about the Taxi Club but I am still trying to figure out why people think it is tacky. Most of the people who make those comments to me then go on to say they haven't been there for years. I'm not saying that you haven't but in my experience it's people who haven't been there who just repeat the reputation of years gone by.
Just for the record, the decor in the nightclub area has been renovated and look good especially in the nightclub environment and a new lighting system has been installed only a few months ago.
I've always found the people a lot friendlier to be around than a lot of the attitude queens who attend other clubs. As an example my friends and I have had numerous fights at the shift with certain minority groups because we were standing in "thier" part of the nightclub when people who look like us should be at another part of the club with the rest of our part of the gay community.
I do love the Shift but for a friendly party atmosphere, it's still lacking comapred to the Taxi.
But I am seriously interested in what you find tacky about the club.
- Wed 2 Jul 2003 07:02:36
Tue 1 Jul 2003 16:33:03 That's an excellent point. How is it that gay dance parties in Victoria - which also has "indecency" provisions in it's licensing laws - manage to provide dedicated sex spaces (like we used to in Sydney) without any drama?
- Wed 2 Jul 2003 09:34:45
GT - Tue 1 Jul 2003 20:25:13 Drugs are indeed illegal at dance parties - and everywhere else. Wonder if we'll have a promoter popping up with the New Sydney Party trifecta: no cigs, no sex, no drugs......??
- Wed 2 Jul 2003 09:40:45
Wed 2 Jul 2003 07:02:36 I'm sure you're right about the Taxi Club changing - I haven't been there for a while - but not too much I hope. It's iconic status basically relates to its decades long rep as a Temple of Tack - and one of the truly unique and legendary decadent hangout spots. The fact that every self-respecting Sydney queen has to have at least one "yawoodenbeliebveitluv!" story about the Taxi Club kind of says it all.
Most comments about it probably do relate to it's historical rep. It would be a loss if it changed too drastically. The Taxi Club is...well...the Taxi Club.
- Wed 2 Jul 2003 09:49:52
Stephen Blomfield - Tue 1 Jul 2003 18:29:56 In my experience Stephen, for every "crap' one-liner about any given party, there'll also generally be a "great" one-liner. It's not all that hard to work out where people are coming from when they post about parties - "organised" comments, either poz or neg, pretty much stand out. And Pinkboard is about opinions at the end of the day - "take what you want and leave the rest" as the song lyric goes......
- Wed 2 Jul 2003 09:58:14
buzzy been there done that - Tue 1 Jul 2003 15:15:19 I hope your sex-free fetish party is a resounding success.....there'll probably be lots of naughty " I want to have sex" gay boys who want to be spanked by bossy ladies....;)
- Wed 2 Jul 2003 10:05:14
G.A.Y was a good party, my first G.A.Y not exceptional but a good night anyway!
- Wed 2 Jul 2003 10:31:00
Now that the age of consent has been equalized I say we convince the G&L Right Lobby to take on these damn licensing laws!!
Surely they've got nothing better to do these days than fight for the right to fuck wherever we want and whenever we want!!
Parenting rights, relationship recognition, homophobia in schools and on the street should be left till later as we have much more important things to worry about in our self-indulgent lives.
I mean who cares that we can bring our own condoms and *** in the toilets of the horden. Who cares that we can take a boy back to our place and *** for hours. Who care that we can just pop along to the nearest sex venue and have the time of our *** lives with a hundred men in the dark room!!
I implore the people who are against fighting for sex spaces to please THINK about what it is you are actually dismissing. This is about our self indulged culture which we have a RIGHT (Damn it!) to defend despite the stupidity and childishness of it all!!!!!
...phew!!!
childish whiner with nothing better to do. - Wed 2 Jul 2003 10:55:33
childish whiner with nothing better to do. - Wed 2 Jul 2003 10:55:33 You should really find yourself something to do...have you thought about maybe applying for a gig at "Lavish," paddling gay boys who try to have sex?
- Wed 2 Jul 2003 11:14:54
I popped into the Taxi Club (mainly to play the pokies, but..) It sure has changed. May I take this opportunity to remind those that USED to visit places that they thought were dead/old hat/uncool/once-my-scene,but.., that:
Don't forget our vibrant town is forever changing. Hey, I visit Phoneix, Stonewall, the Shift, Arq, the Taxi Club, Mars Lounge, Flinders, Columbian and even Kinselas & even the Courthouse -- all within a fortnight. I just HATE to miss out on anything. You never know who you are going to meet. Or who to avoid.
Paul, I miss you. Cheers to Arq for slipping in fresh and talented DJ's in your absence. I don't mine the lack of warning; I don't tell them when *I'm not* turning up, after all! *smile*
Paul, come home soon! - Wed 2 Jul 2003 11:43:55
Re: Wed 2 July 9:34. The licencing laws aren't actually much different in Victoria - it's just that they're not enforced. The police are still wary of gay clubs etc after the fallout from the Tasty raid back in 1994. All of the parties that are operating in Victoria are actually in breach of licencing laws and are taking the risk that they are not enforced.
- Wed 2 Jul 2003 11:48:30
I remember watching Luke Leal stick his cardboard sign up in the DJ closet of the then much younger, Taxi Club.
Respect that place, please because our earliest DJ's cut their teeth there; a true zoo of diverse, extreme types--all dressed up and once the ONLY place to go!
- Wed 2 Jul 2003 11:50:39
Promoters and Entertainment Managers (should) know that guest DJ's bring new crowds and even new generations of patrons.
keep on mixing - Wed 2 Jul 2003 12:03:08
Still just wanna dance - Tue 1 Jul 2003 19:49:27 I believe Ken's has answered your plea. They have a DJ onsite quite regularly.....
- Wed 2 Jul 2003 12:49:01
- Wed 2 Jul 2003 11:50:39
The "cardboard" DJ name tags at the taxi club where actually made of wood :P
I should know. I made them !
Another DJ who "cut his teeth" at the Taxi Club - Wed 2 Jul 2003 13:14:26
Stephen, Stephen, Stephen. I dont have the time to write lovely little posts such as yourself. When I have opinion, I have an opinion. Thats what I thought about G.A.Y take it or leave it. You dont have to read the post if you dont want to, scroll past dude. Anyways i though this board was here for everyone. Maybe some people are not that good at putting their thoughts together and writing huge essays. Maybe some people want to say it as they call it. Because it does not suit you does not mean that they can not have their opinion. This board is for the community no matter how good or bads they can spell or articulate their thoughts. If people want to write a on liner on what they though a party was like let them. Not everything has to be justified in this world.
Not Impressed (with Stephen) - Wed 2 Jul 2003 13:15:46
keep on mixing - Wed 2 Jul 2003 12:03:08
What would also bring new generations of patrons is if a gay run club had the guts to run its venue as "non smoking" as was discussed further up this wall.
- Wed 2 Jul 2003 13:19:44
Anyone know how to get access to tickets for No Holds Barred?? Any suggestions appreciated.
- Wed 2 Jul 2003 13:48:28
Wed 2 Jul 2003 11:14:54 - I don't think he has a problem with sex per se, just about it's priority in the scheme of things.
- Wed 2 Jul 2003 14:39:07
>Anyone know how to get access to tickets for No Holds Barred?? Any suggestions >appreciated. - Wed 2 Jul 2003 13:48:28
If you email us, on octopussy00@ozemail.com.au we will send you an email with information about THE FINAL NO HOLES BARRED and an application form for tickets.
Our application form asks a variety of questions that give us an indication where you're coming from... (basically since we can't expect to have time to have coffee with 150 people before the party).
We will ask questions like: "tell us what the naughtiest thing you've ever done in public is"... and "what type of clothes would you wear to a party like No Holes Barred". We also try to get an indication of how you'd feel in a truly pansexual environment (one thing we love about our parties is the visual feast it provides by having gay, lesbian, bisexual, 'try'sexual and all manner of other sexual combinations and possibilities played out side by side, and we want to invite people who this excites too!)
I guess we are looking for an open mind, and a friendly attitude, and a clear understanding that these parties are a little more explicit than Hellfire or other events we do (like SUNDAY SCHOOL as mentioned recently on this board), so we know that you're not 'faint-hearted'.
Ultra
The Hellfire Club
http://www.hellfiresydney.com
email: ultravixen@hotmail.com
Ultra - The Hellfire Club - Wed 2 Jul 2003 14:39:17
"Another DJ who "cut his teeth" at the Taxi Club":
Hope I didn't offend you there. Hey, the sign worked, wood or not. Don't forget to hold on to them when dance memorabilia comes of age (I'm serious).
"Wed 2 Jul 2003 13:19:44":
I agree. I had the smoking thing under control until I went back to the clubs. I don't mind a smoke but I get annoyed having to bring everyone elses fags (I know, I know..) home with me, and them having to wash them out as soon as poss.
NO-SMOKING zones would bring in more patrons but would be brave & tricky to implement.
Non-smoking fags? - Wed 2 Jul 2003 15:36:13
A lil question (just to know) Is Tom/Craig Hellfire straight?
wonderin' - Wed 2 Jul 2003 16:03:54
Non-smoking fags? - Wed 2 Jul 2003 15:36:13 Licensed premises with more than one bar are required to have a smokefree room as of yesterday. And all bars are required to maintain a 1.5 metre smokefree zone adjacent to serving areas. I'd give smoking in bars in NSW 1-2 years max before it's totally abolished. it's already gone in New York and California and we're moving the same way.
- Wed 2 Jul 2003 17:59:07
Wed 2 Jul 2003 17:59:07, Yes I am aware. It has not yet been legislated, though.
- Wed 2 Jul 2003 19:24:55
Noooooooooooooooo! How can I do a Big Gay Dance Party and not smoke? I can keep my metaphorical dick in my pants if I must, but I don't think I can have imaginary ciggies!
It's funny. All of a sudden I really want Sleaze Ball to be on (at the Horden), and soon. I have a bad feeling that there won't be too many parties being held there in the future.
Evil Twin - Wed 2 Jul 2003 19:33:00
Could somebody please direct me to where online i can find the wording of this new legislation re non smoking in clubs.
I am SOOOOO going to make this my project with all gay clubs in this city and ensure they comply with the legislation.
My new project - Wed 2 Jul 2003 20:24:03
My new project - Wed 2 Jul 2003 20:24:03 The 1.5 metre smokefree zone adjacent to serving areas came into force on July 1st. The 'at least one smokefree room' (for licensed premises with more than one space) comes into force from July 1 2004 - but premises are 'encouraged' to go there now. The NSW Health website might have the relevant info up.
- Thu 3 Jul 2003 08:25:49
Is Friday or Saturday night the gayest at Arq???
what's the best night to go? - Thu 3 Jul 2003 09:35:43
My new project - Wed 2 Jul 2003 20:24:03
Try the website below:
http://www.health.nsw.gov.au/communications/campaigns/share_the_air/
or if that fails, just do a search on the NSW government website:
www.nsw.gov.au
.... a few others who are advocating designated sex spaces might want to do a search on that website as well to see what they are really up against.
- Thu 3 Jul 2003 10:29:50
Thu 3 Jul 2003 10:29:50 I think there's a difference between smoking - either you're smoking or you're not - and "indecency" in terms of the Licensing Act. The reality is that there's no generally agreed definition of 'indecency' in terms of the Act. It's entirely dependent on situational interpretation and that's dependent on a whole host of factors. For instance, the law has frequently been used to try and shut down premises/events that might have breached other legal parameters; what was 'indecent' in 1983 might not be now and what's indecent at the Sunnyside Seniors Social Club might not be at, say, "Arq."
It's a notoriously difficult and shifting area to try and get legal clarity and add to that the long, documented history of backhanders and corruption in the NSW licencing industry that has meant one place being 'tolerated' while the next place isn't.
- Thu 3 Jul 2003 12:32:28
Is Friday or Saturday night the gayest at Arq??? That's a funny question. It all depends on how many queers want to go!
The best night is the one when you are the happiest to go out on.
If you want exclusively queer then try Manacle. Next try the Shift.
I have had good nights and bad nights at Arq on either night.
This Saturday, I am going to the Shift but Sundays are for Arq.
I could even be straight, so you may to give it a miss, though.
shine - Thu 3 Jul 2003 16:10:59
QUEEN
DJ Chip and others will be at the midnightSHIFTclub this Saturday night.
Please join me
friendly follower - Thu 3 Jul 2003 16:35:17
Thu 3 Jul 2003 12:32:28, Weren't you at "SHINE" at the Sunnyside Seniors Social Club, circa 1983 ? You're hilarious! No doubt about it, Pinkboard attracts the funny folks.
Party hard, keep smiling - I'm serious!! - Thu 3 Jul 2003 16:54:04
Sleaze... What are the rumors for the Venue. I know Horden was not available for the long weekend but on the 4th?? Is it?? C'mon someone must have heard something or know something. If city live (or whatever it's called now) is mentioned it'll be dead...!
- Thu 3 Jul 2003 18:22:27
The shift this saturday night does look like something that could be worthwhile. I'll be up the ramp having sex and smoking.
- Thu 3 Jul 2003 18:39:44
I'm with you Evil Twin , bring on Sleaze, I want a big party as well. As for there not being too many more, I disagree. Maybe if numbers keep dropping they will drop out RHI and keep Hordern/Dome/City Live etc but it will still go on and no matter how much posters bag Fox for its security ,it will no different in any other venue and Fox is just way too handy to Oxford St.
Just wanna dance ( and meet Evil Twin one day) - Thu 3 Jul 2003 18:59:14
Thu 3 Jul 2003 18:39:44, please bring your sense of humour with you on saturday. I could do with a few more laughs. That's what parties should be about. Lots of good music and nice, funny & happy people.
trite maybe, but true - Thu 3 Jul 2003 22:03:46
Who was the DJ covering Paul's shift last Monday morning? I thought he said his name was Dan Murphy but was it Ryan Murphy?
would like to know - Thu 3 Jul 2003 22:12:23
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